so many more important things to blog about…

3 December 2007
But it's still fun to see how Flickr is giving it to users at both ends. Like me! I have a bunch of important things to write about Monday (news, murder and scandal, my SFSI.org day today). Yet, let's indulge the TOU and see if Alice can manage to drink […]
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oh flickr, no

1 December 2007
So, okay, they won't tell me what photos have violated their policy. But I just logged out and viewed my Flickr page and -- the ONLY photos viewable to the public are the ones the Flickr staff marked as safe: the photo sets of me IN MY PANTIES. That's right, […]
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flickr censors my entire photostream, again

1 December 2007
No, they don't say what photo triggered it. They even made "moderate" photos that they personally individually approved and marked as "safe" just a few months ago. You'll note that I carefully hid the racier images I took last night from public view, except through this site. I *pay* for […]
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just another friday night

1 December 2007
Shot with my Helio Ocean. It was the Kink.com holiday party for employees and happy hour guests; the last private party in the space. Yes, sex was happening in corners when we left; the Blogger Bungalow could not be reached for comment regarding the rest of the night. The guest pass […]
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particularly fitting

30 November 2007
... not just for the weekend, but for a whole damn year of dealing with people who are cruel and unwell. This quote in my horoscope this week: Carl Jung: "The foundation of all mental illness is an unwillingness to experience legitimate suffering."
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pretty girl friday

30 November 2007
A smattering of free galleries; I'm super picky and these are good -- not out of control, hand in your pants amazing, but quite good. Olga D is in the kitchen -- my god, I hope she eats something! Fabi bought her stripperwear at Walgreens by my house, I know […]
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doucebaggery at esquire: next time, I’ll pass

30 November 2007
I've been quoted in Esquire pretty steadily since 2003. Sometimes twice in a year. I'm nice, give them solid soundbyte-ready sex ed tips, and though I'm not always easy to get a hold of, I make sure I get them something by their deadline. And they always, always use what […]
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[audio] open source sex 61: how to kiss

30 November 2007
Just for fun, last night after I recorded my new audiobook How to Kiss I set aside this chapter to share in my open source sex podcast. It's chapter 4, where I detail all the different types of kisses: the good, the bad, and the *scary*. Hey, I know we've […]
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how to kiss: my brand new audiobook!

29 November 2007
I pulled a late night last night and recorded an entire book: the audio version of my book, How to Kiss! It was intense but really fun -- what a sex nerd gets up to when she's home alone on a work binge, I tell ya... Congratulations, me! It's almost […]
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best Chron comments, ever

29 November 2007
My nose became a coffee-shooter when I saw this morning's comments on my SF Gate / Chronicle column about sex toys (note: Sullivan's Funeral Home is right by my house). Never has my column brought me so much joy! Here's a snip: shotzyreborn wrote: Well I am too vanilla and too unimaginative […]
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scrooged lubed

29 November 2007
This week's column, Lube the Halls -- also includes my top picks for 2007's newest holiday sex toys gifts, from the high-end designer vibes to the superb new basics: Maybe I shouldn't have started mulling over my annual sex toy list after a big vegan Thanksgiving feast. I had barely cracked […]
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exciting upcoming youth-focused conferece — sex::tech

28 November 2007
At right: It's not porn, it's the advice vlog The Midwest Teen Sex Show. In January, San Francisco will be host to a very exciting conference, the first of its kind: Sex::Tech, a conference on youth, technology, sex and HIV/STD prevention. It's so cool, and I'm already excited to attend. It's […]
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dear Jonathan’s ex

28 November 2007
Please stop stalking my boyfriend in my Flickr photos, even managing to find the ones not tagged with any identifying information. That's creepy. You broke up TWO YEARS AGO.
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mmmm, delicious late nite links

27 November 2007
Image of pal Dana DeArmond by Chase Lisbon for Supercult, via ponyXpress. Deadline accomplished, yay! Now back to our regularly scheduled sex blog, with some links I've been kicking around for the past few days. * Not About Love has relaunched and looks totally fucking hot. Hours of fun; lots of hosted […]
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mah favorite new nerdc0re rapper: STD

26 November 2007
Tonight, Hacker Boy took me on a date. An old-fashioned date, the kind I love. Dating is such a complex animal; but even if I'm all not into commitment or long-term scariness sure to end in doom (!), I know one thing. And that's if a guy (or girl) wants […]
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kittehs! from the (LOL) cat show

25 November 2007
Yesterday Irina and I went to a cat show at the Alameda County Fairgrounds to shoot a GETV episode (thanks for the tip, Lane!) I shot and edited this short video of my experience at the cat show, though it's really a hollow, flimsy excuse for me to show you […]
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goodbye porn palace; a silly video

25 November 2007
Photo by Jonathan Moore. I'm messing with the new iMovie -- so I grabbed some really silly video I shot of myself at Kink.com's last happy hour and edited a video together. It's here and embedded after the jump if you want to watch it... Yes, you'll see I'm a *total* […]
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merkley??? sez, ‘Happy Thanksgiving JERKS! Pretend she is Native American!! Or NO, IRISH!!’

22 November 2007
Being a huge fan of Merkley??? -- local photographer of local lovelies (and their strangely symmetrical couches and cats) -- I am thrilled to bits and pieces to see pre-sales for his upcoming book "111???" become available. And, of course, to see the above Thanksgiving photo greeting that just went […]
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family values groups yank US soldiers’ porn

22 November 2007
Images by Steven Meisel ("Make Love, Not War") from Vogue Italia September 2007, seen at foto decadent. So we're all here figuring out what to be thankful for, with a big split down the middle of the country and a trainwreck in office, and there are a bunch of people over […]
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it’s that day again

22 November 2007
Image from Muki's Kitchen via The Dominant's View. You know it's that day again; you know, the traveling, the eating, the hype -- and hopefully, the relaxing. I just can't resist feeding you a few spanksgiving-themed links: * Kayla Kuffs, who I published a very intense erotic story by in Lust, has […]
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