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  • With the snowy holiday season, it’s a perfect time to warn motorists not drive in a jerky manner in the snow. But apparently some people somehow made a giant associative leap and assumed a safety campaign ad was warning against the dangers of jerking off while driving.
    South Dakota cancels ‘Don’t Jerk and Drive’ campaign (Death and Taxes)
  • A Los Angeles County ordinance requiring actors in pornographic films to use condoms does not violate the porn industry’s First Amendment rights of free expression, a federal appeals court ruled Monday.
    Appeals Court Upholds Condom Use in LA Porn Films (ABC News/AP)

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  • The one and only Madonna is looking gorgeous and wearing some hot couture, photographed by Mert Alas & Marcus Piggott in the December/January 2014.15 issue of Interview magazine.
    Madonna by Mert & Marcus (Fashiontography)
  • “…the most egregious aspect of the recent amendments is the way in which the censors have specifically erased sex acts which are associated with domination and female sexual empowerment and yet they have maintained sex acts such as double penetration and bukkake – where several men ejaculate on one woman – which are synonymous with female sexual humiliation. This glaring inequity will do nothing to challenge prehistoric male attitudes to gender roles and objectification. It will, instead, confirm them.”
    Ten Things You Need to Know Before You Censor Porn (Huffington Post UK)
  • I’m trying not to flip out over this. “For months, the adult industry has been buzzing with conjecture that Twitter, which has previously adopted a laissez-faire approach to nudity and sexual content, is cracking down on porn, suspending or permanently banning users for posting adult content. What’s more, some speculate that Twitter isn’t just going after adult content—rather, they’re specifically going after sex workers and adult performers.”
    Is Twitter censoring sex workers? (Daily Dot)

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  • Though he has inarguably effected seismic changes in contemporary gay male culture, altering not only how men meet, but also how they portray and even see themselves, Grindr’s Joel Simkhai thinks of himself, he said, primarily as a service provider.
    The Sex Education of Grindr’s Joel Simkhai (NYT)
  • This article is fantastic: “The running theme through World War II sexual education films is that female sexuality is a serious threat to men’s dominance. In Eberwein’s book, he explains how the films gave servicemen—whose numbers reached 12 million in 1945—visions of emasculation and manhood diminished by openly sexual or promiscuous women.”
    Slut-Shaming, Eugenics, and Donald Duck: The Scandalous History of Sex-Ed Movies (Collectors Weekly)
  • New porn laws banning spanking and caning go too far and Government should not be “sticking their nose into people’s bedrooms”, Nick Clegg has said. The Deputy Prime Minister backed Liberal Democrat MPs who are opposing a ban on a list of erotic acts being shown in porn because they have been judged “harmful”.
    Porn ban goes too far, Nick Clegg says, as he backs ‘face-sitting’ protesters (Telegraph UK)

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  • Warning for survivors of sexual abuse and trauma. Run by the UK Network of Sex Work Projects, Ugly Mugs is a national scheme where sex workers can make anonymous online reports about an incident or the “ugly mug” who attacks them. With the input of sex workers of all genders, they’re about to release an app called Safety Nets.
    TITLE (Vice)

  • Not all is sunny and chipper in the world of professional cheerleading this year. NFL cheerleaders from five squads sued their teams last spring, alleging sub-minimum-wage pay, mandatory “jiggle tests,” and other craptastic working conditions.
    A Not-So-Brief and Extremely Sordid History of Cheerleading (Mother Jones)
  • In her series of controversial videos critiquing sexism in video games, Anita Sarkeesian often focuses on the way games treat sex workers. She doesn’t call sex workers “sex workers.” Instead she refers to them throughout her video series as “prostituted women.” This is rubbing many sex workers the wrong way, to say the least. (…) Another sex worker who questions Sarkeesian’s position, at least indirectly, is Mia Isabella, a transgender porn star who was hired to voice “Prostitute #1″ in Grand Theft Auto V. Isabella saw her work as providing a “fantasy” for teenage boys, and she didn’t see it as necessarily exploitive. Instead, she said she was “honored” to be asked, in part because few, if any, transsexual women have been included in video games.
    Pixelated Prostitution: Feminist Debate Over Sex Work Bleeds Into Video Games (Reason Magazine)

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  • “Sources said that after leaving the room, Peter sighed, concluded his family members were simply at those ages, and decided never to discuss the incident with them.”
    Local Teen Walks In On Family Masturbating (The Onion)

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  • Being gay in Iran is against the law – in fact, being gay can cost you your life as Iran is one of 10 countries which has the death penalty as the maximum punishment for homosexuality. However, Iranian authorities seem to find the idea of being transgender as acceptable. Thus, they assume that those with homosexual feelings is simply a case of being born in the wrong body.
    Being Gay In Iran Means Getting A Sex Change (The New Civil Rights Movement; also on BBC)

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  • LaSalle University Professor of Sociology and Criminal Justice, Dr. Kathleen Bogle says that media coverage of something like sex bracelets, where the color of a bracelet a kid will wear supposedly indicates the sexual activity they have engaged in, or rainbow parties, does more to further the urban legend than to expose actual behavior.
    LaSalle Professor And Author: Fears Around Teen Sexual Behavior Are Vastly Overstated (CBS Philly)
  • There’s a surprising amount of sex talk within the evangelical community. A vast industry is dedicated to publishing Christian self-help books with titles like The Gift of Sex and Sexperiment: 7 Days to Lasting Intimacy with Your Spouse.
    The Warrior Wives of Evangelical Christianity (The Atalantic)

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  • In the summer of 1964 when Sharon Bernstein Peyton was 18 years old, she saw an ad for the new Baltimore Playboy Club opening. Ultra Swank sits down to talk to her about glamour, ambitions, sex and the legend in the silk pajamas.
    Interview: Confessions of a Playboy Bunny (Ultra Swank)
  • More and more technophilic and commitment-phobic millennials are shying away from physical encounters and supplanting them with the emotional gratification of virtual quasi relationships, flirting via their phones and computers with no intention of ever meeting their romantic quarry: less casual sex than casual text.
    With Some Dating Apps: Less Casual Sex Than Casual Text (NYT)
  • DILFs (acronym: “Dad’s I’d Like to Fuck”) of Disneyland is a thing.
    DILFs of Disneyland (Instagram)

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Filthy Housewives by Violet Blue

My next erotica collection Filthy Housewives ($3.89) is an anthology of seven written-to-order stories, and all profits are split with the authors; we all put tons of love into it, and I’m thrilled with every inch of it.

Amazon made the book available for pre-order yesterday — it’s a 100% indie production! My former publisher Cleis Press sold their back catalog (books belonging to me and some of the authors in Filthy Housewives) without telling any of us, and did some really bad things to us before the sale to try and get us to give up more of our digital rights. My last book with Cleis is Best Women’s Erotica 2015 and I have declined their request to do Best Women’s Erotica 2016. This new book, Filthy Housewives, is the beginning of a new direction for those of us who were deceived (and in the end, bullied and threatened) by the former owners of Cleis Press, and it’s a positive, celebratory way for us authors and editors to start a new chapter. Needless to say, I’m honored to be working with, and for these amazing authors, who are true artists that deserve respect, creative freedom, and no-bullshit compensation for their art.

There’s a way you can help support our efforts and get a free copy of Filthy Housewives before it’s available to the public: I’ll trade 10 Amazon reviewers a .pdf copy of the book for an honest review on its Kindle page. Just email me, it’s that easy! Then, write a review of any length within a week — before the book goes on sale November 14th.

Send your email to violet at tinynibbles dot com and I’ll get your copy to you quicker than you can say ‘yay indies’!

So you can see what Filthy Housewives is all about, the introduction is below. As you’ll see, it’s a lot more than your usual erotica collection. I hope you like what we’ve been cooking up!


INTRODUCTION: Modern Wifecraft

After over a decade of editing erotic anthologies, publishing literally hundreds of writers, and more submissions than I dare recount, you might say that I’m a bit picky when it comes to erotica.

Truthfully, I’m a lot picky. Which is why, after ending my ten-year run editing the prestigious (and award-snatching) series Best Women’s Erotica, I wanted to do some very specific things with the erotica collections I’d envisioned and always wanted to make.

Don took me into Kurt’s line, and then he put a packet of mints on the storm-gray conveyor belt. That was all we had. The woman in front of us paid for her groceries—what a lot of cat food she had—and Don smiled at Kurt as the youth rang up our solitary item.

“Can you take a break?” Don asked.

There was nobody behind us. The other checkers seemed to have the traffic flow under control.

“Sure, Sir. Did you…” he looked at the small container of mints. “Did you need help with your groceries?” He asked this with a straight face.

Don laughed. “No, of course not. I need to teach my wife a lesson, and I’d like your help.” Kurt’s gaze flickered over me. I’d had a day already, and it was only eleven in the morning. I wondered what I looked like. Could he tell I’d already been paddled in front of my boss? Could he guess that my ass was throbbing under my clothes? Could he smell that I was so turned on I could have lit someone’s cigarette just by blowing on it?

Kurt turned off the number on his check stand and went over to the manager’s office at the rear of the store.

–Alison Tyler, “Out Of Luck”

Those things are all in Filthy Housewives. The list begins with my desire to handpick writers: the best of today’s erotic authors, focused on areas in which they excel. Authors who are hungry for making a story compelling, imbued with the values savvy erotica readers demand to craft sex-positive, consent- conscious, intense sexual fantasies with characters that make sense, and worlds that wholly lack the sexist trappings of erotic smut that we usually turn to for wilder fantasies.

Next, I wanted to assemble highly literary smutfests on specific topics, ones that address a central turn-on. Like the deviant, crafty modern wife. What happens when we introduce her to the usual wife-themed fantasies? Well, she gets what she wants—and sometimes what she deserves, in the best of ways. And so do we.

“Marcus,” I called down the stairs. “Can you help me out up here?”

“I thought you had Thad,” my husband called back after a moment. I could hear the sound of jazz playing.

I motioned for Thad to come closer to me. I slid one hand into his pants and started to touch his cock. “I do have Thad,” I yelled back. “I have his big hard cock in my hand.”

There was a blast of happy notes as a horn player took a solo. I waited and then called down. “When he’s done fucking me, he’s going to fuck you.”

The music abruptly went off.

I heard footsteps on the stairs. I hurried to push Thad down on the bed. Marcus moved faster than I expected. He was suddenly there, right by the bed, as I shifted aside my copper-colored panties and began to lower myself on Thad’s glorious dick.

“What… what’s going on?” Marcus asked.

I pushed my hips up and then slid down Thad’s pole. “I’m fucking Thad,” I said.

–Ameilia Monroe, “The Professor’s Wife”


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Filthy Housewives by Violet Blue

  • Support indies: My next erotica collection Filthy Housewives ($3.89) is an anthology of seven written-to-order stories, and all profits are split with the authors. Pre-order sales went live today, we all put tons of love into it, and I’m thrilled with every inch of it.
    Filthy Housewives (Amazon)
  • This writer can’t seem to handle that exotic dancers are okay to write about like normal people, but this article holds great news. Washington law requires strip-club dancers to get licenses, and the state Public Records Act requires the release of licenses generally. David Allen Van Vleet, a civil engineer from Pierce County, requested the licenses for dancers at a particular club, later telling the judge he wanted them because he planned to “pray for those dancers by name.” But the dancers sued to stop it—and the judge ordered local officials not to release the licenses, holding that the dancers “are faced with the loss of their First Amendment rights, deprivation of their right of privacy, and threats to their physical safety if their private information is disclosed.”
    Why you can’t get strippers’ names with public records requests (Columbia Journalism Review)

  • Porn stars and studios have called on Google to help publicize legal ways to buy adult content in an effort to combat piracy. Prominent industry figures said they deserved the same measures as those recently introduced to publicize legitimate music and film sites. “Google continues to discriminate against the adult industry,” actress Angela White said.
    Porn stars want Google’s piracy help (BBC)

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  • “I’ve had my body manipulated so many different times for so many different reasons, whether it’s paparazzi photographers or for film posters,” Keira Knightley said. “That [Interview Magazine shoot, image above via] was one of the ones where I said, ‘Okay, I’m fine doing the topless shot so long as you don’t make them any bigger or retouch.’ Because it does feel important to say it really doesn’t matter what shape you are.”
    Keira Knightley takes stand against Photoshop by releasing topless picture (KFOR TV)

  • New research finds we indulge in a wide variety of erotic fantasies. Overall, “reports of submission fantasies were significantly associated with reports of domination fantasies,” they add, “indicating that these fantasy themes are not separate or in opposition.”
    Relax, Your Sexual Fantasies Aren’t All That Strange (PS Mag)

Thank you to our sponsor in Australia, I Feel Myself.

  • Purveying a strangely naive vulgarity, the romantic comedy “Sex Ed” commiserates with Eddie (Haley Joel Osment), 23, a would-be geometry teacher who’s as much a virgin in the bedroom as in the classroom.
    Haley Joel Osment Plays a Teacher in ‘Sex Ed’ (NY Times)

  • Eva Green is the star of Campari’s 2015 calendar, and I couldn’t be more envious — of Green, and of Campari. I’m dying! What a perfect combination.
    Campari 2015 Calendar: Eva Green (

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  • Oh look, another total fucking waste of money. Following the recent signing of the .porn and .adult registry contracts and after a lengthy negotiation with ICANN, ICM Registry on Friday announced its launch dates for .porn and .adult. Starting March 1, 2015, .porn and .adult will be made available for a 30-day period to trademark holders who are registered in the Trademark Clearinghouse (TMCH), as required under ICANN’s Rights Protection Mechanism.
    ICM Registry Announces Launch Dates for .Porn, .Adult (XBIZ)

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Thought this might be of interest, in case you missed it: Nicole Kidman was photographed by Steven Klein for Interview magazine, in a very intense and erotically supercharged fashion editorial that is all about rough sex and consent edgeplay. Afterward, Kidman commented about her experience during the photo session in a conversation with Klein saying, “I do believe that there are many different realms we can exist in, and a lot of this is just a dream state anyway.”

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  • Massive trigger warning for sexual abuse and trauma survivors. Federal Cybersecurity Director Timothy DeFoggi is now the sixth suspect convicted on three child porn charges in Operation Torpedo, an FBI operation that targeted three Tor-based child porn sites and that used controversial methods to unmask anonymized users.
    Federal Cybersecurity Director Found Guilty on Child Porn Charges (WIRED)
  • Eric Anderson, a professor at England’s University of Winchester and “chief science officer” at Ashley Madison, revealed that the website had been monitoring the conversations of its users without their prior knowledge or consent.
    Cheaters, beware: Ashley Madison is spying on your emails (Daily Dot)
  • VICE examines, calling it “the Facebook of incest.” In the website’s lingo, an “active family” is one that embraces having sex with one another. “Enjoy meeting others the same” means “come join us.”
    FAMILY4LOVE is the Facebook of incest (VICE)

  • Foria was founded by Matthew Gerson, who actually also founded another popular, alternative sex company: Sir Richard’s Condoms. Foria takes THC oil from marijuana and combines it with body-friendly coconut oil. The spray aims to get your vagina high, although the company is quick to point out that this is a very different high than smoking a joint.
    THC Lube Hits The Market (Condom Depot)
  • A group of Japanese porn actresses are preparing to have their breasts squeezed by fans for 24 hours this weekend for a charity event loosely translated as “Boob Aid”. The nine adult movie stars told local media on Monday about the “Stop! AIDS” campaign event — which will be televised live — but asked, perhaps somewhat optimistically: please be gentle.
    Boob Aid: Japan porn queens in 24-hour ‘squeeze-a-thon’ (Inquirer)
  • It’s the twentieth anniversary of meterosexual’s coining and the tenth(ish) anniversary of Queer Eye. In reconsidering the metrosexual, we must first distinguish between the metrosexual’s imagined and actual properties. Like hipsterism, metrosexuality is an insult more readily slung than substantiated.
    A Decade Later, Whither the Metrosexual (The Awl)

  • The Taser Photoshoot by photographer Patrick Hall is a series of portraits showing half-naked people being tased by their friends. The taser victims and their taser-happy friends aren’t visible in the photographs so they come across as a series of O faces.
    Watch Naked Friends Taser Each Other For Photoshoot (Oyster Mag)
  • Nicki Minaj‘s video for “Anaconda,” was followed by just one day Taylor Swift‘s new single and video “Shake It Off,” which among its cavalcade of cartoonish dance styles features rows of generous rear bumpers heaving and twerking in an obvious parody of Swift’s pop rival Miley Cyrus (unfortunately also imitating Cyrus in using black women’s bodies as props).
    The Winners and Losers of the Summer of Ass (SPIN)

  • “Being a straight man in a gay bar always felt like some form of treason; as if I had wandered into someone’s home, sat down, and turned on the TV. Everyone knew I wasn’t supposed to be there, but there I was – petting their dog, flipping through channels.”
    The Tourist: A Straight Man’s Trip to a Gay Bar (Nerve)
  • The startup Undercover Colors, which is marketing itself as “the first fashion company to prevent sexual assault,” is currently developing a brand of nail polish that can detect the presence of date-rape drugs, which are generally colorless and odorless, in someone’s beverage.
    Could this nail polish help prevent date rape? (Daily Dot)
  • In the 46 years since the Hitachi Magic Wand was introduced, which bears some resemblance to a bass drum mallet, it has come to represent an awkward duality for many Americans. It’s marketed and sold as a personal massager in department stores and pharmacies, while also serving as a trusted masturbation aid.
    The 46-year-old sex toy Hitachi won’t talk about (Engadget)
  • Here we go again with the PornHub search stats (and unfunny omg-sex wordplay)… “Chances are, if you’re visiting Pornhub, you’re on Windows. 85.5% of all Pornhub visitors are running Windows, while 6.64% of desktops run OS X.”
    How You Watch Porn (FastCo Design)

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Sex News: George Takei’s saucy doc, NYC condom law dead, necrophilia crime

19 August 2014
Love this man so much. The actor George Takei, who plays himself in a new documentary, on the coming-out process, "Star Trek" and feuding with Shatner. A documentary, “To Be Takei,” opens in select cities and on VOD and iTunes Aug. 22. The film is a low-key depiction of Takei’s […]
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Moon Lee by Jean Francois Gschwindt

13 August 2014
Fashion model Moon Lee looks delicious in a new shoot for Bambi Magazine by Jean Francois Gschwindt -- but Bambi's website is so insanely annoying to use in any way, go look at the whole sexy set on Myjestik or Fashionising.
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Sex News: Men who hate women’s erotica, Comic Con trans panel, polyamory study

22 July 2014
VB note: My sweetie is running the SF Marathon this Sunday to raise money for The Trevor Project, an LGBT youth suicide prevention organization. Help us meet (or beat!) our goal! While American generals have been criticized for their handling of an epidemic of sexual assaults, Australia's army chief, David Morrison, […]
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Sex News: Dick pics on wiped eBay phones, X-Art scummery, all the Bill Gates birth control, Brazil

9 July 2014
Prince Fielder shows off (and defends) his naked body in this year's ESPN The Magazine Body Issue. Here are the pics:— Mike Oz (@mikeoz) July 8, 2014 Since the decline of Prenda Law, the most litigious copyright holder in the US is Malibu Media, a porn company that runs the […]
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Sex News: Bodies in suitcases, Tinder, polyamory, Kink statement on arrests

4 July 2014
Above: Amber Heard by Steven Klein | W Magazine Look up the code F66.0 in the International Classification of Diseases (ICD), the world's most widely used diagnostic reference, and you’ll find sexual maturation disorder. That seemingly official psychological condition occurs when uncertainty about sexual orientation makes a person depressed or anxious, […]
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Sex News: Cosplay porn costumes, The Porn Flâneur, EFF on FBI’s sex work raids, Tinder’s rotten core

2 July 2014
Adult movie company ZIZ Entertainment recently auctioned off several costumes featured in its cosplay-themed porn videos Taimanin Asagi and Taimanin Yukikaze, which is based on the adult computer games by the same name. And people are willing to pay top dollar, er, yen, for the used outfits. Cosplay Porn Outfits Fetching […]
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Sex News: The amazing Spider Man boner, pool raft humper

16 June 2014
Image: From LIFE Magazine's 'Hays Code' issue (1940). I'm pretty sure this is where Instagram got their nudity guidelines. Go home X-Art, you're too drink to fuck. The nation’s largest source of “pay us or we’ll sue and tell everyone about the porn we say you downloaded” legal threats -- Malibu […]
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Sex News: Google AdWords sex crackdown, Agender, sex crimes and dolphin sex

12 June 2014
A recent e-mail from the Google AdWords Team to advertisers employing its popular service for getting visitors to websites, warns of upcoming changes to the company’s advertising policies that will eliminate its use by adult -- and potentially NSFW -- companies. Google Gores Adult: An Industry Perspective (XBIZ) GQ gave a reporter […]
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Sex News: The Elliot Rodger PUA murders and #YesAllWomen, Oculus Rift porn app

24 May 2014
Because Facebook won't take down the "Elliot Rodger is a Hero" page. Get your shit together, @facebook. #YesAllWomen— tellì (@telliproclaims) May 25, 2014 On Friday night, 22-year-old student Elliot Rodger killed six people and wounded seven more in Santa Barbara: Rodger shot himself before police caught him. According to his […]
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Sex News: Pornbots, big penis problems, Giger, OkCupid ghostwriter

22 May 2014
Photo of Madonna by Tom Munro for L'Uomo Vogue (Italia) May/June 2014. What could possibly be offensive about an adorable anthropomorphic vulva who wants to teach women how to masturbate? According to the Apple app overlords, quite a bit. In disappointing news for those awaiting the educational female-masturbation app HappyPlayTime, designer […]
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Sex News: Porn by Wes Anderson, the fake orgasm scale, lust for fat men

16 May 2014
Above: "A Porno by Wes Anderson" The data showed that 21% of women and 32% of men watch live sex shows online. Skype sex is also increasingly common, with 26% of respondents saying they had "had sexual relations via a webcam," while 48% said they would do so if given the […]
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Sex News: Penthouse does BBW, MD cops livetweet prostitution raids, Samuel L. Jackson and RedTube

5 May 2014
More than 4,000 Chinese citizens have applied to be porn watchdogs, or "sexual content appraisers," as Internet companies create new jobs to comply with the newest government crackdown on Internet pornography. The job description requires porn watchdogs to be between the ages of 20 and 35; they can be male […]
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Sex News: Rihanna’s porny Lui shoot, male rape stats, Doctor Who porn parody, Lego for BJ’s

30 April 2014
Don't get hacked. Make safe online profiles. Fight back against harassment. Learn how in The Smart Girl's Guide to Privacy (also on iTunes). Encore une EXCLU @lui : @Rihanna nue en couverture du n°7 ! Dispo en kiosque dès demain.— Lui Magazine (@lui) April 29, 2014 Lui Magazine May 2014 […]
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Sex News: Terry Richardson, more UK online porn laws, robot sex workers, John Turturro

23 April 2014
People in the UK who want to watch pornography will have to prove they are 18 under new Government proposals to stem children's exposure to online sex. New laws are being drawn up that will force adults to prove their age with credit card details or other documents before they […]
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