wow: the winners of the Feminist Porn Awards

13 April 2010
Let's just say that these films would make a certain anti-porn feminist-identified troll rust out her chastity belt. Or switch sides. When Good For Her posted the nominations for their annual Feminist Porn Awards, I was excited to discover hot new faces in the exploding world of female-fueled porn. (Which […]
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The VB List: favorites, improved

12 April 2010
This week's VB List answers a few of your requests in high style at decent prices -- and shows that the Hitachi Magic Wand has had some recent updates. What's so great about the Hitachi? If you're unfamiliar with this orgasmic powerhouse, it's a staple of women's sex toy boutiques […]
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new work by Danilo Pasquali

11 April 2010
Caught this in my Flickr contacts' updates -- I'm happy to see that Danilo Pasquali (Undressed) has been shooting again. Love it. More after the jump :) (more...)
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Daily Kos: sex and politics, there’s no shame in that

11 April 2010
Image by Tanguero. Reader DB points me to S-E-X at Daily Kos, which is a fantastic buffet of sex, politics, "fellationships" and current events. It's great Sunday reading. Snip: We are a sexually schizophrenic nation. We don’t talk about it in polite company. It’s something to do behind closed doors, shades drawn. We […]
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STPs: sexually transmitted poisons

10 April 2010
Yikes! It's real. And here we thought we only had to worry about... everything else. Apparently STPs are tricky because docs don't have them high on the list as a factor, and many patients don't expect their ills to come from sexually transmitted poisons. Plus, an STP is generally passed […]
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the anti-porn argument according to feminist Ashley-Anne Thompson (antiquelens)

10 April 2010
This morning I woke to a comment awaiting moderation on my Porn Is Good For You post from Canadian reader and fan Ashley-Anne Thompson. Being my biggest fan (sorry SFGate commenters!) she left her hotmail address, a link to her life through an antique lens YouTube channel and this message: "please […]
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scene from an unfilmed movie (Chad Michael Ward)

10 April 2010
I'm a big fan of photographer Chad Michael Ward (Twitter); you've seen me feature his photos with posts here and there. I watch him on Flickr where he recently uploaded a series called Scene From An Unfilmed Movie. The photos are nothing short of amazing, and sexy, and the women […]
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Apple’s family values

8 April 2010
This morning Ryan Block asked Steve Jobs whether Apple will enable unsigned applications, like Android and Palm OS. Jobs replied, "There’s a porn store for Android… you can download it, your kids can download it. That’s a place we don’t want to go, so we’re not going to." Notice that Ryan […]
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a sketch artist at a sex party

8 April 2010
I just discovered this elaborate scene from The Upper Floor dated April 2 (only last weekend), and it looks like they had one very decadent party. In a blend of art and sex, they invited a sketch artist. If I'm guessing correctly, that looks like the art of Suzanne Rachel […]
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DA threatens Wisconsin teachers: sex ed will get you arrested

7 April 2010
Image via chubbear426. The post title sounds sensationalistic -- which it would be if it were not true. Be prepared for the facepalm of the year, because it's real. Basically, an evangelical district attorney in Wisconsin sent a letter to schools saying that anyone teaching the new sex ed program as […]
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anti-gay propaganda alert: US schools

6 April 2010
Image by Eddie Colla. Hot off the front lines, so I'll just quote the source (with permission): FYI, the so-called "American College of Pediatricians" (americancollegeofpediatricians.org) has just sent a letter to schools across the country, giving supposed information about how to deal w/LGBT students. The letter links to this site: factsaboutyouth.com. It […]
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remainders: from SXSW 2010

6 April 2010
That's me bringing the sexy to the Nokia VIP rooftop party, with the Austin Convention Center behind me. Outrageously talented "rock star" photographer WM Salsberry just uploaded his photos from this year's SXSW in Austin, Texas -- and I had to share this one with you. I think this one […]
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sex addiction as seen by Dr. Marty Klein

6 April 2010
Are you like me and really starting to feel the hypocritical sting around the label "sex addiction" and not sure what to take seriously anymore? In An Epidemic of Sex Addiction? Dr. Marty Klein relates recent experiences talking to patients (and potential clients) about their dubiously, casually diagnosed "sex addiction." […]
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chomp chomp: Pac-Man pasties

6 April 2010
What a great game. Although I think the custom pasties made and modeled by French hottie Lady Tornade should be on opposite nipples. There's always one aggressive breast -- ladies, am I right? (via Yuhmm)
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a moment with pretty Anabela

5 April 2010
Features from women-run, women-owned Australian site I Feel Myself are always a delight in my inbox. Case in point is the newest shoot with Anabela. There are more after the jump, and they are a bit explicit. (Photos are linked to IFM's main page, for sadly they do not offer […]
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the lie of unbiased reporting, again: CNN and Japanese sex culture

5 April 2010
Image by exquisite vk photography. It's my opinion that one of the intersections in which we can truly see when big news outlets misbehave is when the subject is sex. This it not only my opinion, it's my experience. I'm referring to when I worked at The San Francisco Chronicle (SFGate.com) […]
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a few of my favorite things: The VB List

4 April 2010
Amazon / Babeland This weekend I added an Amazon widget of my favorite things to the right sidebar. This is a response to many, many requests for a 'Violet's Favorite Things' feature. The VB List is for your sex life, and vetted by me: good, safe, hygienic products, solutions to sensual […]
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and the winner for iPad porn is… Pink Visual

3 April 2010
Image by Richard Kadrey / Kaos Beauty Klinik. I hate to open up a post by talking smack about other features, but if you were a sucker like me and clicked on the 'The iPad is Made for Porn' article on NewTeeVee (via Techmeme) and felt like you got tricked out […]
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Senator John McCain on Guys With iPhones

3 April 2010
Many of you know that I've been a longtime, early fan of amateur gay site Guys With iPhones, and I've featured them here a few times over the years. Their simple site displays all kinds of men taking self-portraits with their iPhones, in various states of dress and undress, all […]
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revealed: the lusty bedroom behavior of Victorian-era women

1 April 2010
Image via Photography Paradiso. I didn't think this article was going to be interesting, and then I was fixated once I got into the salacious details -- it's almost certain that everything we thought about Victorian-era women being cold, sexless prudes was absolutely untrue. In fact, according to research that has […]
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