blogging is not disposable culture

6 February 2006
.... even if it *is* an instant gratification information delivery system. Even if it sucks and the blogger is a retard, it's a record of how they suck and are retarded -- or that some *thing* of value, for at least one person out there, found language. It's also why […]
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thoughts at the end of my day

5 February 2006
Finished a chapter and started another today, phew. Still dwelling on the virgin creams. Our bodies, our selves. Watch this darkly humorous video of Brit girls getting their bikini areas waxed: Bikini Waxing! (funlol.com) Then check out the *real* our bodies -- hey, are you fat? Is your body perfect? In one […]
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unsafe sex product rant, part gazillion

4 February 2006
I'm at home writing and researching a book that's due at the end of this month, and I've entered into a sex ed area that is a real sore spot for me. You've no doubt read my gripes and warnings about the widely available and highly profitable anal numbing creams […]
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who’s cuter?

3 February 2006
The smiley girl with the nice nipples in the new free Hegre gallery? Or the bunny? Yes, I'm still on the Hegre free galleries affiliate email list; I joined it to research affiliate programs for a users' guide about online porn I have coming out soon. I don't agree with Hegre's recommended […]
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valley girls

2 February 2006
Last night I went to the Valleywag launch party, but I didn't go alone. Oh, no -- in fear of suffering through being the gender minority at these tech things yet again, I summoned a posse of nine women to attend with me/meet me there. That's right, Violet Blue has […]
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new link madness

31 January 2006
I was supposed to be working for like ten different people today and instead I added a very long list of (overdue) links to my site -- they're groupe-groped on my front page right now, and already folded into my links page. I've also made a new note on my […]
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interesting stuff to do with your eyes

30 January 2006
For New York's Gothamist the Lusty Lady herself, Rachel Kramer Bussel, interviews sex educator Ellen Friedrichs -- who wrote the intense and uplifting essay "South Bronx Sex Ed" in my book Best Sex Writing 2005. And proving that she just can't sit still, Rachel hovers for a minute to tell […]
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Watch Xeni Tonight

30 January 2006
Get your copy of Harmful to Minors: The Perils of Protecting Children From Sex ready and watch Xeni debate porn, the "Child Online Protection Act" and your privacy rights on CNN tonight. Feel free to thump Judith Levine's excellent book every time someone says something stupid about porn creating child […]
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naughty mechanic and nurse

29 January 2006
The set begins here.
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Morning Coffee, The Crash Version

28 January 2006
* San Francisco sex luminaries lose favorite San Francisco eatery: yesterday at 8:30pm a Buick plowed into Carol and Robert's favorite restaurant, Cafe delle Stelle. Fortunately they were not in their customary window seat; all injured are in stable condition. * Blame it on the valet: a lesson in choosing your […]
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fantastico!

27 January 2006
The pope (Joey Ratz!) is totally going to put a fatwa on my head: the Spanish translations of my fellatio and cunnilingus books are out in print! Yay and hooray for El Arte del Sexo Oral: Felacion and El Arte del Sexo Oral 2: Cunnilingus la Guia Definitiva. The publisher […]
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welcome to Chinatown, Jake

26 January 2006
Xeni was here last night; Scott got this great pic of us together; Eddie got this one, too. I finally got all the SRL Chinatown show pics together and posted; half are mine, half are pulled from other (credited) sources. If you click the photos from start to finish you'll get […]
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ultimate guide to my boobies

24 January 2006
I'm still recovering from the show and putting tools away: but Thomas just posted a feature on me at his day job, Eros Zine. Warning: Violet boobie alert. Link: Violet Blue Interview by Thomas Roche
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sore, bruised, happy

23 January 2006
Got in last night from Los Angeles and just woke from my first full night of sleep in several days. I'll do a full show post in a day or two; right now a few notes as I wake up: * SRL Chinatown BoingBoing post from the ever-gorgeous Xeni, here. * The […]
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read, ogle, repeat

19 January 2006
A quick post before I run out the door: I'm on FlickrBooty -- woo hoo! Yesterday the SF Weekly quietly fired columnist Harmon Leon, who wrote the AVN piece that was full of inaccuracies -- but the whole thing really stinks. If this is what happens under New Times management and editorship, […]
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It’s SRL, Not SLA

16 January 2006
Today Jonno made me into his dream woman (see photo). Today I have a horrible headcold, but still had a lovely lunch with Alison Tyler, even after almost getting creamed across three freeway lanes at 60mph by a big old Chevy truck. That cleared my sinuses for a few minutes. Today the […]
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friday the 13th

14 January 2006
My photos with Thomas from Friday the 13th are up; you can tell we were just having fun in and around my house, so Thomas could play with his new camera (hence all the different light values). Sorry, no boobies this time... And we talked muchly about the writer scandals, like […]
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Too Beautiful: The Interview

13 January 2006
I'm extremely excited to be included in the first set of "What are you working on?" interviews on Mark Pritchard's Too Beautiful blog. Now I have to go get ready: my friend Thomas is coming over with his camera. (I'll post the results later.) I can't wait to talk with […]
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Hell, Hell Is For Fleshbots

13 January 2006
An actual Fleshbot all-staff email received today: Subject: press release from fleshbot central * * * FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE * * * Fleshbot Central, January 12: Fleshbot.com editor John d'Addario today decreed a moratorium on any further posts involving latex, corsets, rubber, bondage, piercings, or any others that could reasonably be described with […]
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bondage for the rest of us

13 January 2006
New podcast -- but only you can decide if energy drinks and podcasting and super-hot talk about getitng tied up and fucked are a lethal combination... or not. Text: Tie me up? How about bondage and kink for the rest of us...! You don't need to know complicated knots or BDSM […]
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