my friends are the only family I need

10 January 2006
Thomas wrote about me, and I didn't even know. I found some healing to have my deceitful post read and understood. If you care to, read: I am a very bad man.
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macgasm

10 January 2006
If I was a smoker, I'd have a cigarette right now. Macworld was exciting: I saw the new 1" PowerMacPro laptops, the uber-fast iMacs (both with built-in iSight). But aside from all the glitz, bling, booths that wouldn't let me take photos, pseudo-booth-babes, cars that let you watch your iPod […]
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going to my happy place

10 January 2006
...Macworld! Besides the frustrations of iTunes' automations, my friends at Apple sent me an exhibit hall pass. (And I see I'm now listed as an "auhtor" in iTunes, yay!) So I'm off to see what's new, say hi, and take photos -- and get a bag full of free […]
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just in: heart still most deceitful thing

9 January 2006
At SFist today, where I'm a columnist, there has been a lot of activity about the whole JT LeRoy unmasking thing. (Read all the comments.) I found out today when I read the Gawker post over my morning coffee, but then several people forwarded me Susie Bright's extremely revealing post […]
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new erotica by N.T. Morley

8 January 2006
I've been working with widely published dominance and submission author N.T. Morley for many years now, notably publishing his work in my Sweet Life: Erotic for Couples series and reading a few stories on Open Source Sex. We're good friends (he gave me a DVD of Secretary of my birthday […]
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Rosie, we love you!

7 January 2006
Coop sent me this *totally amazing* image of a color slide from the Library of Congress Online Exhibition "Bound for Glory: America in Color 1939-1943". Caption: Alfred T. Palmer Woman is working on a "Vengeance" dive bomber Tennessee, February 1943 Reproduction from color slide Coop: "Check out that red nail polish!"
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don’t hurt the pussy

6 January 2006
You know, it's been a busy week. But I just found a pocket of mental relief (about to be followed up with a tasty alcoholic beverage). You see, last weekend I read that damn awful New York Times Magazine article about vaginal reconstruction surgery. And I had the usual reactions; […]
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My Fleshbot Uniform

4 January 2006
As a few readers of both my blog and Fleshbot might have noticed, a couple of my bits were surreptitiously featured over New Year's weekend on a certain Gawker Media site. There's a very long backstory involving an excitable editor, my digital camera and a few hasty moments in my […]
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interviewing mr. thrillhammer

4 January 2006
The third installment of my Geek Entertainment TV interviews is up and running: here, I've taken the mic and subjected Allen Stein, creator of The Thrillhammer to a short but brutal interview (his machine was the one I ran for my teledildonics lecture and demonstration for Dorkbot). Teledildonicist Allen Stein nails […]
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from Iraq, with love

2 January 2006
Even though -- once again -- I'm *not* in the iTunes directory, I'm getting amazing email from firemen in the Carolinas, listeners in Mauritius, parole officers in Virginia, sassy women in Quebec, couples in Germany, and soldiers in Iraq. Now I understand why my stats are all screwed up -- […]
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monday flooding

2 January 2006
Referring to my inbox, and San Francisco (not to mention Napa and every town near a Northern California river right now). It's *still* raining. Trees falling on cars by my house; my back fence came down during the night. It rained all day yesterday, too, but that was fine because […]
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MIA from iTunes

31 December 2005
I'm getting a lot of emails like this tonight: "Hi Violet, I really enjoyed your "quickie" and when I saw you also had OSS26 I went to itunes but could not find it there. (...) I tried to search on "sex" and "open source" in the itunes podcasts but could not find […]
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naked new year podcast

31 December 2005
Wait -- I'm not naked. Not yet anyway. But listen, and get inspired before the ball drops! text: Last quickie of 2005! A special story just for tonight: "Naked New Year" by Dante Davidson -- including hot public sex in the cool night air, delicious oral sex and an unusual spanking […]
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quickie podcast

29 December 2005
The first of many quickies. A little giggly, but that's how we geek girl shut-ins get... Text: The first quickie! One red-hot short story, on request: "Whose Panties" by Alison Tyler. A bite-sized nibble of erotica including a taste of rimming and panty subterfuge. Yum! Open Source Sex 25 (MP3)
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books I loved this year

29 December 2005
I read a lot of sex books, but when I want to depornosaturate my brain, I read a lot of non-sex books. Though I'll admit that for a book to be exciting to me, there needs to be some sort of sexual, criminal or horror component; a book without these […]
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I’m good with a whip, too

28 December 2005
Cat's coming out of the bag: Jackson points out to me that if you read today's San Francisco Examiner, you'll see this in P.J. Corkery's column: "SFist.com, that daily gallimaufry of things San Francisco, showed that San Francisco hospitality isn't just an old-school drill - by jamming 'em in jolly down […]
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10 minutes on a website

27 December 2005
From SRL cohorts, this, leading to: Tortura. Listen to the sexy MP3 -- whipping put to jazz was never so sexy! Even stranger, "sound effects of US Air Force firepower", "Instant Insanity Drugs" (too late for some of us), "Suicide Prevention" (opposite effect), and the NSFW album cover of all […]
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meta, with rotating pleasure beads

27 December 2005
I'm pinching myself all over: I'm one of the Wired News "2005's Sexiest Geeks"! Eeeeee! With their list and my list (and all the runners-up), it means that geeks will only become sexier as a species from this point on as demand for brains and sexiness increases. We will be […]
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down and dirty holiday podcast

24 December 2005
You know me, I just can't sit still over these long holiday weekends. In a minute I'm running off to an SRL friend's house for a holiday beer, but in the meantime, if you get a bit of alone time over the next day or so... I've got your hot […]
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sperm bank teller podcast

23 December 2005
New podcast! Text and links: On a cold San Francisco night, I read "Sperm Bank Teller" by Polly Enmity, from Best Sex Writing 2005. When I found out that someone I knew not only works in a really dysfunctional local sperm bank -- but that she also regularly has sex with […]
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