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I wanted to give Pandora Blake Dreams of Spanking a little love this week. Ms. Blake is in a predicament thanks to an adult website payment processor that can’t be bothered to update its definitions of both modern pornography and consensual sex. Adult payment processor CCBill told the female pornographer (and performer) that her website was now un-approved because it, upon a review triggered by her own update of records, runs afoul of CCBill’s content guidelines.

Wow, you’re thinking. Those must be some *extreme* spankings.

Er, no. They are sexy, playful, entirely consensual, fair-trade, highly creative, kinky, focused on the female experience, frequently male submissive, sometimes about deep personal journeys, they are about a 3 on the scale of zero to Kink.com, and – importantly – they are wholly nerdy spankings.

However, CCBill told her that things need to change if her little indie pornsite would still qualify for payment processing. Along with telling her the word “consent” needs to be removed from all pages on the site:

Short version: they said I needed to remove all the age play scenes, all the sword-fighting scenes, all scenes showing red/purple marks, and any use of the word “force”. This amounted to a lot of content. Never mind that none of this was picked up on in their review last week, and their requirements are repeatedly arbitrary and inconsistent. Never mind that it means taking content offline that members have already paid for [via CCBill]. It all needed to go.

I am furious that after all my efforts to create a site that shows the enthusiastic consent and ethical production behind the porn I make as clearly, accessibly and transparently as possible, I am still being fucked over. This has nothing to do with the UK extreme porn legislation, and little to do with Visa’s requirements – far more severe sites accept credit cards perfectly happily.

(…) Ludwig and Kaelah’s severe caning scene “The Final Test”. The majority of this caning was deemed too physically severe – despite the fact that the film was an exercise in representing positive, consensual severity, with a sensitive storyline focused on the empowerment of Kaelah’s character, and two extended behind the scenes documentaries including interviews with Kaelah and showing the way the scene was filmed. I was given the option of hacking the film up to remove most of the cane strokes and deleting over half of the screengrabs, but I have no desire to mutilate a film into which Kaelah poured so much energy and creativity. It’s been deleted from Dreams of Spanking in its entirety.

The two scenes which included a sword fight or duel as part of the set-up for the spanking scene both needed similarly gutting. Any images or video sequences in which a sword was pointed directly at a model were forbidden. Even though in our comedic nautical romp ‘The Pirates of the Jolly Kraken’, the swords in question were rubber LARP swords.

Likewise the wooden bokken in ‘The Avenger’s Return’, and Amelia’s fencing foil with its capped end. They both counted. It all had to go. (…read more, with photos, darker-dreams.com)

LARP swords. CCBill forbids LARP swords based on realism.

We can all tell that Pandora Dreams is not harmful – in fact, with its stress on consent and safety, it is a shining example of positive adult sexual fantasy depictions.

So why can’t CCBill?

Madness.

Updated to include this eloquent response to the wisdom of CCBill representatives:


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  • The Senate Armed Services Committee this week adopted “a bipartisan package which we believe is the strongest and most effective approach to sexual assaults,” said Sen. Carl Levin, D-Mich., chairman of the committee, in remarks to reporters this week.
    House passes defense bill with tough sexual assault provisions (CBS News)
  • According to the new Pew Research Center world survey on gay tolerance, the least tolerant nations surveyed was Pakistan, where only 2 percent of those surveyed said society should accept homosexuality. Yet at the same time, Pakistan was by volume the world leader for Google searches of the terms “shemale sex,” “teen anal sex,” and “man fucking man,” according to Google Trends.
    Why Is Gay Porn So Popular in Pakistan? (Mother Jones)

  • “Love is All” (viewable here) is not only a highly sensual porn short, it happens to be the first porn video made with a Kinect. The dots that make up the actors’ bodies are derived from an infrared camera, the Kinect, which was originally designed for Microsoft’s Xbox 360 system to allow players to interact with their games by jumping around their living rooms, no controller needed.
    The World’s First Kinect Porn (Animal New York)

  • Beautiful art installation (“Rain Interactive“) with a fun backstory: the Luz crew were partly into setting up their screen of pendulous condoms, which were mood-lit in blue from internal LEDs, when they found themselves surrounded with children curious about what was going down in their neighborhood. The artists swiftly enlisted the wee ones in injecting and tying the swollen condoms while attempting, unsuccessfully, to prevent them from lobbing the things at each other like water balloons.
    Yes, This Public Sculpture Is Really Made From Condoms (The Atlantic Cities)
  • Broach the most difficult topics in the world with sex columnist and author Dan Savage – including the kinds that involve animals, children and feces (seriously, this exists) – and he has no problem talking about any of it. But ask if any of the tens of thousands of questions he has received over the years have ever given him an idea in bed and suddenly he’s… shy?
    Dan Savage In the Flesh Is…Shy? (FishbowlDC)
  • More on the feminist tech organization (Ada Initiative) that got my most recent sex talk censored by lying, threatening the convention organizers – only for everyone to later discover it was all for a publicity stunt to get their org into Marie Claire. It worked, to the great anger of several hacking communities. “A non-profit organisation that aims to increase the participation of women in free and open source software and culture is using coverage of a rather dubious sort to solicit donations from the public…”
    Money makes the mare – and the Ada Initiative – go (IT Wire)
  • Feminism needs an anti-censorship wake-up call. “Feminists are more likely than other liberal pro-censorship groups to find themselves on the same side as conservatives. While bemoaning the war on women, they inadvertently support it, by advancing regressive, stereotypic notions of male and female sexuality.”
    When Conservative Senators Sound Like Anti-Porn Feminists (The Atlantic)
  • This is exactly the kind of story I’ve always hoped someone would write. Ph.D. student Zhana Vrangalova documents how a scientific study on sex makes it from the academic journal in which it was published to the mainstream media, and what happens to it along the way? See who distorted her findings and how misreporting affects accurate sex information.
    Sex Science News: From Academic Journals to the Media (Zhana Vrangalova, via Ariel Waldman)

  • Hilary Clinton’s team is in an uncomfortable spotlight: The U.S. State Department’s ability to investigate wrongdoing by employees is being reviewed after a report of cover-ups of alleged criminal activity, including sexual assaults, the use of prostitutes by security staff and an ambassador suspected of trolling a park for sex.
    State Department Handling of Sex-Assault Claims Reviewed (Bloomberg)
  • At least 23 Canadian women who were taking two of the most commonly prescribed birth control pills in the world have died, CBC News has learned. According to documents obtained from Health Canada, doctors and pharmacists say Yaz and Yasmin are suspected in the deaths of the women, who mostly died suddenly from blood clots.
    Yaz, Yasmin birth control pills suspected in 23 deaths (CBC News)
  • The latest news in legislating involuntary porn, prosecuting involuntary porn and cyber vigilantism and a stalled justice system (“right or wrong, Anonymous delivers”).
    Without My Consent’s Weekly Roundup (newsletter, WMC)

  • Men’s options for birth control are severely limited. Doctors and scientists have for decades searched for more effective and desirable male contraception options. Researchers in China now propose a nonsurgical, reversible, and low-cost method; they show that infrared laser light heats up gold nanorods injected into mice testes, leading to reduced fertility in the animals.
    Experimental Male Birth Control Puts Gold In Your Testes (Popular Science)
  • Great post by friend and colleague Paul Joannides clearing up questions raised by the recent Michael Douglas oral sex/throat cancer headlines. “…the media has had a field day claiming that oral sex is the cause of oral cancer. There are also physicians and celebrities who are making statements about oral sex and oral cancer which are not based in science. Here are the facts versus the hype.”
    Oral Cancer and Oral Sex (Psychology Today)
  • The Food and Drug Administration posted six more advisories warning consumers about sexual enhancement products last Monday. The blacklisting of six brands of penis pills is the largest number announced at one time by the federal regulatory agency. So far, the FDA has blacklisted 20 penis pills, including Monday’s six, since January.
    6 More Penis Pills Placed on FDA Blacklist (XBIZ)
  • Great essay by gay male porn star Frankie Valenti. “They don’t prepare you in some “Porn Star 101″ course about what is going to happen to you personally when you are crowned a “porn star.” Things change that are permanent and not always for the best. (…) Men think that I will sleep with anybody, including them, that I have no tastes of my own and fuck as much as I breathe. ”
    Frankie Valenti: Gay Porn: Why Did I Survive? (HuffPo)

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voracious by violet blue

People seem to really be liking my newest erotic anthology, Voracious. I think the hot cover helps a lot (thanks Cleis Press!) but the true shine comes from within: the many extremely talented authors I got to work with when putting this dirty sexy beauty together.

The foreword is by someone I’m a huge fan of – if you ever got into the Carrie’s Story/Safe Word books (holy yum, they are the thinking girl’s 50 Shades), then you’ll know who Molly Weatherfield (aka Pam Rosenthal) is. I was blown away when I found out she was writing a piece for the start of Voracious, and even more so when I read what she wrote… Here’s a snip from Alison Tyler‘s contribution, “Worth It”:

“I want you to hold me down and fuck me hard. Don’t treat me like myself, or like a woman at all—treat me like an animal,” I told him, the last such pronouncement I would make. Aidan was the kind of guy who always made me feel depraved, and he had a special knack for making my pussy tighten so fiercely I worried that it would stay that way permanently, the way parents warn their kids their eyebrows will stay furrowed if they keep on frowning. I’d been lusting after him for almost a year, but had finally broken through my own fear and told him what I wanted from him, only to find he felt the same way.

I’d never asked anyone anything of the sort – a little spanking, a few minutes of bondage, a few dirty words thrown my way, but that was about it. This was different. This was real, raw. That’s how much I wanted him. At first, I wasn’t sure if he got what I was saying—I didn’t want him to hold back, at all. I could tell that he had been holding back, just enough to make me long for more, to make me feel slightly put off, as if he thought I was too fragile to take what he could really give me.

Speaking of ‘what she wrote’ – I wanted to tell you one more thing about Voracious. It got a great 5-star review by Erzabet Bishop. Never heard of her? If you read erotica, you should get to know her – she’s a rabid, non-stop erotica reviewer. And her reviews are tightly-spun tours of any one book’s tale (or tales), and she manages to do it with zero spoilers. All I have to say is that as a former copywriter for book and video sales – it’s no small thing to be a great review writer. And much to my relief and happiness, she really sunk her teeth into Voracious:

(…) Voracious comes across my desk and I am hopelessly enthralled. Or I guess the right term is voraciously enthralled. The title really does say it all.

The foreword by Molly Weatherfield (Carrie, Safe Word) sets the stage for a festival of wanting, needing each and every story within the cover of this book. Nineteen tales of unbridled lust and some very original points of view make this anthology one that will have you looking at things in a whole new light. Sting is king here, make no mistake about it.

(…) “Becky” by Kay Jaybee is an job you will never forget. We all know about performance plans and developmental discipline. What happens when Becky spills the coffee and the whole office gets to watch her very public shaming? An epic story of impact play and control, “Becky” made me long for a really good caning and had me squirming in my seat. Yes, this tale is a multifaceted festival of lights. Voyeurism, impact play, f/f, m/f and some pretty strict working conditions made this one scorcher of a read.

(…) “Worth It” by Alison Tyler has to be one of the most erotic anal sex stories I have ever read. Wanting and longing for the touch of a lover that just isn’t interested pushes our girl to new heights of suggestion and creativity. Alison Tyler never disappoints. Ever.

(…) Voracious is just what the title suggests. Each of the nineteen stories in this collection meets editor Violet Blue’s exquisite standards of taste and sheer kink. These are not your run of the mill girl meets flogger stories. Oh no. This is the stuff that new fetishes are born from. These stories will haunt your daydreams (…)

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I’m a big fan of Tony Kelly’s outrageous work and I just found his spread from GQ Turkey, issue March 2013 – don’t miss the entire set here.

Tony Kelly’s gallery gives us a taste of what GQ is like in a country whose anti-fascist protests have brought global scrutiny on its excessive use of force on protesters, has dubbed the ongoing protests the “Turkish Spring” and is probably about to get a whole lot worse. I didn’t expect GQ in Turkey (99.8% Muslim) to be far pornier and pro-nipple than its sadly tame, prudish-by-comparison American counterpart…

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Sex News: Wonder Woman XXX, Anonymous KY, Stoya, ex-gay anal satan babies

9 June 2013
Buzzfeed spends a day on-set with director Axel Braun (Batman XXX, others) while he films 'Man of Steel XXX: An Axel Braun Parody' and 'Wonder Woman XXX: An Axel Braun Parody'. Great photos, and Kim Kane looks amazing as Wonder Woman. When Fanfic Becomes Porn (Buzzfeed, image right via) Antiporn feminist Gail […]
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Eye Candy: Quickies

4 June 2013
Just a few quickies - don't forget there's always a lot more of this handpicked, free sweetness in the Eye Candy archives. Maria - Warm-up Emily - White Valeria - Longhaired Expert Guide To Rough Sex Directed by Tristan Taormino (film excerpt video and stills; main post photo) Blanche and Steve - Casual Afternoon Aleska […]
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[Video] Skin Diamond for StripLVTV

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Here's a slow and very sexy video of Skin Diamond for StripLVTV, a "sexy Las Vegas" digital men's magazine. Plenty of eye candy and porn stars/adult models we love on StripLVTV's site if you dig around, but this video was among my favorites.
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Just Another IKEA Catalog: IKEA furniture and accessories in amateur porn

2 June 2013
Just Another IKEA Catalog is an absolute;y brilliant blog that is collecting animated .gifs of IKEA furniture and accessories in amateur porn, catalog-style. Along with Indifferent Cats in Amateur Porn, Just Another IKEA Catalog is now one of my all-time favorites among the most exquisitely simple ideas which blend porn […]
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Today: TROUBLEfilms releases bikesexual porn film “Come Find Me”

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Some people prefer porn films, some prefer quick get-to-the-point scenes. While I have usually found myself in the latter category more often than not (depends on utility vs. quality, etc), I can't wait to see new porn film "Come Find Me" by TROUBLEfilms, which officially released today and has a […]
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Sex News: Penal sperm, Google Glass porn, a female porn viewer’s woes

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Sexual Album Covers From The 50s And 60s (Sabotage Times, image via) Adult Android app store MiKandi are making porn with Google Glass and expect an app launch as soon as this week. Post includes video! And I'll get more info soon... MiKandi making Google Glass porn, app imminent (ZDNet) This is what […]
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Eye Candy: Very hot, gorgeous porn – and new Michael Ninn!

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I am a longtime Michael Ninn fan. Yay! Renee Perez: Renee Perz Solo HOP2 by Michael Ninn Cassidey, Georgia Jones: Georgia Jones And Cassidey - Pearls by Michael Ninn (main post image) Tanya James: I Am Tayna James by Michael Ninn Michelle H, Norma Joel - Inmergo Kloffina A - Presenting Kloffina Malena Morgan - Phoenix Carla […]
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Yet another Jenya D aka Eugenia Diordiychuk post of longing

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I've been crushed out on Jenya D aka Katie Fey aka Ukrainian Playboy Playmate Eugenia Diordiychuk for so many years, it's ridiculous. Shameless in a lust that is both pointless and simultaneously a reliable provider of private time well-spent, I found two videos to share that I hadn't seen that […]
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[Video] Nicky da B “Go Loko”

21 May 2013
Some readers will remember I am a fan of Sissy Bounce (see: [Video] Queer Rapper Sissy Nobby’s Ass-Tastic Butt-Bouncing “Quack” from 2010). Here's crazy awesome Nicky da B in “Go Loko” - sailing the giddy oversexed seas of uber-jiggly ass in 4 1/2 minutes of delirious WTF complete with SEIZURE […]
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Support Dildology: Independent sex toy materials safety evaluation

18 May 2013
After over a decade of working with indie sex toy companies and sex educators, while warning and advising the public on unsafe sex toys, I'm giving a heavy endorsement to the Dildology project. My unsafe sex toys and products page was one among a few good starts - now some […]
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Sex News: Panda gangbang, Semenology reviews, Tumblr’s misdeeds, LinkedIn bans escorts

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If Yahoo! succeeds in its attempt to acquire Tumblr, it is most certainly doomed. Yahoo! will end up with one of the hottest Internet properties ($1 billion valuation), with access to the coveted youth market and a foothold in mobile - and a lot of porn. Tumblr’s terms of service […]
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Big boobs and badass babes: Art by The Ultra Fem

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Lisa M. Hayes has been making outrageous big-boob (almost crosses into BE*), strong-woman and fantasy character art and commissions as The Ultra Fem since 2005. I only just discovered Ultra Fem's whimsical - explicit fetish - art world when a thoughtful friend sent me this link to Erin Esurance In […]
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Eye Candy: Pretty Porn Video Mélange

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Madison Young - Midori's Expert Guide to Sensual Bondage (main post photo, above) Adrianna Nicole - Midori's Expert Guide to Sensual Bondage Tristan Taormino's Expert Guide To Oral Sex: Fellatio Chemistry 1 Directed by Tristan Taormino Simona - Desert Wind Carisha - My Kind of Woman Lorena G., Belinda - Dangerous Liasons Josephine - Wake Me Up Anna […]
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[Video] Year Of The Bush IV: The Rise Of The Phoenix

6 May 2013
The newest video Year Of The Bush IV: The Rise Of The Phoenix stars Cam (Camille) Damage, who declared 2012 "Year of the Bush" and made lots of sexy media for the awesome webzine and video maker tsurofoto (aka Aaron Tsuru - is above. And there are more below. Buy and […]
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