nebraska considered harmful

10 July 2007
If you work for a state program in Nebraska, you can't use the word "sex" or "sexual" in any of your public media. The state government of Nebraska hasn't outright stated that they're "doing it for the children" but what they're doing right now is certainly destroying the children (and […]
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waiting for audacia

9 July 2007
Sounds like a romance title, but maybe for a cupcake and panty romance. She'll be at my house in an hour; while I wait and print author contracts for Best Women's Erotica 2008 (nice cover, Cleis), dig the Vixen's recent interview on Bookslut: "Alt porn" is hot right now. Violet Blue […]
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[video] reuters: japanese sex dolls

9 July 2007
Reader nightbird emails me saying, "Saw this while reading a Reuters article on Griefers. Thought you might be interested..." It's too bad I can't embed their player, but do visit 'Love dolls' woo Japanese men to watch the video (beware: autoplay). There's no new news in it, but instead a […]
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sunday: more satanic sex panic

8 July 2007
My dear friend Thomas has some really interesting thoughts about the 10 Zen Monkeys sex panic interview I posted a day ago, and talks about being a porn writer while dating and living in the very sex-negative, anti-porn feminist climate of circa-1980 Santa Cruz, CA (home of UC Santa Cruz). […]
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speaking of fetishes, oh, cfnm how I adore you…

8 July 2007
Image via this free gallery. I recently discovered a nice nest of CFNM blogs (clothed female, naked male) via my Australian, female pro-porn pal Ms. Naughty's superlative CFNM resource guide. They're all connected somehow, and link to affiliate paysites, but the pics and video samples are all free and a whole […]
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a fidelity fetish

8 July 2007
Monogamy is its own kind of fetish. To wit: the heteronormative, yet consumable in a disposable, bag-o-chips kind of way article in the Guardian UK today, Is anyone faithful any more? I love these articles for all the sweeping assumptions and generalizations they make, like reading Star Magazine, but for […]
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non-sex post: my thoughts on Ocean vs. iPhone

6 July 2007
Is here.
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sex panics and the perils of protecting everyone from sex

6 July 2007
I've been mulling over a few articles I want to write lately about sex-related things done "for the children", like sex offender registries, obscenity legislation and adult porn censorship. These thought patterns have me currently re-reading Judith Levine's terrific book Harmful to Minors (which has prompted spontaneous, between-the-sheets readings from […]
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dear lazyweb

5 July 2007
Please help. My Wikipedia page does me no justice whatsoever. My press and publicity page has more info -- and that's not much. All I want for christmas is a Wikipedia page that looks like everyone else's, rather than just a dry list of my books (and not even including […]
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day shift strippers: today’s column

5 July 2007
One of my favorite, and more personal, columns is today's Day Shift Strippers: Lazy Saturday in North Beach. Here, I describe what Hacker Boy and I got up to last weekend, snip: This story, like all good San Francisco stories, begins at the tail end of a chilly-and-sunburned Gay Pride Sunday […]
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found it!

5 July 2007
My G-spot, location according to Google Maps. Was in a room of friends yesterday who were giddily reading parts of The Smart Girl's Guide to the G-Spot aloud (over cocktails) and Hacker Boy said, "Hold on, I'll find it!"
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happy porn of july

4 July 2007
Scooter was commuted. Obscenity prosecutions are willfully heading toward Comstock-era proportions. Bill O'Reilly is "news". Gitmo, Gitmo, Gitmo. Nice place we got here, eh? Actually, it's pretty nice, despite our government's best efforts of late. Exercise your San Francisco values today and enjoy a little porn that flaunts your rights as […]
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johnny, are you queer?

3 July 2007
(more...)
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virtual sex product company sues within second life

3 July 2007
This is fascinating -- a virtual sex product company within (local) online real-time virtual world Second Life is suing a virtual citizen for copyright infringement. Second Life may be subpoena'd for the true identity of the alleged copyright infringer, which is unknown at this time. Amusingly, the defendant has issued […]
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I’ve written a few sex books

3 July 2007
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pizza delivery man, anyone?

3 July 2007
For reals! Snip (thanks, Cyrus!): It's only about a week old, but a new pizza place in Winnipeg has already aroused attention - not for its pizza pie, but for the racy extra that comes with it. Patrons must be 18 years and older to order from Porno Pizza, which delivers pornographic […]
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bill o’reilly’s fantasy lesbian criminal gangs

2 July 2007
No, really -- I'm sitting here so bemusedly, offendedly stunned after watching Bill O'Reilly's Fox News segment about lesbian/homosexual/dyke criminal gangs "indoctrinating" members and sexually initiating them and committing crimes (like beating up men and threatening them with pink 9mm Glocks) that I'm just... speechless. Bill has just delivered unto […]
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the EU’s hot cinema promo clip

2 July 2007
My pal L. writes from Copenhagen today, "EU has launched a sexed-up youtube clip to advertise the commissions program MEDIA, which provides subsidies to filmmakers in the EU. The ad has a title worthy of any (American) porn flick: It's called 'Coming together to celebrate European films' (duh!). What are […]
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three books I’m diggin’ this weekend

30 June 2007
* The Very Bloody Marys by M. Christian This is M. Christian at his best -- back cover: "A gang of Vespa-riding vampires are killing San Franciscans so indiscriminately they threaten to not only drain the city dry -- but risk the discovery of vampires everywhere. Gay vampire cop Valentino is […]
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podtech’s little photo problem

29 June 2007
Not sex related, but directly related to me and my communities: the Podtech photo misuse issue that's emerging on blogs and the Yahoo videoblogger mailing list. A few weeks ago I caught this, thanks to Jason pointing it out on my photostream -- but haven't had time to follow up […]
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