kentucky: number one in obscenity

17 July 2008
Image by Billy Currell, who takes KFC to new highs and lows at Kentucky Fried Tender. Well, as a friend used to tell me, "He may be the Colonel to you, but he's Hitler to us chickens." Not long ago I blogged about the legal team who wants to use Google […]
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the week where we almost had the Jesse Helms AIDS bill

17 July 2008
Or, the alt title for this post: "you must be THIS out of touch with the entire fucking world to run this country" (like those "this tall" signs at amusement parks). Because it seems that our elected officials, if they do or do not represent the will of the poeple, […]
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is cybersex ‘cheating’?

17 July 2008
Image by Anthony Koeslag. This week's SF Chronicle column explores the limits of monogamy in the digital era -- thought not as much as I'd like to, as I did need to keep the column under 1500 words! And I have a lot more material on the subject: in fact, after […]
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I married an avatar: seeking more interview subjects

16 July 2008
Image "Corpse Bride" by Mia Oliver, which should probably be in the Brides of Second Life pool. Please see this post for background and details! I'm working on an exciting project that currently has me needing to pick the brains of strangers, and ask for quotes (anonymous or otherwise, it's up […]
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bad behavior in the blogosphere

16 July 2008
This isn't directly sex related, and yet it is. It seems that ad company Etology is doing a dishonest, bait and switch email campaign to hook sex bloggers, and Bacchus at Eros Blog totally busted them on it. And in return, they offered a non-apology apology. After reading that post […]
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hump day porn break: fleshbot’s reader requests

16 July 2008
Image by Chase Lisbon for Supercult. My dear sweet fellow Fleshbotette Lux has been toiling away in the porn mines ever since she put up this post asking readers what they *really* want to see. And for that I salute her in the most salacious of ways -- one of my […]
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is australia leading the way in teen sex ed?

15 July 2008
Image of sex ed gone wrong (and possible disemvowelment) via clarie.whithard. Reader Helen sends me this very interesting article about an exciting new sex ed program in Australian schools; I'd love to make something like this happen in our schools. Snip from Program offers new take on sex education: (...) Many young […]
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[video] the axe detailer shower tool

15 July 2008
Calling the robo-babes in Axe's newest commercial 'technosexual females' is quite fitting; I always find the Axe commercials quite playful and fun, and a full-service boy-wash with female mechanical parts is a cute way to sell products. Yes, I too am dirty. Found on Ad Punch, via Elegant Lines.
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bbc news gets a right royal spanking

14 July 2008
Image via darkbeans. I also found this cute vintage spanking collection. So it looks like BBC News decided to follow in Guardian UK's recent BDSM-y text-steps and attempts to report on the Max Mosley lawsuit, whilst explaining BDSM to the masses -- and manages to mangle the piece nicely with sensationalism […]
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elvis costello’s ‘monkey to man’

14 July 2008
MTVMusic VideosMTV ShowsEntertainment News Elvis Costello = still hot. Especially with his recent music video Monkey to Man, which is just full of bouncing babes in retro bikinis! And I mean bouncing -- there are some seriously Russ Meyer camera angles in this video... and it's super extra double plus fun. […]
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friends with benefits: investment chart

14 July 2008
Found at Sexoteric via Boinkology.
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girlfriend is better: open call for interviews

14 July 2008
This will be the first in a series of an open call for interviews for a nonfiction project I'm working on about love, sex and technology. For this first set of interviews, I'll be email interviewing a handful of people from all genders and sexual orientations about sexual relationships they're […]
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sleeping around craigslist

13 July 2008
Image by Claudette Psico. I've really enjoyed imagining the routines of the Chilean exotic dancer who was just arrested for pole dancing on the subway (thanks, Amy!); unfortunately her playful cultural contribution to the dull commute of strangers was not well received by authorities. But I loved that she was essentially […]
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pretty girl friday, after midnight

12 July 2008
Image by inmymind. This post is graced by the startlingly beautiful images of Russian photographer imnymind (I don't speak or read Russian so if anyone wants to tell me their name, fabulous!). He has more here; all links are hi-res so check your speed before poking around... I also have a […]
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the accretion of little things

11 July 2008
Image via violetbluevioletblue.net Walking into a Castro business today, the guy behind the counter saw me and called out, "Hey! I thought you were unpublished!" I grinned and replied, "Hey, don't make me unsmile." Later, at my publisher's office, I got a big butch hug. "You know you can't have a dyke romance […]
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this is not your pretty girl friday

11 July 2008
Nor is this your anatomically correct porn fantasy: it's the work of artist Alex Sandwell Kliszynski, who endeavors to explore the human-doll porn composite. (Note that I did not say mashup. Point for me.) His gallery is here. According to my friends at Sex and Blogs, his My Luxuria collections […]
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a very strange auto erotic death?

10 July 2008
Just stumbled across this news item in the Sydney Morning Herald (popup warining), snip: (...) Senior Constable Davis said towels, cushions and pillows, a foot spa and construction hat appeared to have been deliberately placed over Ms Germain's body. "It didn't look like she had pulled it on top of her. […]
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hot boy thursday

10 July 2008
I think this week's hot boys are extra hot -- pulling direct from the sexiest boys I've seen on Fleshbot in a while, first I bring you Fleshbot's exclusive PREF Mag gallery. I have a well-thumbed (hey!) copy of this gay French glossy in my house at all times, and […]
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cinekink: the thinking person’s traveling erotic film fest

9 July 2008
Image of Madison Young, whose Writers and Rockstars might just be the belle of the festival; this image is from her last film Undone, via her Tied4Sex site. I'm so very excited that CineKink is this weekend here in San Francisco -- and the refined, indy, edgy traveling eroto-porn film fest […]
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guardian uk on bdsm: note – “Sir Guy” is not knighted

9 July 2008
Image by addictedimage. Indeed. Reporting on the wake of a scandal, today Guardian UK endeavors to cover both Max Mosley's lawsuit over News of the World running a video of him in a military BDSM scenario and the topic of BDSM itself. They do both a bit ham-handedly, but the resulting […]
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