on citysearch: food better than sex?

19 June 2008
When Citysearch asked me what food in San Francisco I thought was better than sex, I was in a quandary. Do I do my sexified duty to the cupcake, or confess that I don't think there's anything better than the bestest most intense sex ever? Like, that you put in […]
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sexual privacy online panel mp3

18 June 2008
Paparazzi image by 2bizzarre. Just last March at SXSW: Interactive I organized and hosted the very popular (and totally fascinating and intense) Sexual Privacy Online panel. Today, SXSW let me know that the MP3 is now available. It's a little over an hour long and includes audience questions -- this is […]
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hooray for wedding day

17 June 2008
Modelo: Karen Saez. Fotografia y maquillaje: Fernando Zapata. Asistente: Andres Vargas Today's the day, and same-sex couples are lined up around the block at City Hall. Some, like George Takei, simply got their licenses and are planning a big fete for later in the season. In a few hours, I'm heading […]
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symphony in white

16 June 2008
"Oh dear! Oh dear! I shall be too late!" --Lewis Carroll I have cried a river since I lost my precious JimmyJane Little Chroma vibrator. It was simply the best vibrator I've ever owned, with a close second the amazing (also rechargeable, silicone) LeLo Gigi. JimmyJane is a San Francisco based […]
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crazy, squared

16 June 2008
First, Jonno tells me that the whole Lithium Picnic sued by Suicide Girls thing is now gosh-and-golly just a big misunderstanding and they're all "friends again". Then, Praemedia jars me out of my bewilderment to send me spinning into WTF land with the Ars Technica article announcing that Verizon is […]
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lazy sunday links, with cabernet

15 June 2008
Image of Allison Wonderland by the incredible Chad Michael Ward. The cabernet is next to me in my bedroom windowbox, overlooking the Castro. In the apartment I amazingly found on Craigslist -- the famed Blogger Bungalow -- I can actually see the rainbow flag at the corner of Market and Castro […]
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bonus pretty girl gallery

14 June 2008
...while I sit here waiting for a 30-page proposal to print so I can dig into edits, you get the super-hot gallery of Jenya that just landed in my inbox! I want one just like her, please. Also, Courtney just sent me this link to a cute and sexy video […]
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all things bonked

13 June 2008
Image: "Wicked Women" by Psychedelic*Panda. For those of us digital brats who need to be reminded that a "library" is where they keep all the books, radio is something we happily left behind the minute we figured out what files we could lube up and cram down an RSS feed. Yet […]
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pretty girl friday

13 June 2008
An assortment of free galleries -- don't buy anything, just have a sexy friday, on me. I get these for free and so should you! This week I liked Sandra F by Luca Helios, Dana A and Olya O by Vronin, Helen E by Rylsky; I thought Jennipher's shoot wasn't […]
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lovely lovely coco club

12 June 2008
Today, high-end sex toy retail boutique Coco de Mer officially announced their Coco Club, featuring the glorious, gorgeous photo editorials, film collection, blog and much more. If you loved their short erotic film Honey and Bunny (site currently down) as much as I did, you'll really enjoy their stylish short […]
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married, with sex

12 June 2008
Image by Helmut Newton, via. As San Francisco prepares for next week's joyous parade of gleeful brides and grooms to walk down the aisle -- and SF's flower shops lose their minds -- it seems only fitting to dedicate this week's column to sex and marriage. So as I prep to […]
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and we should all be shocked that judges are not celibate priests

11 June 2008
Image via digatone. Moo. Snip from 9th Circuit's chief judge posted sexually explicit materials on his website (fyi, Kozinski was appointed by Reagan but is a huge free speech advocate, and only people who knew the subdirectory could see his over-18 stash about which which he remarked, "People send me stuff […]
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bdsm doc trailer

10 June 2008
Image by local educators (and really nice guys) Two Knotty Boys. Today I was invited by Ms. Heart to the local Frameline premiere of the documentary BDSM: It's Not What You Think. Which is an oversimplified title for what looks like a really interesting documentary, and features some people I've spoken […]
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caught with my panties down

10 June 2008
Oh my! I just saw myself in a "guess whose panties" contest over at Trollop With A Laptop! And what a coincidence, it's on the same day I get my hands on the author/blogger/editor's own, almost-released, very hot-looking Open For Business: Tales of Office Sex. ::blush::
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digita pub howto’s

9 June 2008
Self-portrait taken today with my Helio Ocean. Part of my goal with Digita Pub is to open source the ebook and audiobook self-publishing process. I have two tutorials coming up, but I've started with the Digita Pub FAQ's to explain how the whole thing works, and what software I use to […]
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I think

9 June 2008
... that the new Blackberry would totally beat the iPhone in a wet t-shirt contest, tits down. Or rather, tits up. Even though I'm waiting with baited breath for the new Helio Ocean, the Blackberry Bold is the hottest date in town right now. And I have a Nokia N95 […]
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[audio] open source sex 63: erotic adventures for couples

9 June 2008
Image for Latex Culture via Captive Girls. Phew! Finally! I'm podcasting again! It's been a while, because my podcast is such a labor of love (read: I don't get paid to do it, so I do it when I'm not scrambling for freelance gigs). But this one is really useful, and […]
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Zoe Margolis Breaks Up With Britain

9 June 2008
Image from my SXSW Sexual Privacy Online panel @ SXSW: Interactive, with Jason Schultz, Zoe Margolis, John D'Addario, Jonathan Moore and myself. Seeing as how I'm soaking in it, I'm fascinated with the constantly changing relationship sex bloggers have with sex and blogging. And through sex blogging, women's relationship with sex, […]
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new audiobook! erotic role play: a guide for couples

8 June 2008
I'm getting really, really proud of my little one-girl, self-publishing operation, Digita Publications. It's had little press and I've just been quietly working with various authors to create and sell inexpensive, DRM-free erotic audio and ebooks. And it's becoming a cult hit. I get email praise and orders every single […]
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the joy of (tristan taormino’s) sex (positivity)

8 June 2008
The whipsmart Penny Flame, brilliant Sinnamon Love, smiley mastermind Tristan Taormino and articulate sexbomb Adrianna Nicole (no personal website - yet). Last thursday I had a total blast with Tristan Taormino. We went to lunch and for the first time, had time to just chat, and we really really hit it […]
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