non-explicit eye candy: “me in my place”

16 June 2010
At tumbleblog me in my place (meinmyplace.com), it's just girls in their apartments, in clothes, and yet so very sexy. What a great idea and stellar (hi-res) execution. More evidence showing that you don't need the clothes off for a big turn-on, though we already knew that. (Thanks M!) More […]
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follow that story: Obama’s sex ed

16 June 2010
It's easy to miss seeing the good news about sex in politics and media these days. A week ago we saw some great news about sex ed in America finally materialize: NPR reported about the Obama administrations' coming changes in Proven Sex-Ed Programs Get A Boost From Obama. Many of […]
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Daisy Lowe for UK Esquire

14 June 2010
Inspiring. This is Daisy Lowe filmed while shot for UK Esquire's July 2010 issue by the talented Greg Williams. Music is by Maximum Balloon, and video tip is via Moneda. If you liked this, I highly recommend spending some time looking at the rest of the utter deliciousness in the rest […]
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monday nibbles: Apple censorship edition

14 June 2010
* Above is a side-by-side of censored and uncensored panels from the award-winning print graphic novel that Tom Bouden based on Oscar Wilde's "The Importance of Being Ernest." Slate's The Big Money reported that Apple had censored the gay kisses while leaving this explicit heterosexual sex scene from "Kick-Ass" as […]
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when geek love implodes: autism, Asperger’s Syndrome and sex

14 June 2010
Stumbling across the three-part Asperger’s Syndrome Sex series on Carnal Nation presented information that stopped me in my tracks: suddenly so many tech, geek and nerd relationships I've seen go from geek love to tragedy made so much sense. It was like having a light turned on in a dark […]
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pro-porn love from Jessica Janson and Tia

12 June 2010
Wow! Bootyful pro-porn love in support of Our Porn, Ourselves from stunning, whipsmart Jessica Janson and her tasty partner in crime Tia. So hot, so fun. While I'm back on the topic, it turns out the anti-porn peeps we've all been rallying at have political motivations. They are headed to […]
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a kiss goodnight to Seattle’s Lusty Lady

12 June 2010
Today is the last day of shows for Seattle's legendary Lusty Lady peepshow: tomorrow they are closed forever. Ladies, stay lusty! Possibly one of the best articles I've read in years (and one of the best pieces of writing I've ever read on strip clubs and peepshow sex work) is […]
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time to play anti-porn BINGO!

11 June 2010
I'm having way too much fun, thanks to a very tiny conference. As many of you know, two weeks ago I heard about the feminist anti-porn conference happening this weekend called "Future of Pornography 2010" (from org Stop Porn Culture), and started a response Facebook page, launching the Our Porn, […]
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finally, a clitoris study!

11 June 2010
Break out the champagne! ScienceBlogs found a fabulous clitoris study, and yes, Martha, there is a G-spot. I love the penguins and balloons :) Image from this explicit gallery.
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please, talk to your kids about malware

10 June 2010
This is XKCD's Swimsuit Issue.
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the World Cup is many things to many people

10 June 2010
The World Cup is this weekend. In this ad by Duval Guillaume for Belgium's Channel Two (via Adrants), they seem to be suggesting that during the World Cup, ladies might need to find some way to amuse themselves while the lads cheer for their favorite footballers. Articles about World Cup […]
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four days left to enter the Our Porn, Ourselves video contest

9 June 2010
On Saturday June 12 Stop Porn Culture is kicking off their anti-porn conference, and that's the final day to submit videos and win prizes with value ranging from $200-$500. Ten winners. Free shipping! Anyone can enter, the videos can be as simple as you like, and the prizes are so outrageous […]
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freedom from porn – WWDC2010 in San Francisco

8 June 2010
As you may know, Steve Jobs is fighting the good fight and offering a world free from porn. First post credit goes to TechCrunch (techcrunch.com): Freedom From Porn (freedom-from-porn.com) is a sign improvement group and highly organized, dangerous thought experiment showing the world what might happen if the world Steve […]
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eroto-pop goodness: Lady Gaga’s Alejandro

8 June 2010
Again, skip these posts if they're not for you. Today is the premiere day of Lady Gaga's new video Alejandro, and it's above. One of my least favorite songs of hers, made into a very tasty video. Things to watch for, among others: sublime rubber fetish couture, bend-over-boyfriend scenes, gun […]
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trailer: Andrew Blake’s “Decadence”

7 June 2010
I'm a huge Andrew Blake fan; my most recent interview with him was for the San Francisco Chronicle called Andrew Blake: The Helmut Newton of Porn. I adore him, I fangirl him; I hope to meet him someday. He sent me a present: this collection of exclusive images from his […]
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erotica for couples: call for submissions

7 June 2010
Blink and you'll miss this window: I just got word that I'm greenlighted on a new erotic anthology for hetero couples -- it's the first one in ages that is not written *only* by women so the call is open to authors of all genders. The turnaround this time is […]
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stock photo fail: that ecosexy bitch sure gets around

7 June 2010
And when I say that, I also want to point out that Furry Girl is the real, OG ecosexy bitch -- while this stock photo babe manages to be the poster child for all of the above. Image my giggle when I saw the very same Babeland ad that's currently […]
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Sex, Sin and Zen: Brad Warner says hi from Finland

7 June 2010
Brad Warner of Hardcore Zen) emails me this photo and says 'o hai!' from Finland, where he is promoting his upcoming book Sex, Sin and Zen: A Buddhist Exploration of Sex from Celibacy to Polyamory and Everything in Between. It's a hell of a book. In Finland they are calling […]
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from Super Sexy CPR comes Super Sexy Abdominal Thrust (Heimlich Maneuver)

6 June 2010
We all loved Super Sexy CPR -- now they've got Super Sexy Abdominal Thrust. It's over-the-top hotness. I think I can't breathe.
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follow that story: teens charged child porn felonies for sexting

6 June 2010
Back in January 2009, I wrote Kids Charged for Child Porn Violet Blue: When Teens Make Their Own Porn, Who's Being Exploited? (for the San Francisco Chronicle). In the article, I reported on the alarming news that teens in different US locales were caught sending each other racy self-portraits with […]
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