nyc wuz delishes kthxbye!

21 April 2008
Here's a taste of the photoshoot I did last night here in NYC with Paulie And Pauline, destination: Nerve. View the set on Flickr (set is restricted; use this guest pass) or easy click and scope it on Fotki, no login required. I'm packing now after a great day with […]
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I *heart* NY

20 April 2008
Image of pretzel-mania in Central Park this afternoon via my Helio Ocean; live video mid-photoshoot in Central park here. What an incredible trip I'm having. The rundown is a passionate linkgasm... Last night I went to the Laughing Squid NYC drinkup where I drank muchly with my dear, dear friends (well, […]
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The Passion of the Fundamentalists

20 April 2008
Image from Passion of A Goddess via Mormon Erotica (thanks Evil Signtist). On the Virgin America flight to NY I watched two great TED talks (here and here). And I was absolutely glued to the news as CNN rehashed the then-breaking news about the state of Texas keeping all the kids […]
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too much to do

19 April 2008
Last night was a doozie: I landed late at JFK, grabbed a taxi into the city and got to my friend's apartment -- only to be locked out after midnight, sitting in the hall after hauling my bags up five flights of stairs. I'd made plans to meet friends, and […]
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New York adventure ahead

18 April 2008
I'm blogging from SFO right now, waiting for my Virgin flight to NYC -- the connection here is glacial and not free and keeps dropping me (turning 15 minutes of connection into a $10 expense), which is crazy considering that we're supposed to be the tech Mecca. I'm on my […]
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ironic email of the day

17 April 2008
Subject: Macworld 2009 could use your input Body begins: "Dear VIOLET BLUE, Thank you for attending Macworld Conference & Expo® San Francisco 2008. While planning for Macworld San Francisco 2009 we would like to have your insights and opinions as a member of the Mac community (...)" Um, yeah.
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libby lynn’s “souvenirs”

17 April 2008
Longtime online friend Libby Lynn just posted about, and uploaded to Flickr, the fruits of her latest obsessive art project "Souvenirs" and I thought it was so cool-looking I had to share it with you. In her post about the project she explains the process, saying, (...) What I loved about […]
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today’s column: to cut or not to cut

17 April 2008
In this week's Chronicle column, I discuss the essay in Best Sex Writing 2008 "How Insensitive" by Paul Festa (read aloud recently at a local reading), and go into the subject of circumcision. It's a very tricky subject to cover because people are so divided about it, (no pun!) and […]
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pirate bay: completely uncensored blogs

16 April 2008
First we had Fuck Like A Pirate Day -- now, it looks like hosted blogging might get a chance to revive the free-thinking spirit that made blogging so powerful in the first place... until people started getting kicked off of WordPress, Blogger, LiveJournal and other hosted blog sites for posting […]
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eeek of the day

14 April 2008
Not sex related: I come across at least one thing online a day that makes me go eeek. It's usually a private, quiet little eeek. I can no longer live in silence. Today's case in point: The Cats' Inn grooming page featuring "panty" shaves and "Lion Cuts".
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candy kisses and lollipop girls

13 April 2008
At a welcome home party for Extra Action last night I got a lot of compliments on a recent photo shoot; someone asked if my Flickr exploded after I posted it. I laughed and said, actually... yeah. He said, and you didn't even blog it, did you? I said no... […]
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tonight: sizzle with me in SF at Femina Potens

12 April 2008
Tonight I'm reading something funny and dirty at Femina Potens, with a lineup of people I'm deeply excited and honored to be counted among (like Lorelei Lee, Madison Young, and more). After, there's going to be a live bondage shoot for NoFauxxx, which should be... hot. Here's the info on […]
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free fucking machines memberships for lolpr0n capshuns!

10 April 2008
Over at Fleshbot right now, I just posted a fabulous Fucking Machines membership giveaway -- along with a hyooge yummy sexy fun hardcore gallery just for fun. Check out U Can Haz Free Robopr0n: Fucking Machines Contest Giveaway!: I've got three one-month Fucking Machines passes to give out to whoever […]
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a mouthful of hearts and flowers

10 April 2008
Lollipops by Miette. Painted Ladies courtesy of my beautiful hometown! Image via my Helio Ocean.
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in the Chron: wtf is feminist pr0n?!

10 April 2008
Image of the amazing award-winner Madison Young by Kelly Lind. I just had to ask... Especially since the Feminist Porn Awards are getting huger and more popular every year. We must know! What does it mean? And I may be stepping into yet another controversial minefield. But it's important, and really […]
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around the bend and back

10 April 2008
* Gawker blog i09 has a first peek at costuming of evil secretary Silken Floss (played by Scarlett Johansson, image via) for Frank Miller's directorial debut, The Spirit -- adapted from the 1940s newspaper comic. I'm not a Johansson fan, but I am a huge HUGE fan of Frank Miller's […]
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hot boy thursdays, ahhh

9 April 2008
Photo by Jean-Paul. The Hot Boy Thursdays are not as regular as I'd like, but... I've got quality. Here's a *very* sexy, self-portraited boy self-tagged on Flickr as "straight" and "for women". There is a whole lot more of him here, and self-identified amateur photographer Jean-Paul has more drool-worthy pages of […]
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holy shit: John Stagliano indicted on 8 obscenity counts

8 April 2008
Image from Fashionistas Safado; more images here. John Stagliano has long been a porn director of high regard for me -- and a businessman I admire. His company, Evil Angel (named after a combo of former girlfriend plus his name as a male erotic performer), is unique among all other porn […]
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an irresistable screencap

7 April 2008
Oh, Regis... see what happens when Kathie isn't around to monitor your blogads!? This irresistable screencap is fresh off my friend (author, feminist, sex-positive pundit) Audacia Ray's new blog for the Village Voice, Naked City. In this post, she's reviewing my online pal Porno Jim's passion: The Porno Jim Show, […]
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a moment of sweetness

7 April 2008
When I was leaving the house a day ago, my downstairs neighbor opened the door right when I came out, and said... oh, hey! we've been seeing your name *everywhere* these days..." I thought uh-oh, but smiled -- I have a great relationship with my neighbors. But I've never really […]
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