the TSA hates your vibrator, and they don’t think I’m very funny either

14 June 2007
Image found in this explicit gallery (via). Today's Chron column is a humorous look at applying the TSA's travel guidelines to traveling with sex toys (and other adult issues). Lots of people like it, except for the TSA employee who wrote me a very stern letter about how they totally do […]
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do not miss Josh Wolf on the Colbert Report

13 June 2007
Scott has it here. I am still smiling :)
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omg ponies! I mean, podcasts!

12 June 2007
I'm ba-ack.... Open Source Sex audio is in effect. Listen and read: open source sex 56: erotica (MP3; episode page) This is very much a new favorite story (and fantasy) for me, and it was a sublime pleasure to read -- "Tied to the Kitchen Sink" by Kay Jaybee. It's in my […]
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rachel kramer bussel explains porn for women and boobies

11 June 2007
Image: Artist Whitney Lee from Made With Sweet Love vacuuming her hook-rug porn. Okay, maybe not the boobies part, but a girl can dream... Over at HuffPo, Rachel takes a look at the Chronicle Books "humor" book Porn for Women and pokes at finding nuggets of truth in any of it, […]
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flickr explains moderated settings and boobies

11 June 2007
(Above image by seventeenstars; is public in Flickr) First -- this made my nose into a soy latte cannon this morning: Fun With Flickr: Find The Uncensored Boobies! And -- it's filed under "butwhatabouthechildren"! So awesome. In response to my further questions pressing them for details, Flickr's Stewart writes me back today […]
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things I did *not* buy at the good vibes sample sale

11 June 2007
Left to right: Sex Cab for Cutie; The Pursuit of Happy Ass; MILF Street Blues; Thighs Wide Open; Fast Fuck Nation; The Boobs of Hazzard 1 and 2; and Acockalipto. Also, Good Vibes gave me a cone for testing and reviewing. The Cone scares me. I made a video of my […]
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flickr responds

10 June 2007
The apology email I got from Stewart at Flickr is below. It is deeply appreciated: * * * * * * * Hi Violet, I've set your account back to 'safe', though I've also set several of your photos (individually) to the 'moderate' setting and one or two to 'restricted'. Scott Beale pointed out your blog […]
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gmail broken

8 June 2007
Image by courtneyp. Aaaaargh. I got an email from Stewart at Flickr late last night (morning, actually) and want to post an update about my account (mostly re-instated, still no hard answers on exactly what I did wrong or how I can avoid this in the future) but I'm frozen in my […]
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this photo is not yet rated

7 June 2007
If you're a Flickr member, feel free to favorite this photo.
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flickr considered harmful

7 June 2007
I started using the photo sharing service Flickr last November as the request of my sweetheart; I started really maximizing my use of the site as I enjoyed its social networking features, and at the urging of my host Laughing Squid to integrate my photoblogging and regular blogging. In my Flickr […]
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shopping for sex at safeway: this week’s column

7 June 2007
Snip from Shopping For Sex At The Supermarket: Marina Safeway: Hot or not?: In the Market Street Safeway, the cucumbers are really big. I don't know if that's because they're genetically modified with elephant cells or if that's because it's the Safeway closest to the Castro. I'm guessing it's a bit […]
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omg — the french translations of my oral sex books look yummy

4 June 2007
Damn, the covers are *so* hot I want to write them all over again... Yaayyy!
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new getv episode: more maker faire madness

3 June 2007
Click To Play Another fun GETV episode from our weekend efforts at Maker Faire it's above and on this show page. I was really happy to interview my pals Kimric and Shannon about the Neverwas Haul. Talk about working overtime that weekend... phew!
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gala’s kisisng boot camp

2 June 2007
Photo by Scott Beale/Laughing Squid. This is a great primer on kissing: Gala's Kissing Boot Camp. Mwah!
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if you have any extra good thoughts

2 June 2007
I just found out that a friend of mine was in a bad motorcycle accident last night. She's been a big part of many amazing underground art events, communities and she's always been there with energy and wickedly playful enthusiasm (and her camera) throughout many years of SRL shows, Burning […]
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quote of the week

1 June 2007
Said to me over dinner, none the less: "'Free speech' is like anal sex. You never quite know what you're getting into." --a friend who works in, you guessed it, law.
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girls and tables: I think I have a fetish

1 June 2007
I don't know why I love the girls and tables thing. But I do. Gallery here; my table dance it still here. Also, FYI: Hegre's new "teen" site promo gallery, which is both good and bad.
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e-hetero sued; new surgeon general will cure your hairdresser

1 June 2007
Image of dangerous e-lesbians: Gilles Berquet, via, also. But he better not try to "cure" mine. Silent as a fart, Bush released his nomination for Surgeon general, Joseph Holsinger, which Daily Kos points out, Holsinger and his wife: ...founded Hope Springs Community Church in a warehouse at 1109 Versailles Road. Calhoun called it […]
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