a great google talk

12 October 2007
Today I spoke to a packed (standing and sitting on the floor, even) room at Google about sexual privacy online in all forms, understanding sex and search (and who looks for it and why) and so much more. It was a tremendous opportunity to demystify sex and porn (and user […]
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omg! I’m at google tomorrow — evidence by nokia!

11 October 2007
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gv amateur erotic film competition: tonight

11 October 2007
whoah -- image by mzvm from the 2007 Barcelona International Erotic Film Fest. I'm going! Gore's a bore, plus it's pr0n at the Castro!
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the sex column about sex columns: interview with rachel kramer bussel

11 October 2007
This is one of my most favorite interviews, ever: today's SF Gate / Chronicle column is The Sex Columnist Meta-Universe. The openness, honesty and sharp articulate observations Rachel Kramer Bussel has about the state (and future) of sex columns is *amazing*. Note: she never, ever wrote an abbreviated version […]
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facts

10 October 2007
(that's Todd on the right, with the kewl patch I sewed on his jacket.) * Todd is awake and responsive mentally, aw yeah! Not so much with the physical yet. Got a great text today from Alex (from Todd's phone, such a strange thing to see at first) saying they miss […]
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i can haz ultracho?

10 October 2007
My crush on Margaret Cho (image via) just went ultra, with the utterly fucking fabulous article about her Sensuous Woman show in today's SF Gate Asian Pop column by Jeff Yang -- and the fact that Maragaret's blog had become a full-on vlog of the Sensuous Woman tour and features […]
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the jerry sanders announcement

8 October 2007
Apologies if you've already seen this video but it's incredible, and didn't get nearly enough press -- we thought what Gavin Newsom did here in San Francisco was big, shocking news for gay marriage. But when San Diego mayor Jerry Sanders flipped over 30 years of conservatism and made a […]
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deaf bunny: super kewl ASL porn for the deaf

8 October 2007
Image: Brooke and Hilton: Deaf Bunny Girls. It's Deaf Bunny! Looks like they just launched and have their first title ready: Naughty Deaf Roommates (sound + autoplay warning). Yes, that's porn by, and for, deaf people, all in American Sign Language. I really want to see it! (Thanks, SB!)
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fun Arse photos by Matt Ganucheau

8 October 2007
Matt Ganucheau let me post some of his Arse images -- like the one above and the cool photos of his making of Moaning Lisa (below).
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[video] daytime at kink.com and arse elektronika setup

8 October 2007
Click To Play play_blip_movie_421239(); A rare glimpse of kink.com with the lights on while we were setting up for Arse Elektronika 2007, the sex and technology conference. at the end, a quick demo of Matt Ganucheau's interactive "female orgasm simulator" called Moaning Lisa. The video ends abruptly, as my laptop is slowly […]
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in the arse elektronika fishbowl

7 October 2007
Image of me, as I am right now, by Rose White. ...just found out that my panel has been moved to 10pm. Yes. 10pm. I did two presentations yesterday, and the media coverage is excellent to far. Wired has lots of great images by Lane Hartwell (::smooch::) here and here; Scott […]
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drinkhacker honors me with a cocktail!

5 October 2007
Cheers to you, Drinkhacker! Image of me as Jonno's glam GayVN date by sweet Jonno. Last night -- and just in time for the weekend -- Drinkhacker created and named a cocktail after me: The Violet Blue. Hmmm, this requires some research :) After the recipe details, they write, The trick is […]
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america’s naughtiest marching band?

5 October 2007
Image by me when I went to NY with the band in 2005! They have *no* idea... ! Congrats to my friends and family in Extra Action for this great writeup in Naughty America, snip: “It felt like everything was coming to a climax – and all of the sudden the floor […]
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happy birthday bubble wrap (fetish)

4 October 2007
Image via southpaw20's bubblewrap tag. Over at Guardian UK, there's a nifty article about the invention of bubble wrap, on its 50th anniversary. 50 years of wrap? That's more than I thought -- but it does bring to mind the number of times I've heard people confessing to having a bubble […]
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open source sex podcast on the podshow

4 October 2007
A sweet surprise -- Adam Curry is featuring my Open Source Sex Podcast in the newest episode of his PodShow's PodFinder, Episode 28: I Want Your Sex(casts). It's a nice review of a handful of great, current sex podcasts -- and thanks for the compliments, Adam! (There's an excerpt of […]
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this week’s column: a porn and technology conference you might have heard of…

4 October 2007
Image via mckibillo's Wonderfest set. I'm working on my talk right now, phew. But through my fever I had a lot of fun writing Arse Elektronika 2007: Porn and Tech Conference ("Violet Blue holds hope for the future of sex, despite the musical condoms"). Snip: This weekend in San Francisco, futurists, tech […]
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all about the bra biz

4 October 2007
Image via lyddite's playful vintage panties bras photoset. My friend Anna (the one I judged The Vloggies with last year) just had one of her National Geographic documentaries air last weekend -- Bra Business. I missed it, but Nat Geo is so cool about sharing media they have it up now […]
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newt gingrich stays “on message”

2 October 2007
Image: winner of the Second Life "best boobs" contest 2007, Keumjoo Ahn. Noticed in the MSM headlines this week that Newt Gingrich is parroting the current Republican party line that Hilary is the "one to beat" -- and considering what happened in Gingrich's recent Second Life appearance, the double entendres are […]
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possibly the flu

2 October 2007
...or some other awful bug has me very ill; swollen throat, upper respiratory ickiness. Am flat-out sick. The setbacks with Todd don't help. Talked to his dad last night and they're in the air to Holland right now; hearing the VA doc say, "well know more when we get on […]
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under the weather, under the sea

29 September 2007
Right before I went out last night, I saw the incredibly touching post about Todd by my close friend Thomas -- thank you, Thomas. I walked toward Hayes Valley, and with the beginnings of a sore throat and feeling cut by the sharp, chill wind off Twin Peaks, I hailed a […]
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