Oh, Regis… see what happens when Kathie isn’t around to monitor your blogads!? This irresistable screencap is fresh off my friend (author, feminist, sex-positive pundit) Audacia Ray‘s new blog for the Village Voice, Naked City. In this post, she’s reviewing my online pal Porno Jim’s passion: The Porno Jim Show, his fun comedy act (and…
Month: April 2008
A moment of sweetness
When I was leaving the house a day ago, my downstairs neighbor opened the door right when I came out, and said… oh, hey! we’ve been seeing your name *everywhere* these days…” I thought uh-oh, but smiled — I have a great relationship with my neighbors. But I’ve never really told them what I do.…
More on sex + body image, Immodesty Blaize, other jiggly links worth considering
Image of sumptuous British burlesque dancer Immodesty Blaize by the also-stunning Loraine Ross. * Bombshell Betty comments on the Ugly Violet (trolls and female sexual self-image) column I wrote, and takes the discussion ever further with more sage advice in body love/hate — and don’t miss her excellent post How to look confident when you’re…
The nightmare of free porn
So I’ll be doing a lot of text posts for a while, until I get a new set of backwards-skating WordPress workarounds figured out — like sharing this scary-accurate retelling of what it’s like to be a porn reviewer: the highs, and oh, the lows… The Pro Circuit: Free Porn, A Nightmare could have easily…
Radio silence
Sorry about the quiet day here; my WordPress upgrade was a really unfortunate idea. I miss Movable Type!
Hot gay sex and Jay Leno’s gayest look
Image by my friend Jack Shamama. This week’s SF Chronicle column is Hot gay sex is for homophobes: Psych study links homophobia and homoerotic arousal; Violet Blue wants Jay Leno to know he’s safe. The comments are already over 500 and my inbox is crammed with everything from comments like, “What a crock of Shit…
A stellar, deep review for Best Women’s Erotica 2008
Image by the extremely talented, ahem, well-named Violent Indigo (no relation!) I poured my blood, sweat and other precious fluids into editing Best Women’s Erotica 2008, and so far the reviews have been overwhelmingly great. Today, my publisher sent me Erotica Revealed’s in-depth review, and I’m blown away. I feel sort of looked at from…
Kink.com pranked
I just got an email from my friend who works at Kink.com, reading: When I got to work at the SF Armory this morning, [name redacted], who directs Behind Kink, asked me if Peter’s Assistant had found me yet. I said she had not, why was she looking for me? “To tell you about the…