Out front, there are no trees, no patches of dirt, just long wide filthy sidewalks glittering with broken glass, stained with feces, smelling sharply of urine. The flat patchy painted front of the building seems to make the sun hotter, the smell thicker. I am early for my 11am meeting. Inside there is dank old…

*** 2/8: Links to pics moved to my server and they now work. Fotki didn’t have the bandwidth to handle the traffic! I house sit for a friend a couple of times a year. She’s an older Jewish lesbian mom. A dynamo. With a hot tub and two cute cats, and a quiet house with…

Things are really shaping up for Porn Chat with Violet Blue, the radio show I’m hosting for the next three Saturdays… The handsome and sassy Jack Shamama from GayPornBlog.com will be with me on my virgin show tomorrow night at 5:30 pm PST to talk about bad porn, what it’s like to be the "it…

Get yourself in a sideways-smiley mood with this awesome flash animation music video Everyone Has had More Sex Than Me, sent to me by my mind-bogglingly sexy London pen-pal… "just went trawling a bit of porn after your comment about "My ass is haunted" and one link led to another and I found this http://daemlich.net/2736"…

First, let’s do a little Thursday mailbag. I checked the mail, and what did I see… one copy of Evil Angel/Nacho Vidal’s Face Fuckers, their fist all-male video in what appears to be an all-male line. The mainstream industry is all wondering, is Nacho gay? Well, looking at the elephant-trunk-dicked Nacho grinning on the cover…

Friday night I was out at a club, and about the time we all were getting tossed out (last call), I ran into that hot little trumpet player that I made out with (and got lovingly molested by), from the Marching Band. We hugged, and she promptly took me to task. "I read your blog…

I finally figured it out. The gays do have an agenda. No, my good friends at Focus on the Family are wrong again, it has nothing to do with flamboyant sponges. On Tuesday I went into my favorite local gay video rental store, the really huge one in the Castro. I always have an interesting…

Mail. Lots of mail. I’m getting so much mail from readers that I’m buried in it. Here’s a good one: > Violet,I keep hearing about a position called "Dirty Sanchez" What is this position and how do you feel about it? Thanks for all the information you share, I feel you make this world a…

Great news — my cunnilingus and fellatio books are being translated into Spanish! That’ll be French, Spanish and ‘merican. Can’t wait to see what "tongue fucking" is in Spanish. The response is overwhelming — Europeans love it when I do a fake Southern accent in my podcasting. How nasty! But can they tell the difference…