my complete folsom (and kinky visitor’s) guide for this weekend

29 September 2007
...is here.
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s and m is *not* short for sex and murder: this week’s chron column

28 September 2007
(image via the stunning, delicious galleries of Sebastian Solo (via); this hardcore image was my second choice) This week's Chron column is a day late (for obvious reasons) but it's got some razor-sharp teeth -- mostly taking the local rag SF Weekly to task for tarring BDSM with an ugly brush […]
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porn and tech conference : arse elektronika

28 September 2007
(image via) Today at Fleshbot I blogged about the upcoming porn and technology conference here in SF, Arse Elektronika -- read the post! (Yay, I'm back in action!) Pertinent details for Arse right now are: get tickets before they sell out, register as press *now* if you want to cover it […]
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quiet, please

24 September 2007
I am in shock; explanation here. For the next few days I will miss your deadlines, and not return your emails. Todd is all I care about right now, and I'm now in phone contact with people who are there with him. Light a candle and hope with me. An SRL […]
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oh, snap

24 September 2007
And to think that some of us get flowers on our one-year anniversary with the MSM. Others are "parting company" with ABC I'm sure her future promises more "rule breaking" new media adventures. (ahem). /snap Speaking of getting spanked on my birthday (okay, I know that's a stretch), but while I did […]
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the surprise

23 September 2007
Image of Hacker Boy presenting me with cake by Lane Hartwell. Hacker Boy was very, very naughty. At the last minute, he turned what I thought was a quiet dinner at his house into an impromptu surprise party for me -- I've never had one! It worked, I didn't suspect a […]
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my happy chronniversary

21 September 2007
Flowers delivered today to celebrate my one year anniversary as the sex columnist for the SF Chronicle/SF Gate! Which coincides with my birthday, so I'm off to a great start for the weekend. The lady who brought them said, "They specifically said to make it look 'goth'". Hee! And -- […]
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about.com on tyra: surprising, humiliating, embarrassing, derogatory, defamatory…

21 September 2007
Cory Silverberg at About.com has quite a write-up about my experience with the Tyra Banks Show. And I am stunned, into silence, snip: (...) If you haven't had any interaction with Violet Blue yet a recent video blog she posted offers a new reason to meet her (virtually at least) and […]
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saturday is my birfday

20 September 2007
I'll be finally turning eighteen, so I can read my own blog. I have no plans, no family, no money and no shortage of very bad porn. I am not depressed, yet. I want to thank all of you -- readers, listeners, viewers, emailers, lurkers and friends for another great […]
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the podcast review everyone loves

20 September 2007
Image by Merkley???, titled "Luna -- Dinner". (see also; browser resize warning). I've gotten multiple emails (with hilarious commentary) from fans of my Open Source Sex podcast about its most brilliant review, evah. "have you seen this awesome show review?" "Your show in a nutshell through funny conservative glasses". (Are those […]
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top spots for sex in san francisco

20 September 2007
Image via Tokyo Undressed. Researched and revealed in my Chronicle/SF Gate column this week: Hot spots to have sex in the city ("IKEA is so last year. Violet Blue serves up sizzling locales for sex"). If you're coming to town for Folsom at the end of the month this might be […]
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tyra banks show — *not* america’s next top blogger

20 September 2007
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we know it when we see it, ye scurvy anti-porn dogs

19 September 2007
Image courtesy of Blue Blood (the dot net version). But it's Talk Like A Pirate Day, so there. Interesting to see this item pop up on Reuters India: anti-porn people are not getting their way, so sad. Though the article's claims that "the FBI has focused investigations on small operations" is […]
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my la erotic film fest review at fleshbot

18 September 2007
... Is extremely biting. I think you'll like Los Angeles Erotic Film Fest 2007: Wrap It Up (I've been working on it all day, phew). It includes lots of links to photo galleries, coverage by others (good, bad and predictable) and this Altporn, Demystified panel intro video Hacker Boy shot […]
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a great time in LA, though not enough time, as usual…

17 September 2007
Here's a fantastic shot of me having fun with the fabulous Fleshbot crush object Dana DeArmond (her paysite, her MySpace blog), who is so smart and snarky and cool, I'd hang out with her any day of the week. Lots of great images from our brief time (and the Altporn, […]
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eon mckai’s refrigerator art

16 September 2007
Turtle: "I'm horny some girls say I have a big dick" Unicorn: "my boobies are cool" Unicorn boobies, yay! I think that's the storyboard for his next porn film, as long as the unicorn has stripey socks ;) I'm at Eon's in LA, about to head to the film fest for the "Altporn, […]
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recline, read

15 September 2007
Some things you might have missed, or ought to peep -- niblets I've been wanting to blog but have been electing to investigate the aging, distended, disintegrating wall between celebrity and reality instead. Vacation from reality almost over. Check this out: * Tristan Taormino, Village Voice columnist, sex educator, author, editor, […]
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catching up: yesterday’s column, real doll rape part two

14 September 2007
Image via. Note: this was a two-part series for my Open Source Sex Chron column that (I think) reads best together, in sequence. Here's Rape of the Real Doll Part One, and here's a snip from the rest -- Rape of the Real Doll Part Two: IDollators are seen by Swanson as […]
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landed

12 September 2007
* met by a driver with "BLUE" sign at the gate; delivered in a limo * at the top floor of a really nice hotel with a great view of Madison Square Garden * Tyra's people had a little cash waiting for me when I checked in, sweeeeet * knowing all my NY […]
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bar fun

11 September 2007
I met Bart Nagel in a bar tonight, and he swiped my Canon Powershot TX1 for a sec and took this photo -- I also met the very sweet Charles Ogilvie and had a second with my dear friend Xeni and more friends; we all had much fun faking "myspace […]
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