japanese pop rock viagra?

17 August 2007
No, not spam -- a very funny, highly naughty Japanese music video sent by my good pal Jackson. Also embedded after the jump. (more...)
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About: Me + Survival Research Laboratories

17 August 2007
Image from March 2007 by my dear friend, Scott Beale/Laughing Squid. I am still a member of SRL. Wikipedia trolls can ask myself or Mark Pauline for final say on the matter. I have been a core member from 1996 to the present. I am not participating in the September Robodock […]
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nerve’s vlog blog sez, “violet blue = red hot”!

16 August 2007
ZOMFGWTFLGBTBBQ (and Q)! Nerve's Video Blog featured me! Thank you, Nerve! ::blush:: And -- jesus reverse-cowgirling a pink glitter pogo stick Nerve, that's one fucking excellent vlog blog. I'm really enjoying the selections: timesuck ahoy!
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is for fetish

16 August 2007
Le Fin, le Fetish. Can't wait for the weekend!
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madison young’s kickass new pro-porn gallery space: femina potens

16 August 2007
This week's column, Madison Young: Bondage Model. Artist. Feminist. Snip: It all started innocuously enough. I was having drinks at a private event at Kink.com and walked over to say hi to one of the company's most famous bondage models, Madison Young (madisonbound.com). We'd met once before, on a panel, where […]
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recycle your sex toys? hell yes, and for a good cause

16 August 2007
Image of the *superlative* rabbit vibe via my friends, Stockroom. Sounds yucky, but it looks like it's a "greening" of the sex toy industry in a whole new incarnation. It seems that in the UK, new recycling regulations mean all electrical equipment (like 'novelty' toys) must be disposed of at a […]
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a damn good reason to cross post

16 August 2007
Over on techyum, apols for the xpost but it's important: No, really. It's an actual Security Focus study, not some sexual compulsive religious nut 'testifying' before congress (I mean, another dubious study fabricated by the American Family Association). Check it out and read the whole damning thing, snip: School kids are more […]
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corset lust, corset lust

15 August 2007
I have a corset fetish, and I don't even own a corset -- they're so expensive, and never seem as beautiful and stunning as the one worn above, by Dahlia Dark. Anyone know where I can find one like this? This, to me, is the perfect corset. I want, I […]
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beware the busy cupcake

14 August 2007
Apologies for taking a few days off around here, as I've been alternately *actually having sex* and doing some very, very emotionally difficult writing. For the past two weeks, I've been working on writing down all my experiences of living on the streets as a teen. It's all flooding back. […]
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stockroom’s new black bunny hood

12 August 2007
Wow! Also: more wow -- look at the talk schedule for porn and tech conference, Arse Electronica.
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irony

10 August 2007
I'm sitting in the UCSF surgery center waiting to take a friend home, blogging from my Helio Ocean -- because the Tyra Banks show is on the waiting room TV. Just a wee bit odd. (more...)
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a beer, my helio, some fun alone

10 August 2007
Tonight, solo shots. The whole set is here.
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Appearance: Tyra Banks Show

9 August 2007
No, really. They asked me. In negotiation, but prelim answer is yes. We'll be talking about women and porn, and that book I wrote. She wants me to be the 'female porn expert.' Thoughts? Also, looks like I'm going to be on the altporn panel at the LA Erotic Film Fest. Donations […]
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that’s one lubed-up silicone psa, Tantus

9 August 2007
My friends at Tantus -- tireless advocates for hygienic silicone sex toys, and makers of the best ones around -- have a nice short ad/psa clip just uploaded to our favorite censorious video hosting site. Embedded after the jump, while it lasts. (more...)
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conservative sexual fetishes: a hardcore guide — in sf gate :)

9 August 2007
I'm kind of not surprised this week's column is shoved down the page; it's likely making people like "fellow" columnist Cinnamon Stillwell piss in her chastity belt. This week, I lovingly guide readers through the sexual fetishes of people like, the Murdochs, the Malkins, the Haggards, the Bushes, the Gonzales' […]
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about those top 50 sex scenes: what makes great sex onscreen?

8 August 2007
When I reviewed IFC's uber-fabulous Indie Sex series, I mentioned their list of 50 Greatest Sex Scenes in Cinema, a list that IFC co-presented with Nerve. As I mentioned, your mileage may vary with their picks, but Josh Spero over at Guardian UK's blogs has a really fantastic opinion post […]
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my co-column with dan savage for savage love! strap-on sex for straight couples

8 August 2007
Gorgeous image by my friend Steve Diet Goedde, at (more friends!) Stockroom. Previous (non-explicit) image was deleted from Flickr, ha. I just love that the column got titled with one of my more outrageous quotes -- You Don't Have To Be Mistress Asscrusher or Worthless Buttslut To Enjoy Strap-On Sex. Co-written […]
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“snip snip”

7 August 2007
I had an urge to make my tights into stockings -- while still wearing them. Hacker Boy insisted on helping; I live blogged it as it happened with my Helio Ocean. The set of what happened in my kitchen is here.
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adult swim: sex

7 August 2007
It's a very short but fun video with a variety of funny sex moments in the lives of various Adult Swim cartoon characters... Oh, Phil Ken Sebben. How I need you. (more...)
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hot, erotic photos at paulie & pauline

7 August 2007
One of my favorite kinds of erotic photos collections always include couples -- it's easy to find babes, fetish girls, porn scenes... but sexy couples are difficult to find. I return endlessly to the work of Samantha Wolov, but now I'm happy to see a very talented photographer friend of […]
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