my friend said that if you keep your American Apparel clothes on, you’ll stay a virgin

3 January 2008
Above: image I shot of a French American Apparel ad in my copy of last month's French Playboy (print) See also. This week's SF Chronicle column explores what kids these days in public schools must be doing to learn about sex, and follows a bit of where all that abstinence-only education […]
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a peach of a review for Best Women’s Erotica 2008!

3 January 2008
It's cold outside, and I'm sick as an abandoned kitten, but this review by Ashley Lister at the esteemed Erotica Readers and Writers Association for my new (edited) collection Best Women's Erotica 2008 has me basking in the glow of accomplishment (and proud as hell for all the authors). Snip: Best […]
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the most-viewed Google Tech Talk on YouTube — mine

3 January 2008
This is stunning: Kevin Burton emails me saying, "#1 is Violet Blue's sex on the internet, the realities of porn, sexual privacy, with 888k views... the #2 has only 15k views. Awesome!" Thank you, Kevin! This makes me super-excited for my upcoming ETech talk in March. Guess I better get them […]
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NYE 2008: It’s A Wrap

3 January 2008
Photo by Scott Beale/Laughing Squid. What a fabulous party, full of warmth, fun, the most delicious absinthe, a touch of decadence, people I deeply care about and things that went "boom". After a very, very painful year it was the perfect close. I'd like to thank the following sponsors for enthusiastic […]
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spend new year’s with us at the blogger bungalow!

31 December 2007
Image: me with gorgeous goth kitty housegirl extraordinaire Ruby O'Ghosts! We're liveblogging the New Year's 2008 party here -- please come join us! Photos, uncensored posts, comments and a live cam soon.
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for a special girl… pedalphilia and the pornography of the bicycle

31 December 2007
Scott just blogged this film screening event and sent me a nudge -- so I'll shamelessly repost and dedicate it to... a girl. She knows who she is. See also: Pedalphilia (image via).
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good causes for your year-end donations

31 December 2007
Just in case you're ticking down the hours of 2007 and want to make a donation, don't forget about these extremely worthy places to put your scratch: * Scarleteen. No one has done more for under 18 sex-positive, all-gender, all-orientation sex ed, and no one had suffered financially this year the […]
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great drm-free ebook question

30 December 2007
A publisher just emailed me asking how I'm packaging all my files for Digita Publications (DRM-free, erotic and how-to audio and ebooks). Publisher: What program do you use to save your files to make your ebooks? I see that you're offering more than simply PDFs and I'm curious. Me: I use Adobe Acrobat to […]
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happy holidays from low tek

30 December 2007
I just got a holiday ecard from Low Tek Photography -- thank you!
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cuteness from the wrestling archives: dana and sasha!

30 December 2007
Since I've gotten access to peruse Kink's gallery archives, I've made some fun discoveries. Above, check out my pal Dana Dearmond "losing" an Ultimate Surrender match! This link (and the above pic) take you to a page with more images and a couple teeny but yummy sample videos. Then -- check […]
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NYE: seeking

30 December 2007
http://sfbay.craigslist.org/sfc/evg/523644984.html (Ad is down, success achieved. Text is after the jump if anyone was/is curious) Update: the response was overwhelming, and I have many decisions to make! I found special amusement in seeing my post flagged for removal twice (easy to fix), even though it was not in TOU violation in […]
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very hot book: jazz age beauties

30 December 2007
Image via. Spotted in Paxton Gate today and added to my wishlist (lustlist) -- Jazz Age Beauties: The Lost Collection of Ziegfeld Photographer Alfred Cheney Johnston, by Robert Hudovernik. Jeezus in pearls and flapper fringe, it's highly erotic and arousing. Also: thank you sincerely, deeply, warmly to the person who got me […]
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too much sexy geekiness, phew!

30 December 2007
I was in total nirvana (not the band). Good food, lotsa drinks, great friends and sexy geeks. Woo! Here's where we thought it might be a good idea over lunch friday, then Scott announced it, and off it went... my wee set is here.
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2007 afterparty

30 December 2007
Feels good already: the party earlier was terrifically fun. Set is on this guest pass; all pics spontaneously shot with my Ocean (thank you for a great year, Helio!).
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more sexy advertising: Chanel, France

29 December 2007
Chanel's Rouge Allure:
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links are smaller due to the cold

29 December 2007
Oh noes! Another tiger attack! Photo via Tokyo Undressed. * I told you to get your kids the PLAYstation, not the LAYstation. "MP3 Player Father Bought at Wal-Mart for Daughter, 10, Was Preloaded With Porn" (thanks, dr!) * My good friends at Kink.com are now officially in the SF Armory! Congrats! Watch […]
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I disagree with their tagline, but…

29 December 2007
JBS has a terrific, racy print ad campaign going for their line of men's underwear, depicting hot models doing bachelor-like things like shaving, suggested jack off scenes while sniffing men's underwear, in rugby gear, etc. It's really quite sexy, though most hilarious is the video where a pretty girl behaves […]
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computer history interviews: my full interview with Leonard Tramiel

29 December 2007
Click To Play play_blip_movie_570064(); We (GETV) went to the Computer History Museum recently for the 25-year anniversary of the Commodore 64, and the whole wacky episode is fantastic! This week, Eddie started posting the extremely interesting and fun full interviews I did with each of the key players of the birth of […]
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lovin’ the law

29 December 2007
Friday: to a weekend of love, family and friendship -- our best pic together yet. Me and John Law -- (chosen) family for almost 12 years now!
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did I really get a holiday card from Larry Flynt?

29 December 2007
Wow.
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