If you’re unfamiliar with Erika Moen’s comics – Oh Joy, Sex Toy – then you should really drop everything and see why her comics have attained a truly beloved cult status in fun, smart, sexy places all over the internet. Oh Joy, Sex Toy is more than just a sex comic, it’s a delightful dose…
Month: June 2014
Porn Privacy and Safety
Privacy guard for porn: how to surf in safety. Confidentiality and safety are important to everyone, and it’s a challenge to know when you can trust adult sites or online shops — and when you shouldn’t. Also, we want to be sure our browsing is private, and stays that way, thank you very much. You…
Real Sex and Porn Sex
This is where the illusion of porn is ruined for you: The “amateurs,” “strangers on the street” and “first-timers” you see in porn productions are screened, contracted and tested before the camera starts recording. If you think a Kink.com public gangbang shoot is anything but meticulously planned, then Kink has done its job to make…
Women Who Want to Watch Porn: What to Expect
If you’re a woman who has never really seen pornography, admitting to yourself that you want to watch porn or explicit sexual imagery may take some — or a lot of — forethought. And if you think that all porn is nothing more than pool boys and women with poor payment negotiation skills and eternal…
From An Anti-Porn Activist: One Woman’s Journey
This is an interesting item, especially on the tail end of discovering that the poster girl for today’s feminist anti-porn charge — Gail Dines — has had her own (now former) research assistant publicly oppose Dines’ anti-porn arguments. After working with her former boss and mentor for an unspecified amount of time, female research intern…
Anti-Porn Profiteers: What They’re Selling
With a sexy fetish boot on the cover that teases you with kinky sex imagery, Gail Dines’ new book “Pornland: How Porn Has Hijacked Our Sexuality” looks primed to validate everyone’s wildest fears about pornography. Dines prefers to shock people into trusting her opinions and beliefs about porn and human sexual relationships at face value,…
Porn Addiction
There are no unbiased studies that have shown, proven or provide a factual basis for the belief that viewing pornography is a “gateway drug” for anything. Some organizations and porn addiction pundit (such as Doug Weiss of Addicted.com) attempt to support this claim with pseudo-science such as suggesting – but never proving in unbiased studies…
Porn Is For The Emotionally Stunted
“Only People Who Can’t Have A “Real” Relationship Watch Porn” This is one of the most hurtful myths that shames people into sexual isolation. Saying that anyone who masturbates to fantasy, or uses anything to enhance masturbation, is somehow flawed, emotionally crippled, mentally ill, or worse – hopeless and unable to connect intimately in a…
Porn Degrades Women
For most people, the idea of a woman being shamed, degraded or sexually harmed for someone’s viewing pleasure is not acceptable, nor is it in the least bit arousing. This is especially true for porn viewers. However, a frequent accusation is that watching porn, participating in porn, and creating porn are all facets of directly…
Porn Is Desensitizing
Fear: Porn will make me need harder — and harder — stuff Article warning for readers who are survivors of sexual assault, abuse, and trauma. There are no unbiased studies that have shown, proven or given any truth to the idea that viewing pornography is a “gateway drug” for anything. That’s like saying that someone…