to read my column, remove one item of clothing

6 February 2008
Image of Nicole @ 4am at local 24-hour grease pit Sparky's by Merkley??? This is how we all look when we end up there at 4am. And eventually, we all do. It's cold, we just had a million days of freezing rain, everyone's depressed and breaking up, and it's dark and […]
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[video] 1950s catfight

6 February 2008
... is after the jump. :) (more...)
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a very serious “john” blog

6 February 2008
Image of Amsterdam's red light district at night by smudo. There are what seem like a bazillion blogs written by sex workers of all genders, vocations and nationalities -- for fun, personal blog-therapy and for profit, all over the lube-slick Internets. But blogs by their clients are rare, and thusly pretty […]
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thrusti kicki grabbi’s truth or dare game: tested, sex blogger approved

6 February 2008
Some *really* nice person (thank you sooo much, R!) bought and sent me Thrusti Kicki Grabbi's game of Truth or Dare from my Amazon wishlist-- so I took a night off from working and feeling generally hopeless to have a really, really *really* hot night with a lucky boy. The […]
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okay, now I’m ready for SXSW

5 February 2008
If you haven't already seen it, watch Ze Frank's one-minute video at Laughing Squid, via Fimoculous.
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dear apple

5 February 2008
I don't need to explain my long, torrid, explicit affair with your brand, iTunes podcast stats, and products. I just feel like our relationship is -- in trouble. No, it's not about your boss, I know authority is out of control in anyone's workplace. And it's not that we don't […]
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interviewed by Em and Lo for their new blog, the daily bedpost!

5 February 2008
They made me undress for the email interview. They said Grant did it, so I had to. I'm giddy with the way the interview turned out, and honored to be in their lineup: this week, Em & Lo (those prolific Nerve.com veterans) are featuring me (!) -- The Bedpost Interview: Violet […]
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two fun Fleshbot posts

5 February 2008
Image: Rubella, knitting nerd via Nerd Girl X. I got an exclusive gallery from Nerd Girl X (thank you NGX!) where the nerdiness ranges from yarn to gaming and beyond -- *lots* of girls with glasses, yay: and I put together a really incredible mini-list of fleshy-glamorous Rio Carnaval 2008 Flickr […]
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redtube hacked (updates)

4 February 2008
Update 2, 4:30 PST: Still up and down (heh) depending where you are, so it's a catching/proxy issue? Depending on where you are, some RedTube URLs will redirect you to a site selling websapce (spamtabulousness). No reports of malware so far. Update: site's back up, that was a quick fix the […]
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saturday night: those popcorn ponygirls…

4 February 2008
Here's the mother of all videos -- in case you were wanted to see more of my saturday night and what the animal and popcorn outfits were up to... When the hot deer-head girl ripped her mask up and screamed a grinning, "VIOLET BLUE!" and came after me with popcorn, […]
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lovingly mauled by the extra action marching band

3 February 2008
I have a lot of video: here's a (unedited) teeny sample of what happened to me last night: Click To Play play_blip_movie_649731(); When they see me, they show me the love. I haven't been hugged and smooched so much in a long time; that's what […]
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instructables: DIY on making out

2 February 2008
I just got finished doing my (highly enjoyable) duty as a judge in the Instructables 2008 Laser Cutter contest, where the winner gets a $15,000 VersaLaser. There are 14 incredible finalists, and winners will be announced Monday afternoon-ish. But after culling the 14 tutorials, I spotted this funny "Instructable": How […]
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valentine’s day lust list: lelo’s rechargeable nea, engraved with “love”

2 February 2008
I've always wanted to own a Swedish Lelo vibrator -- they're really the top of the line but I just can't justify spending so much on a vibe when I desperately need a new laptop (and meanwhile Helio has me bathed in phones... which apparently works extremely well for both […]
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can it still be pretty girl friday on satuday?

2 February 2008
Of course it can! Man, it's so gloomy and rainy and cold outside here in San Francisco, I went and got myself on a mailing list for goth and altgirl galleries. In addition to the fact that I was getting tired of combing through stick figure Barbie Euro babes for […]
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zomfg kittiedex! zomfg fetishdex! zomfg sexdex!

1 February 2008
Just spotted at Guardian UK, KittieDex - helping you keep up with cute animals in the news (fun article), and here's their 'Dex: So naturally, I had to make my own. Here's the FetishDex -- I had to be careful with general categories (and sadly left some good ones out) because […]
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anti-porn extremist has *actual* researchers pissed off

1 February 2008
Or, how wingnuts get taken seriously, the sequel. Looks like it's not just the fundies that "cook the books" when it comes to pushing their anti-porn and anti-sex agendas. This is a great example of something I often point out about data and research when it comes to topics like […]
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journalist goes undercover — for a vibrator bust?

1 February 2008
I'm feeling the same anger and astonishment as Cory Silverberg about this one. What kind of twatwaffle journalist goes into a sex toy shop, records buying a vibrator, then reports the store to the police to get her story? Cory sez, (...) The story isn't even about a government or police […]
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some very vintage porn

1 February 2008
...is embedded after the jump. It's almost educational. Think it's from the 1930s? (more...)
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the weblog awards: eight sexless years

31 January 2008
Many blogs are a-twitter today about how voting closes tonight for the blog awards. But why bother to vote if, for the eighth year in a row, the "weblog awards, aka 2008 bloggies" has consistently overlooked the category of human sexuality? They have "sports", "gossip", "fashion", "food" ... and someone really […]
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today is 1/31: lest we forget our homeland insecurity

31 January 2008
Nope, not about sex: about pranks. Remember the Aqua Teen Hunger Force marketing ploy that turned into a terrorist threat? Boston is being re-pranked as we sit here; read my techyum post for details and images/links/videos of last night's adventures and last year's unforgettable (and utterly repeatable) meme. Oh, and […]
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