The True Blood Three-Way Cover (Rolling Stone)

17 August 2010
This image is without the words in the way. Yay! Stupid words. The gallery is here. I think there are more words that go with this but I will pretend to read them when my boyfriend walks back into my office later. (rollingstone.com, thanks, realmms!) Update: I also love the True […]
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Great Post: No, iPhone Users Don’t Have More Sex

17 August 2010
Can you imagine AT & T as a sex partner? At the foot of the bed, while you clutch the sheet to yourself in disappointment *again* as they promise you it won't happen again, I swear, I'll be able to keep the call up until you're done, this time I […]
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Cue the Dueling Banjos, and Observe Seven Homemade Sex Toys for Men

17 August 2010
How To Make A Homemade Toy - Watch more Funny Videos The above video is "How to Make a Fifi" and -- it should be noted to avoid cultural misunderstandings -- the video is a special, delicate slice of rich cultural American heritage that Brits (or other overseas visitors) may understand […]
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Look Away: More Lady Gaga Fangirling

16 August 2010
I get a free pass to post Lady Gaga's boobies this week because @dotBen scored us two VIP tickets to see her in concert tonight in San Jose -- from SF Craigslist for less than half price!!!! Photo: Lady Gaga by Nobuyoshi Araki in Vogue Hommes Japan (homotography.blogspot.com, thanks, Nosnikta!)
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Girl Camera Mirror + Guys With iPhones

16 August 2010
I haz de sekrit innernet formula. It is Girl / Camera / Mirror plus Guys With iPhones. Add LOLcat sauce for invincibility. (thanks to Praemedia for GCM) Update: that was fast and tragic. The website has been pwn3d by a redirect/paysite of crap :( -thanks for the heads-up, Don.
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Bad Boys and Mad Men: Why Is Don Draper So Hot, and So Wrong?

15 August 2010
If you're not caught up in the American TV series Mad Men, you might be inclined to skip this post. However, I'll posit that you may want to stick around for a few more lines of text as I look at just why a guy can be so stereotypically, pathologically […]
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Scenes from Last Night: Art Of Restraint “Unraveled”

15 August 2010
Before I say what an incredible time I had last night at Femina Potens' Art of Restraint performance event, let me tell you what an amazing thing is going on with this gallery and community. It's like nothing else right now, and with all the economy of bullshit I'm seeing […]
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Pretty Girl Sunday

15 August 2010
That's MetModel's pic of the day (above), which is different than Met Art. I have an overabundance of pretty girls and free porn in my inbox, a touch of snark (as usual), and the free galleries from which the pretty girls sprout. It's Sunday; enjoy! I've been a fan of Hegre's busty […]
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Observations on the Drawbacks of Being a Man

14 August 2010
I lurk on Hacker News for a number of reasons, and one of them is that I occasionally come across really interesting articles that cross genres, ones that I think you'll find as intriguing as I do. Today I found a juicy one that really resonates; it's a blog post […]
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Playboy Self-Censors for Apple: So, What’s the Point?

13 August 2010
Ironically, I have in my hands the screener for the unreleased documentary Hugh Hefner: Playboy, Activist, and Rebel (thank you, Landmark). It releases to the general public on the 20th. A tasteful headshot of a playmate... for your iPad. You really are redefining "rebel" Mr. Hefner. Your magazine once interviewed […]
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Americans: How Anal is Your State?

13 August 2010
Before I unpack the OkCupid post about sexual activity, phone types and taking self-portraits that could get you laid -- and all the media hype* it's generating -- I'd like to show you the graphic that made my day: Back Door Play: Which State is the Most Anal?. Oh, Alaska! We […]
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Trailer: This Ain’t Cops XXX by Axel Braun

12 August 2010
Remember the fantastic trailer for Batman XXX directed by (pal) Axel Braun? Yup, that was amazing. Today I was reminded that I didn't get to see Braun's Batman (made for Vivid Video) and I still really want to watch it -- when Hustler sent me the trailer for Braun's next […]
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Hot Boy Thursday: Mateus Verdelho

12 August 2010
Boys are trouble. Trust me. Just look at this one (Mateus Verdelho). He looks like just the kind of guy that would let you butter him up -- with butter -- and then you'd just have this tattooed slippery male model on your hands, all ready to cause you all […]
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WANT: New Lingerie from Coco de Mer

12 August 2010
I just got the links to Coco de Mer's new lingerie line, and it's worth an ogle. I really think I might need a pair of the Bordelle Lace and Silk Satin Bugsy Peep Hole Brief (above) and matching Last Testament Keyhole Bra; I'd also die (sweetly) if I had […]
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Seal it with a Kiss: The Saucy Book Trailer

11 August 2010
I *just* finished a new video: the racy book trailer for Seal it with a Kiss. This one came out really hot. And cute :) Wondering where I've been? I've been laboring on scripting, filming and editing the video trailer for my newest how-to book, "Seal it with a Kiss: Tips, […]
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Now Available: Steve Diet Goedde’s “Little Editions”

11 August 2010
Without a doubt, one of the most respected and highly recognized names in high-end, fine art fetish photography is Steve Diet Goedde. It's true that he is a friend (disclosure), yet he's one of those iconic artists I can't believe I get to hang out with. I think that his […]
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Tuesday: Blog Talk Radio’s Social Media Hour, Unusual Guest: Kink’s New (Female) VP of Technology

9 August 2010
This is something of special note: Tuesday: Blog Talk Radio's Social Media Hour will have an unusual guest on for their regular Tuesday show. Kink.com's new VP of Technology and Operations, Stacia Carr (@noisegirl, @KinkTech), is going to be on for a special episode where we get to see a […]
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NPR on Sexual Fluidity: Late-Life Lesbians

9 August 2010
NPR is finally starting to do some interesting stuff. Even better now that outlets like Mashable regress and deliver "breaking news" on how there is sex on Craigslist (and then their editors tell me at parties why they think it's good so they can court the "mainstream"), while Fox News […]
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In Natural Light: Dita Circa 2007

8 August 2010
I think 2007 is about the time I stopped hating on Dita and started to enjoy her lifestyle; I just always found the burlesque gimmickry a bit obvious for my personal taste. This photo shoot is when she did Blender Magazine (Mariah Kina) in January 2007, and I think this […]
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More of My Lady Gaga Ogling: Weekend Lollapalooza Pics

8 August 2010
If you're tired of my Lady Gaga posts, I implore you to look the other way for a minute while I drool all over the photos and video of her from this weekend's Lollapalooza in Chicago. She wore pretty much nothing and dove into the crowd twice, getting her stomach […]
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