the vlog party of the year

8 November 2007
Photo by friend/family Scott Beale/Laughing Squid. I'm so excited about The Winnies, I'm actually going to LA for it (Nov. 30, free). OMG -- there's going to be live Galacticast -- need I say more!? I think their funnest episode yet is: The Real World Amityville. I love the Bruce Campbell […]
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I don’t think you’re ready for this jelly (rubber sex toy)

8 November 2007
In reference to this week's column for the Chronicle @ SF Gate, Not All Butt Plugs Should Glow in the Dark -- the Destiny's Child lyric was on the front page of the Chronicle today sending people to read my column, an excellent surprise. (Thank you!) I cracked up when […]
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news.com ganks a photo, no credit: community iz pissed off

6 November 2007
This isn't sex related, but it's happening right now (to a friend, who recently shot fun pics at my pre-Halloween party) -- and editors from cNet are responding in the comments. Check it out here.
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hot, fun and distracting: diary of a mad photographer

5 November 2007
Geoff Ashley is one of our Gawker Artists, but it wasn't until I was working really super hard and concentrating on writing my column today that I clicked around and found his LiveJournal -- and his super-delish portfolio site. Be sure to check out "latest works", which is chock full […]
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I can haz mainstream markit nao kthxbye

5 November 2007
It has just been brought to my attention that my books have been vetted for married heterosexual couples. Hitched.com writes, "She is one of the most well known and well read experts in the field of sex and writes on everything from cunnilingus to the care and keeping of sex […]
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just seen in my neighborhood

4 November 2007
Projected on the Castro Theater! More details just live photoblogged with my Helio here. (The text # to write Cheney's response is 30644.)
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boobs, boobs, boobs: the remix

4 November 2007
Photo via deeharman, who has her own, graphic boob-tastic video here (contains a violent scene; extra points if you recognize the film). Just spotted and muchly enjoyed: my friend Cunning Minx, a self-identifying 'boobiesexual', of Polyamory Weekly made a cute little video ode to the world of (some not so little, […]
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a ton of vibrators, destroyed!

3 November 2007
We mentioned it briefly on Fleshbot yesterday, but you really should watch the video of LoveHoney's Rabbit Recycling Program in action -- it's here and embedded after the jump. Piles (a huge bin, "the first ton") of pink Rabbit Habit vibes, crushed, ground up! Maybe it's my love of industrial […]
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exciting new books, hot off the presses!

2 November 2007
(photo taken/uploaded with my Ocean) Staci's incredible new book, my exciting new book -- just came from my publisher, they're just released (online; should hit stores soon)!!!!!! * Healing Sex * Best Women's Erotica 2008
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hit + run: still more halloween (alt)pr0n

2 November 2007
I just love the front page of Altporn.net right now; it's all zombie chicks and babes in Halloween getups. Just take a glance; all the links lead to signup pages, sadly no free galleries hide behind the tantalizing photos. But still, this one's my favorite, wish I could see more […]
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niceness: youtube’s top ten, plus a great review

2 November 2007
This week saw a fabulous review for The Smart Girls' Guide to the G-Spot on The Dinah Project (an Israeli women's blog!). And today I discovered that the YouTube video for my Google sexual privacy talk is getting pretty viral, coming in at YouTube's #6 most-viewed video for the month […]
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randy blue: no relation

1 November 2007
Just thought I'd put it out there, since everyone's wondering "what's in a name" these days, that even though we share the same last name -- and if I were to put out a cheesy low-budget gay vampire porn movie, I'd *totally* call it "A Taste Of Blue" too -- […]
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chronicle column: the DoJ and “mainstream obscenity”

1 November 2007
Image via D A Photography, blogged previously by me here. In my column this week: I explore, via some excellent and largely unreported liveblogging by Glenn Greenwald at Salon.com about Attorney General nominee Michael Mukasey's confirmation hearing -- and how he was grilled about (and swore to) prosecute "mainstream obscenity." Mainstream […]
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I googled the onion but all I got was fox news

1 November 2007
Omg, I know -- it's shocking to hear that Bill O'Reilly is still a bag de la douche. But puh-leeze: San Francisco Values Caught on Tape? A slow news weekend, eh? It's at least funny to read: "Now this is entirely legal. And we are not objecting to the display […]
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happy happy happy halloween

31 October 2007
My favorite holiday! Gosh, being spanked with a lollipop looks fun! Two sexy Halloween babe galleries -- here's the lollipop gallery (via Sex Blog Roundup @ Fleshbot); here's a nasty messy sexy gothy pumpkin gallery (thanks, A). Here are some Halloweeny links, some with a heavy accent on the *weeny* […]
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[audio] halloween erotica podcast; creatures of the night erotica audiobook

30 October 2007
Wow -- open source sex #60 -- and it's hot Halloween erotica. It's a delicious sample chapter from my 13-chapter (14 files) Halloween erotica audiobook for $7 at digitapub.com, Creatures of the Night Audiobook (also in many multi-device ebook flavors). In the podcast: KC's "Cops and Robbers", a woman mistakenly […]
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pre-halloween (halloween) photos

29 October 2007
Photo by Maximum Mitch. The day of Halloween might be best celebrated at home for us San Franciscans -- especially those of us in the Castro. Most merchants I've been chatting with over the past week have been saying they're all renting movies and ordering in. Typically, it's like our version […]
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tasty erotic video samples at libido films

29 October 2007
A while back, Libido Films sent me a screener copy of their film Trial Run for review, and a possible DVD-cover quote. Trial Run sounds fun in theory and possible practice -- in it, a woman places a personal ad, combs through to find a guy that might be fun, […]
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halloween erotica! enjoy my — our — drm-free ‘creatures of the night’

27 October 2007
* Yay, it's up! With much help from my friends, here's my handpicked Halloween erotic ebook, in one multi-format .zip. (If you purchased my non-fiction "how to kiss" and want another text format please email me with your purchase # and I'll send you all formats in a .zip -- […]
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why didn’t anyone tell me about Planet Unicorn?

26 October 2007
It came up in discussion at SFSI training last weekend. For separate talks to students, people with different sexual orientations come and talk and answer questions about their orientation. There was a scheduling kerfluff: the straight guy flaked, the gay guy didn't show (it was a mixup), but the bisexual […]
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