Behind Kink and spanking Morality in Media in the Chronicle

25 October 2006
This week's Chronicle column is a doozy, on many fronts. In Porn: It's Not Just for Breakfast I spend an average monday shadowing the Behind Kink documentary film crews at local BDSM/kinky porn online mega-empire Kink.com; then I visit Good Vibrations for some very weird vibrations about their fear of […]
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but I’m a vlogger

25 October 2006
Referencing, of course, the movie about the cheerleader whose paranoid parents hold a gay intervention and send her to heterosexual reprogramming camp to overcome her gayness, when it was discovered she didn't like her boyfriend. I've been spending much of the day solidifying my selections as a judge for The […]
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pretty girls in my inbox, yay!

25 October 2006
I'm still on the Hegre affiliate email list -- I joined when I wrote The Smart Girl's Guide to Porn to see how different affiliates worked. They send me stuff, but I don't always like it -- truth be told, some of the Eastern European models are often too skinny […]
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do me: a concise sex and disability resource guide

24 October 2006
Last night I got a sweet email from a reader who found me through my Chron column and wanted to know about sex and disability resources here in the SF Bay Area. When I worked at Good Vibes, I put together a number of shopping guides for different communities I […]
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kiss me to the ground

22 October 2006
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gratuitously cute cat photos

22 October 2006
I promise not to turn into a crazy cat blogger lady, and I know this has nothing to do with sex, but these photos Xeni took of me and my kitten Alex are too cavity-inducing not to share!
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at kink.com with Xeni

20 October 2006
We had fun in kink.com's "jail set". She snapped great cameraphone pics, seen here. The set from my camera is here, another couple favorites after the jump. (more...)
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j’adore

20 October 2006
Xeni Jardin, Jonathan Moore, Haight and Masonic this afternoon. It looks like they're plotting something -- they are. I love this photo. Our conversation ranged from dating to cryptography, and far beyond. What a wonderful way to spend the afternoon. My other favorite photo is after the jump. (more...)
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riding the shortbus with Mistress Morgana

19 October 2006
Regular readers will remember that I just saw John Cameron Mitchell's mainstream-release porn film Shortbus with dominatrix Mistress Morgana -- it was a hell of an evening, and I wrote about the film, our thoughs about it and much more in this week's Chron column Open Source Sex: Get on […]
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Technorati loves me!

17 October 2006
It's true -- they just made me a "Featured Favorite" on Technorati! Not only are they now tracking 55 million blogs, but they have just added me (!) to their roster of Featured Favorites, so I'm on a sidebar banner that clicks Technorati front page readers to a very selective […]
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boobies on the RU Sirius podcast show and more Fetish Sex

17 October 2006
Today counterculture/cyberculture icon RU Sirius writes me, "The new RU Sirius Show is up! Had a great time and hope you'll really join us from time to time as guest host, co-host, hostess cupcake, holy ghost or special guest." He said the magic word, CUPCAKE!!!!! I just spilled Robitussin all […]
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CNN Loves Morality Porn; Yaaaawwwn

16 October 2006
Looks like CNN's spokesdouche born-again Glenn Beck (the male Nancy Grace) is about to start waxing fetishistically about so-called 'porn addiction' in their cable TV Headline News program and online vlogs. Sure, it's CNN's retro "look - shiny" and get traffic tactic of 1995, but just in time to get […]
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home sick, plotting mischief

16 October 2006
So... if you have a film in the upcoming Good Vibes Amateur Erotic Film Competition and you want to out your URL (and get a pantload of traffic), email me: violet at tinynibbles dot com Let's have some fun with this, shall we? Your deadline is midnight tonight.
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not reading tonight

14 October 2006
Ugh! I seem to have an upper respiratory issue -- I did a test reading and struggled for breath between sentences. I called Carol and canceled my reading tonight at LitCrawl at Good Vibes and I am very sad, as I had a hilarious and dirty story to read. Tonight […]
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to offend or make you giggle and groan

13 October 2006
My piece What the Fuck Is Wrong With the Japanese? Part One in a Series: Nose Abuse is now live. Not recommended for lunchtime reading; it's the exasperated result of after-midnight blog cruising and unintentional discoveries via my vast sex bookmark link list. May you now have weird fetish sex […]
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the john hodgman experience

13 October 2006
I wrote two articles today (I guess yesterday, thursday), phew -- and I took a break to head downtown to see John Hodgman read from his new book The Areas of My Expertise at Cody's Books -- I took photos and video. The videos are as follows. Here is his […]
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weird

12 October 2006
They took my live link to my site (from my bio) off my Chron/SFgate column. I have to say, this is actually like writing for a cokehead. (Thank you, Lori.)
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rodriguez and tarantino’s grind house

12 October 2006
It's so not fair that this movie isn't coming out *right fucking now* or at least in time for Halloween. I mean, it's got Tom Fucking Savini starring in it, filthy babysitters, zombies, lots of violence and boobies, and Rose McGowan as a grindhouse stripper with a motherfucking MACHINE GUN […]
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this week’s open source sex and litcrawl

12 October 2006
My Chronicle/SFGate column is up: Litquake's Sexquake -- This Year's Down-and-Dirty Lit Crawl is intended to be a one-stop shopping guide to our local LitCrawl, with a focus on all the literate smutsters reading in the 150+ writer, drinking and carousing evening in the Mission this saturday. Read the article […]
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dead! nude! girls!

10 October 2006
And now begins the Halloween porn and erotica, thanks to my pal David and today's ingestion of Robitussin. David sent me a link to this super-sexy photo, but being the kind of girl who gets all giddy upon discovery of blogs like the Dapper Cadaver Blog, I treated myself to […]
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