from the boy sometimes found in my bed wearing little but a chart/graph covered laptop

10 September 2007
Hacker Boy sends me this xkcd comic saying, "How we found each other."
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f-cup dictum

10 September 2007
* You thought the Japanese tea that (allegedly) made boobies bigger was the next -- er -- big thing. But how about F-Cup cookies? (side image via) * Please, please, please email those totally disconnected lawmakers about your right to put a photo of breastfeeding on Facebook or your adult right […]
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scary bunny

8 September 2007
This is a pic by Aaron Dunn, who has a lot of very sexy galleries -- but it's via my (deep dark secret favorite new fetish blog), Bunnylicious (via). See also, previously: Aaron Dunn's Optimus Prime Hot Robot Love! More scary bunny action: check out this fetish bunny leather hood video: […]
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madison young on nerve, by smantha wolov

7 September 2007
Take a break from worrying about our sexual privacy and freedom, and rinse your eyes with some really hot photos taken of Madison Young (whom I interviewed here). Wow, Madison's hair is really getting long. :) The series is by one of my favorite photographers, Samantha Wolov. Some of you might […]
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do police have less constitutional rights than citizens? (yes, it’s about porn)

7 September 2007
Image: from when I rode with the SFPD contingent in the 2007 Pride Parade. My dear sweetness Lawgeek sends me this news item on Reuters, about an officer who was fired for running a sex website with his wife when off the clock. A three-judge 9th U.S. Circuit Court of Appeals […]
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important: only four days left to protest scary privacy violations of 2257 laws

6 September 2007
I'm wholly reposting this from Viviane because a) it's scary-important, and b) we are friends so I don't think she'll mind. Like social networking sites? (Flickr, Pownce, MySpace, etc. etc.) Want the DoJ to be able to search you without a warrant if they think you've posted a "sexually explicit" […]
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low tek’s stunning doll series

6 September 2007
In a follow-up re: images in my Rape of the Real Doll column post, I got an email from a reader who pointed me toward more from this gorgeous photo series -- prompting me to let you know that the Low Tek Photography image in the last post is not […]
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the rape of the real doll, part one

6 September 2007
Image by LowTek, via. This week's column at the Chronicle / SF Gate is The Rape of the Real Doll, Part One: Violet Blue explores why silicone just seems to be "asking for it". Kudos to teh chronic for running this edgy piece -- there's some extreme ground covered here. On […]
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digits, flippers, my fin

5 September 2007
Wow -- I'm so blown away I can't keep it to myself. It just took me literally 30 seconds to log into my Helio account page, switch phones and sync all my contacts. I left my Ocean at Hacker Boy's by accident (on the cat, actually) so plugged in the […]
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yes, I’m the Google Labs user your lawyer warned you about…

5 September 2007
The fourth result was flattering. But the timeline view search result for fellatio made me sad.
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vaginal plastic surgery iz evil; gynos concur

4 September 2007
Along with questionable procedures like the G-Shot and its alleged orgasm enhancements, vaginal "rejuvination" surgeries (vaginoplasty) are just as scary and harmful as us sex educators and people with general common sense already *knew*. Snip: Cosmetic procedures billed as "vaginal rejuvenation," "designer vaginoplasty" or even "revirgination" are not medically necessary and […]
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hold the quechup, please

4 September 2007
Just saying for fellow sex bloggers, because I got two Quechup invites from Sam Sugar this morning.
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maggie gyllenhaal is agent provocateur’s new poster girl!

3 September 2007
...And I just fell over in a sweaty, twitching heap of lipgloss and glasses and tangled Ethernet cables. You'll remember the last hot, much-blogged Agent Provocateur poster girl vehicle, 'dreams of miss x' starred tiny mctiny Kate Moss. Here's the snip: Hollywood actress Maggie Gyllenhaal has taken over supermodel Kate Moss […]
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just a hot photo

3 September 2007
From one of my Flickr friends. I hope you're all having a nice weekend; I've been busy working on all kinds of naughty projects -- expect some exciting media from me by the end of the week. I'm also totally freaking out about going on Tyra on the 13th (in a […]
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(lust for) ang lee’s nc-17 lust

31 August 2007
Just read a fantastic article at Guardian UK about Ang Lee's upcoming new film Lust, Caution -- which is causing the usual fuss due to its NC-17 rating, but Lee isn't flinching. In a related coincidence, or not, yesterday afternoon Tony Comstock sent me an excited email about a long […]
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“so, tonight, I had iPhone sex”

31 August 2007
Published with permission, names changed to protect the defilers of the sacred phone innocent. (Image via; get more here and here.) More after the jump -- they really get it on. As it happened: SW: kt: lets have iphone secks SW: yours has a female condom on already kt: ok kt: no kt: I took […]
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google vanity alert strikes again

30 August 2007
It has all the right keywords... except this Violet disagrees about the blowjob part.
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ten worst places to have sex in san francisco

30 August 2007
Image: Macworld (nee Moscone) is not on the list. You all know how I feel about Macworld. I'm getting sweet *and* unflinchingly mean email about this one. Whatever. I was just having fun. In the SFO stall. By myself. Really. Anyway, here's a snip from the middle of my Chron/SF Gate […]
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federal judge rules that humans are responsible for their own negligent sexual behavior, not websites

30 August 2007
It's a classic: her profile said 18, in reality she was 14, he had sex with her and got caught and tried to blame the website for not policing its members. But a federal judge in Ohio ruled it's not the website's fault (in a 29-page ruling). A much more […]
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alright, who told ABC? don’t make me tap my foot at you, bitch.

29 August 2007
I am about to shriek with laughter. Oh crap, now I'm crying with giggles. Nervous twitchers beware! I better run down to the Castro and tell the guys that semaphore is *so* last year's airport restroom. Snip from ABC News' Secret Signals: How Gay Men Cruise for Sex: While many Americans […]
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