For the Love of Susie Bright: What No One Will Say About What Happened With Craigslist’s Adult Services

16 September 2010
Once in a while, one of our treasured sex culture icons looks at a situation, sizes it up -- and delivers a piece of writing that knocks it out of the park. That's exactly what Susie Bright just did with her new blog post, Susie's Post-Mortem on Craig's List Sex […]
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Wednesday Nibbles: Middle Men, DeNiro’s Tiger Balm Hard-On, Wii Sex Toy Seeks Beta Testers, more

14 September 2010
* Right after I got offstage at Gnomedex, Ken Yeung interviewed me for Network Solutions -- check it out what I had to say in Sex, The Web & What Non-Profits Can Do To Raise Awareness (video, blog.networksolutions.com) * Paramount's film Middle Men was produced and is about the guy behind […]
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Sex, Sin and Zen: Brad Warner’s Hot New Book on Sex and Buddhism

13 September 2010
I'm excited to point you to a big feature I have front page today on SF Appeal, This Zen Master Teaches Buddhism How To Grow Up About Sex Already. It's a personal review of Brad Warner's fascinating new book Sex, Sin, and Zen: A Buddhist Exploration of Sex from Celibacy […]
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Designer Sex Toys Ultra: Sono Love

12 September 2010
I seem to find high-end sex items without trying. It's often exciting but frustrating, as they're either very expensive, hard to find, unreleased (or limited edition) artist designs. I try to share things with you that are obtainable (like Lady Gaga's Whore teacup from Outlandish Creations, remembered at Coco), but […]
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The New Modfetish Project: Dirtsnap (Erotic Animated Gifs)

12 September 2010
I've long been a fan of Modfetish (new design! also on Twitter!), and I'm excited to see that Modfetish just created Dirtsnap, featuring an ongoing parade of sexy 8-frame animations (gifs) that they've been making. Great, so great...
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Are The Swedish Really This Interesting?

12 September 2010
I just don't know. I mean, they have Alexander Skarsgard (which is all I'd need), they gave us Let The Right One In and Girl With the Dragon Tattoo (I'm anxious to see the sequel The Girl Who Played With Fire). And now Lust Love Latex shows me Swedish Wood by […]
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Kate Moss in Vintage Vivianne Westwood

11 September 2010
From Models.com, because it looks cool. Shot by Nick Knight for I-D Magazine. I'll be that would be tough to take a bathroom break in.
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And The Best pr0n Name Award Goes To… Ziggy Wahwah

11 September 2010
I Shot Myself's model Ziggy Wahwah also gets the top award around here for sexiest soft butch rope bondage self-portraits. The entire (brand new, explicit) gallery is after the jump. (FYI: I Shot Myself is from the same rad Australian women who run I Feel Myself). About the set, Ziggy […]
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Google Instant: No Sex — and No Violet Blue

8 September 2010
The Google Tech Talk I gave on sex on the Internet and sexual privacy online has been viewed 1,521,951 times. (I've presented two, at their invitation.) CINE + OCTO = BOO reports* that "Google Instant launched today, and already folks have noticed that some searches fail to yield the “instant” treatment. Yep, […]
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Congrats! SanFranSexy Zine Launched!

8 September 2010
Big congratulations to the hardworking sex-positive pundits, activists and educators behind San Francisco's new free arts, info and events magazine: SanFranSexy Zine! Finally, a hip, warm and welcoming monthly magazine about sex in SF. Sleaze free, sophisticated, and more fun than a barrel full of sex kittens! Get your free copy […]
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“The Starlet Sheet” – A Porn Lover’s Thoughtful (and Explicit) Data Goldmine

8 September 2010
Congrats and praise for a fun new porn blog: The Starlet Sheet is a just-launched project I've watched grow: JImmy, the creator and datamining nerd behind it, is definitely what you'd call a "superfan" when it comes to porn starlets. I really like his ethics about a lot of things, […]
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“An Open Invitation” Porn Trailer and Gallery Exclusive: With Advice on Non-Monogamy

6 September 2010
Director Ilana Rothman's An Open Invitation is porn for lovers. And for everyone else. I had planned to review Open Invitation the minute I watched it: it's *that* hot, with high production values and is a real porn flick for people with high expectations. And a female director! But I […]
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The Dirtiest American Apparel Ads of All Time

6 September 2010
Depending on what you read, American Apparel is either circling the hipster drain or are about to have an extreme makeover; either way it seems only right to give them a proper kiss goodnight by looking back at the only reason we actually looked at American Apparel in the first […]
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Kinky Etsy Finds

5 September 2010
I love kinky Etsy finds. If you're looking for kinky goods on Etsy, there is a lot to sift though. I like to idly skim Etsy for unusual sex items you might not find at the usual places. I also like supporting small businesses whenever possible, and I like that […]
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Sponsor Shout-Out: Great New Additions

4 September 2010
This is where I take a minute to truly thank my sponsors for their support, helping me keep cat food in the bowl, and giving me the breathing room to work on expanding the nibbles: I'm planning some big evolutions soon! I'm also very sincerely stoked to have handpicked sponsors […]
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Pretty Girl Friday: After Midnight Edition

4 September 2010
My favorite free galleries from my favorite ethical porn makers -- I know it's a week late and after midnight, but hey, we've got a long weekend ahead. I've been saving my handpicked faves. Hopefully a fun, relaxing, much-needed long weekend for all of us. But now, pretty girls... and […]
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This Week In The War On Watching Porn

3 September 2010
This week, the war on porn hit new levels thanks to anti-porn feminists Gail Dines and Mary Anne Layden. I know the title of this post sounds a little extreme, but looking at the landscape, it's really starting to feel this way. The war on porn is the war on watching […]
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Hot Boy Thursday: Jack Hammer

2 September 2010
Meeting porn performers in real life is dodgy. It can be lame, sad, scary, exciting and awe-inspiring, arousing, fierce and inspiring, a curiosity of plastic surgery disaster... any number of experiences. Like meeting anyone who does a lot of on-camera work, it's seldom what you think it will be. So when […]
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Apple’s Ping Launch Openly Censored Lady Gaga’s Pro-Gay Tweets

1 September 2010
Today Apple launched their new music social network Ping (basically a clone of Last.fm), and in Apple’s promotional image for the new feature, they very obviously removed a thread of Tweets from Lady Gaga’s timeline where she clearly spoke out celebrating being pro-gay, about California's anti-gay marriage legislation, Prop 8. Seriously. Apple, […]
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Larry Flynt, John Stagliano, Peter Acworth and More Speak Out Against .XXX

1 September 2010
If you're tired of me being agitated about the proposed .XXX domain extension, then you can skip this post (and know that when the ICANN comment period is over this month I will stop bugging you to use this text to email ICANN to tell them that .XXX = OMGWTFBBQ). […]
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