Image “Fire (Show Me Light)” by Rai Robledo (rairobledo.com). I know — I’m opening up nominations two days later than usual (disclaimer: I’m in Paris right now to speak about the future of sex on a global stage; it’s all okay). But like 2005, ‘06, ‘07 (’08), and ’09, I’ll be posting the Top Ten…
Year: 2009
On talking to doctors about sex
Image by helenaa75. My most recent San Francisco Chronicle column was really popular, and even got me invited to more than one medical convention. In the The Sex Doctor is Out, I cover the topic of finding a sex-positive doctor (at the very least one you can talk to about sex comfortably), and how to…
A festive holiday CL Casual Encounter
Image by artsy_j. Leave it to Craigslist Casual Encounters to make those Starbucks holiday beverages into something dirty. From San Fransisco, a dispatch: Starbucks bj after Peppermint Lattes, you said my tongue was minty – w4m – 18 (laurel hts / presidio) I lost my contacts and was walking into walls, you were kind enough…
More love from the help desk? Yes, please!
The cool peeps at Zendesk have been at it again with more love from and for the help desk; I was told there was a lot of talk about this one before adding it… We sexy geek fans are glad they did! Help Desk Love Gone WAY Too Far is cute! and who is that…
Love the help desk? Thought you’d never ask…
Now that is customer service. December 8 is the official ‘love your help desk agent’ day — who knew? No one! It’s new! Thanks to Zendesk we now have Love Your Help Desk Day, to encourage a moment of appreciation for help desk customer support reps. To this end they’ve made (among other things like…
For the love of FLNGS: Best multi-user sex blog
I recently discovered what has to be the best multi-contributor sex blog (for visual erotic art) on the internet right now: FLNGS (latenightfeelings.com). It includes the ongoing contributions of legendary talents Nathan Appel, Bob Coulter, Chase Lisbon, Merkley???, George Pitts, Tony Stamolis and now, Katie West. Right now one of the hottest girls on the…
Actually, most commercial porn is dangerous because it might bore you to death
Image by artsy_j. The other risk with porn is that you may end up in anger management classes while waiting for your skintube video to buffer. Other than that, when you find hot porn, no one gets hurt unless they’ve carefully negotiated the scene beforehand and then asked the lady with the whip very nicely.…
Kittehs are always a welcome distraction
The above image is part of a must-see larger piece by Eric Elenbaas (ericelenbaas.nl, via). It’s a lovely distraction for a girl who should be rehearsing her next appearance… And while on the subject of eros and kittehs, this pic brought a smile to my face tonight (ponyxpress.tumblr.com).
Women and Porn: On Oprah
Here I am, talking to Oprah about porn. Yay! She’s really fun to talk to. I just found the above segment with my appearance on the show via Twitter. A little over a week ago I was delighted to be a guest on The Oprah Winfrey Show to talk about female porn consumers, and much…
The climate in which the sex-positive phone platform wins
Image by Noah Kalina. The iPhone’s app store has long had a reputation for prudery. So it doesn’t surprise me to see the Android pulling ahead with an open model that shows it has the market awareness to truly survive in the wild, allowing room for things like the just-announced, adults-only app store for the…