absolutely wonderful GETV episode now up: the musee mechanique

6 August 2007
GETV is just getting more fun all the time -- I had a wild urge to go to the Musee Mechanique down on Pier 45 (the old mechanical museum) and Eddie brought the camera. We had a blast! Then Eddie kicked my ass at pinball. Watch the episode on the […]
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well-hung obiter dictum

3 August 2007
* It's time for indie porn film fest submissions -- and bi (coastal) is the new black. My friends at CineKink NYC are partnering with LA's Erotica Film Fest for the fest and their submission deadline is August 15. It looks less indie and more mainstream porn than I'd hoped, […]
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review: ifc’s indie sex series is riveting

2 August 2007
Image from Secretary, via. An update on the state of sex and cinema has been long overdue. IFC did it in their excellent IFC's Indie Sex Mini-Series, which started last night and runs through friday saturday: it's airing in four parts on the IFC channel right now (after midnight, of course). […]
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hey flirty-pants

2 August 2007
This week's column is locally focused: a fun guide to some (of my) favorite places to flirt and hook up in San Francisco. When I leave the house, that is. Snip: About a month ago I provided some comments for a Men's Health piece about "finding men" in San Francisco, and […]
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susan mernit’s thoughts on organizing the female sexblogosphere

2 August 2007
Someone I like (but don't really know), Susan Mernit, has a great post up on the BlogHer blog about her thoughts re: how she'd categorize some of the leading women in the sexblogosphere. It's a fascinating, well-thought post, with lots of really interesting female sex blogs (and bloggers) put into […]
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italian translations!

1 August 2007
A whole box of them just arrived -- Italian translations of my first book (and its sequel) Sweet Life 1 and Sweet Life 2. w00t!!!! Eeeeee!!!! But the irony here for me is in the re-titling of the books (compiled into one volume, above). You see, I named my first collection […]
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lara jade sues

31 July 2007
Regular readers will remember a few months back when the Lara Jade scandal erupted. I wasn't the first one to write about the porn company that used one of her self-portraits (taken when she was 14) to sell re-packaged "classic" porn (and her plea for help on Flickr), but I […]
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well hung links

31 July 2007
Image by Captive Girls, @. I haven't done one of these in a while; let me distract you for a bit.... * Fun stuff: Mind Fetish Bedding Company is introducing a huge new line of high-quality leather and rubber housewares to their inventory, so customers can better integrate fetish into their homes […]
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dildos 2.0

30 July 2007
Sharing is caring, seen @ Kink.com; friday night. (Kept next to the condoms, so sharing is sanitary, m'kay?) The other great photo from the weekend -- birdbath = bloodbath?
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can’t sleep: christine kessler

30 July 2007
Site portfolio is Flash but still entertaining.
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say what you want, 4am version

30 July 2007
After taking care of Hacker Boy with a 100+ fever all weekend and trying to meet deadlines (and enduring an insanely sex-negative, biased interview with Details asking about how women in porn are a result of 'childhood trauma' and questions about porn's 'psychological damage') I get *this* idiocy from Times […]
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kink.com’s super-awesome 2257 psa

27 July 2007
If you're not familiar with US federal 2257 regulations, you can read about them on Wikipedia and on Fleshbot, and even quite a lot on this website. In a (very opinionated, slightly tipsy) nutshell, they are a set of laws that are in place ostensibly to prevent underage people from […]
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rectal foreign objects in the ER: lessons in local pathology

26 July 2007
Image of wayward celery in Lorelei Lee from this album; I shot it at a San Francisco house party for Pink and White Productions. Today's column in the SF Gate (teh Chronic) is Hard Lessons in Local Pathology: What are the Bay Area's most common rectal foreign objects? Need I […]
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this orgasm is not yet rated

25 July 2007
Except... it is. To the delight of many, this year indy porn company (and good friends) Comstock Films submitted their flagship title Marie and Jack: A Hardcore Love Story to the MPAA for a rating -- receiving on Feb 26, 2007, amazingly, the blessed/reviled (legendary) NC-17 rating. In an email tonight […]
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nyc indyporn: hookin’ up

25 July 2007
Well, they're definitely still working on their website, and Porno Jim's first release is about to be in the wild: but we'll see if any mainstream channels will pick up Hookin' Up. I hope so, and things seem to be getting easier for indy porn makers to get their work […]
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n de samim

24 July 2007
A very sex, flirty girl just sent me a very sexy, flirty website: N De Samim Lingerie. Sound and Flash alert, but whew -- this is pure hotness. It doesn't hurt that one of the models looks like a long-lost lover of mine. If I had the extra cash, I'd […]
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webnation #9: violet blue + andy samberg

24 July 2007
Moblog self-portrait taken with my Helio Ocean. My Webnation interview went up last week -- and it's ultra-fabulous!!!! Webnation #9 with the wonderful, sweet, smart Amber MacArthur -- featuring two guests: me and Saturday Night Live's Andy Samberg. w00t!!!! The episode also has a couple of my favorite viral videos from […]
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quote of the week

24 July 2007
"Sometimes when she talks, you can hear the gun go off in your mouth." --friend who works customer service in the Ferry Building Marketplace
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men’s health interview: why we have sex

23 July 2007
(image @, via) As seen on Fleshbot and other media outlets last week, the results of a study about sexual motivations started to hit the wires; the psychologists thankfully eschewed the typical "biological imperative" argument and really dug into people's reasons for fucking. I have no idea how diverse their definitions […]
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hotness and flattery, times a zillion!

23 July 2007
Margaret Cho emails, as you know i love your blog... AND i love how your sakura so flirtatiously peek out from under your skirt, so i had to get some myself... done by barnaby at mom's tattoo shop in sf... love margaret My head fell off when I saw this! I am totally freaking out. I think […]
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