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7 March 2008
Photo by PinarOzger: Tim O'Reilly, Scott Beale and Violet Blue at the Facebook Party, an evening event at the 2008 Graphing Social Patterns Conference in San Diego. On the ETech 2008 coverage roundup post, Tim O'Reilly lists me at the bottom with a not-so-sweet excerpt. Hm. Aside from that dis, the […]
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distraction: wow, I wish I felt like packing right now…

6 March 2008
Image: my pal Dacia making out with girls at a convention -- um, sadly, not ETech or SXSW. "You can't see in this photo, but look at the brunette (her name is Marigold) and then make your conclusions about where my right hand is. Um, my thumb is on her […]
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@ justin.tv

6 March 2008
Are we on? Watch us play... Here. Now. Maybe. (!)
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what’s up with the center for sex and culture?

6 March 2008
Fab picture of Carol Queen by my friend, Black Pearl 10. Is pretty much the question I'm asking this week in my column, The (Off)Center for Sex & Culture: After a struggle, the nonprofit plans for a very sexy future, again. I finally got to ask about their crazy collection […]
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I *heart* mynx d’meanor

5 March 2008
I've landed back in SF and I plan on writing up an ETech wrap here tomorrow -- reflections and feedback on my talk, convention mischief, pranks, ego-lameos, cute and cool hackers, and the admission that I have a couple new crushes. Until then, I'm wiped. But I have to confess […]
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the Disney, ETech and Monchrom scandal

5 March 2008
Tonight -- my final night at the ETech conference -- I attended the hyooge expensive big party Disney hosted for ETech attendees and speakers. Four hours of top-notch food, a big room, two bars... the works. Weird, swank. I went in with dear friend Scott Beale, and was delighted to […]
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my talk: sexual identity (and ETech survivial)

4 March 2008
Image by Scott Beale/Laughing Squid -- also here! My ETech talk was great: you can read the text transcript of it here and look at the slidehsow of it here. I'm going to bug the O'Reilly people to find out when, where and -- if -- they'll put the recorded […]
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the bratty goth princess of san diego

3 March 2008
Has arrived. OMG -- the hotel gave me a room on the highest floor that isn't a suite, with a jaw-dropping wraparound view of the bay and my own private balcony -- the topmost balcony, with seats! Of course, right as I'm checking in Scott walks right by me (!hugs!), […]
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The Blowjob Clip from Les Petites Ecolieres

3 March 2008
While I sit here waiting for the airport shuttle, I want to point out a) this blowjob clip from 1980s porn film Les Petites Ecolieres is quite good - one 'job starts at about 3:00 in but has a nice build-up you may not want to miss regardless; b) the […]
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packing for ETech

2 March 2008
Image via my Helio Ocean while I packed tonight. Scott's already there. I'll be hanging out with my dear friends: Sir Squid, Eddie, Monochrom, pt, Michael Shiloh, and a few others I hope. I've been madly preparing for my ETech talk for days; I even passed on the sekrit guest […]
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like driving by a car wreck, with pretty girls…

2 March 2008
Um, ya right. Well, perhaps it's with the best of intentions, the "find the love of your life" contest over at Hegre -- you know, the home of those skinny Euro babe galleries that I link to sometimes. But I skimmed the wedding-themed "Mr. Right" page and was all like, […]
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bizarre mag sends a submissive to dom school, nyc-style

1 March 2008
Image: Hacker Boy in trouble -- a self-portrait. Dominatrix School is a well-written piece in Bizarre Magazine just up -- with a full, huge gallery -- written by a woman who considers herself submissive, but went through what sounds like some pretty serious pro-dom training to test her own mettle. She […]
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quite a compliment

1 March 2008
A friend just nominated me for "Favorite Female Blogger" in Women's Voices Making History's favorite blogger contest. I feel like I already won with such a sweet gesture all on its own -- thank you, Ian! I'm all warm and fuzzy inside now :)
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pretty girl friday by demetrius gonzález

29 February 2008
I want this man to have a book. I'm lobbying for it -- no, really. I recently discovered Demetrius González by way of Flickr; his photos are beautiful, yes, but also to me they're often incredibly arousing -- perhaps because the women he shoots are far from the typical gallery babes, […]
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“shockingly, the internet does not rape your children”

29 February 2008
It's about time: finally, the realities of sexual predators online, children and teens and sexual abuse are all coming to light -- and as I quoted t3knomanser above, the Internet's role in making kids sexual victims is way overhyped and overblown. Now, there's data to back it up: In an […]
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more nerdc0re sexy geek media…

29 February 2008
How sexy are geek/nerd girls? Hot enough to inspire a couple nerdc0re music videos. Thanks to Michelle for MC Chris' song Nrrrd Grrrl and post inspiration; I lucked out to find a live version of Schaffer the Darklord's Nerd Lussst (he's my fave). Fun stuff: MC Chris: Nrrrd Grrrl, shot here […]
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madison young’s new flick: trailer

29 February 2008
Photo by the superlative Dave Naz. My erotic pain and bondage loving, feminist art gallery owning friend Madison Young has a new movie out, Tail of a Bondage Model -- I haven't seen the film so I can't vouch for it yet, but Blowfish has a trailer up for it […]
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awesome local prank

28 February 2008
Photo by Eddie, prank by BLF, seen last night @ 14th & Valencia in San Francisco.
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my press release… from my best friend!?

28 February 2008
Image: Lorelei Lee seems to be helping with cleanup at the Armory. Link leads to gallery and videos of her sensory deprivation scene for The Training of O in the Armory's old shooting range. It's pretty funny to wake up with a press release in my inbox, and be like, this […]
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don’t believe the new, new g-spot hype

28 February 2008
...which is apparently the new black, or pink, if you will. This week's SF Chronicle column is Dude, Where's My G-Spot? and I think you'll like this one... Snip: OK, so I was at NOPA last night drinking a delicious absinthe cocktail, and my male companion said something rude, so I […]
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