Now, if I owned a men’s underwear concern (and hopefully someday I will), this is exactly how I would present my products. Except I would call this The One-Armed Bandit Banana Hammock. Seriously, how does that thing stay on/up? I’d love to be in the team of engineers that worked round the clock on that…

A friend wrote me recently asking for toy suggestions for leading her boy-toy down the road to bend-over-boyfriend bliss; more friends emailed about gifts for their lovers; I just wrote a San Francisco focused sexy gift guide for SFist; next, an autofellatiotasticmeta gift guide roundup for Fleshbot. But in all of that, I felt like…

From the ten mile long RE/Search email I got from my pal Vale: > 4. SRL founder Mark Pauline has to move his legendary “shop” where > SRL has been headquartered for almost 25 years. Blame the anti-artist > unreal-estate conspiracy. RE/Search, in cahoots with > MarkPauline-AmyCritchett-KarenMarcelo–Scott Beale–Eddie Codel & > more… is barely beginning…

I’m taking nominations for my list of the Top Ten Sexiest Geeks of 2005 — email me at violet at tinynibbles dot com with suggestions. Or, tell me who you *don’t* think deserves to be on the list; all confidentiality will be respected to the utmost. I’ll publish the list here on my blog next…

Last night’s Sex Machines show was excellent! BUT, my SRL friend Eddie showed up with Irina Slutsky, who cornered me and said “Hi, I’m Irina Slutsky. Can we interview you for Geek Entertainment Television and then can you take over as a guest correspondant and do interviews — I feel sick and need to go…

Tribe.net started implementing their version of adhering to 2257 laws, and the Smart Girls’ Porn Club, among other tribes, is affected. My permanent link to the discussion group of over 450 women about porn, may not be a valid link for much longer. Women in the club lamented Tribe having the “2257 brick thrown at…

If you’re in San Francisco tonight, please do check out my pal Timothy Archibald‘s Sex Machines: Photographs and Interviews slideshow and talk at Modern Times Bookstore. Timothy wrote an amazing piece about his sex machine travels and experiences all over America in my book Best Sex Writing 2005, and we’re both familiar with 888 Valencia,…

Not only is my pal Tony Comstock causing trouble with his HOT, free trailer of Damon and Hunter, and offering free shipping through the holidays, but now he’s launched a video podcast of explicit bits from his films. He says it’s all my fault: “Just saw your new sexy podcasts post in Fleshbot, and wanted…

Podcast listeners: Do not panic if you notice that Open Source Sex 21 video disappears off my feed: the file is still available and accessible through my audio page and my Libsyn page. I’m making changes in the way I do video podcasts, and making them optional for listeners, rather than an automatic download. I…