Kink Your Kindle: Sex books that don’t suck, my 2007 list

13 December 2007
A lot of new sex books passed through the Blogger Bungalow in 2007 (besides mine, of which the list is obscenely long). I know it's totally time to order stuff for the holidays, so if you and I were having coffee and you wanted to pick my brain for sexy […]
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[audio] open source sex 62: erotica from best women’s 2008

13 December 2007
Feeling up for a little erotica? My new book Best Women's Erotica 2008 just came out, and it's packed -- literally, the biggest one yet -- with six months' worth of culling the very best explicit erotic stories written by women. This was to be my last book in this […]
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canary passing out

13 December 2007
How straight male porn performers self-promote online.
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my december in pr0n

13 December 2007
The good, the bad and the fugly, L to R from the top... 1. Club Satan: Witches Sabbath. I don't want to be utterly rude but this title fucking SUCKS. And not in the way we like, oh no. I'm having a hard time not taking the total failure of this […]
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send help!

13 December 2007
It's The Dong of a New Day. Agh! I'm the canary in the porn mine! Eeeek!
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fa: fetish anonymous

13 December 2007
When I wasn't at the Winnies, I was experiencing this week's column... We sat in uncomfortable chairs, under banks of fluorescent lights, facing a large group that scrutinized our every move. We were addressing a class, but the seven of us were lined up against the wall like some kind […]
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twisted monk’s super-awesome 2007 holiday gift list

12 December 2007
Some readers will recall that I went to Seattle last year and got tied up professionally for the first (and still, only) time by sweetheart rope maker and Shibari expert Twisted Monk -- in their rope factory warehouse! Meeting his ultra-cool staff was only half the fun, indeed. Here are […]
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more dirty holiday bastards: best buy

11 December 2007
Like we needed an excuse to never EVER shop at Best Buy again. (Not sex related, but check it out.) Update: Best Buy apologized. Apologized?! Awesome! Almost makes me wish I'd put Tyra's nutty C&D(s) on the blog...
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nude aid 2007 is tonight in san francisco!

9 December 2007
This is going to be a hell of an event: Nina Hartley, Sharon Mitchell, fetish models, live art making... I put all the details over at Metblogs SF. A much-needed benefit for our beloved Center for Sex and Culture after a harrowing year of sex-negative landlord bullshit. Show your love […]
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porn actually doing its job (for me, anyway)

9 December 2007
Image via Kimberly Kane's blog. 3:30am: I just watched Vivid Alt's Triple Ecstasy (trailer). And I ache. I think I've just seen the girlfriends and same-sex encounters I've always dreamed of, but have never had (and will probably never, ever have). The first scene is like it's taken from my personal […]
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my first pony: strap-on sex documentary series

7 December 2007
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flickr extractor?

7 December 2007
A while back someone emailed me with an app that extracts all of one's photos from their Flickr account. I can't find the email, doh. I need to back up my account and have over 2000 photos. Can anyone point me in the right direction? Update: I got a lot of […]
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honors and a reason to celebrate this weekend :)

7 December 2007
I'm on Dollymix's list of the the Top Ten Lady Blogs of 2007! Yaaayyyy!!! Thank you DollyMix; a big internets smooch to you! I *heart* DollyMix; they're also in the Shiny Media network with one of my sekrit addikshun total guilty pleasure blogs, Shiny Shiny. There are some great blogs […]
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santa, you dirty Microsoft bastard

6 December 2007
Well, it's not like we didn't know. Microsoft gets a lump of coal in its... stocking for this one. Snip: SEATTLE (AP) -- Microsoft Corp. quickly shut down Santa Claus' Web privileges after it found out the automated elf it created for kids to instant message with was talking naughty, not […]
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of ponies and links

6 December 2007
Hooray for this, trotting out my 1500th post! Now, on to the links... * "The U.S. House of Representatives on Wednesday overwhelmingly approved a bill saying that anyone offering an open Wi-Fi connection to the public must report illegal images including "obscene" cartoons and drawings--or face fines of up to $300,000." […]
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healing sex: my incredible interview with Staci Haines

6 December 2007
This week's column is From Sexual Trauma to Sexual Healing, and it's one of my proudest moments in the world of large-scale sex education and being an interviewer. It's all about Staci Haines being truly incredible, and having a chance to ask her my burning questions about sexual abuse and […]
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2007 Sexy Geek Nomination Time

5 December 2007
Photo via Kellys Arcade. Okay, so I'm opening up nominations one day earlier than usual, but like 2005 and 2006 I'll be posting the Top Ten Sexy Geeks of 2007 on December 20. That's right -- the always-surprising, sexy geek blush inducing, Laughing Squid server-smokin' list is back for its third […]
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my email to Flickr

5 December 2007
No response yet. Updates will come when I get them; the email continues after the jump. I think one of the best comments I've gotten (via email from a reader) is, "(...) Flickr for having bad policies and some jack ass that got rid of most of the pics because […]
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my most favorite SF craigslist ad, ever (not mine!)

3 December 2007
Hot zombie sex roleplay - t4w - 24 (mission district) I am *so* serious. Sex has become so boring! For a while, I was having sex at the Power Exchange, because that was fun -- I could mix things up, I could do it in public, and I could have an audience! […]
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wow, Staci

3 December 2007
I'm buried under deadline and helping a friend gather evidence for a court case (Flickr will have to wait), but check out this excerpt from my *beautiful* interview this weekend with Staci Hanes about her new book: "Sexual trauma is a deep physical, emotional, mental and spiritual betrayal. On a deep […]
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