remarkable modern retro giantess video: Hable con Ella

8 August 2008
Until YouPorn has a way for me to embed video, you'll just have to click this direct link to Hable con Ella (Talk to Her) to see the most astounding giantess fetish* video I've ever seen -- especially because it is so professionally produced. Be warned: it's unsettling if you're […]
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hot boy thursday will not be forgotten

8 August 2008
Image via hannen1. It's all about Tyler Kenyon by Gregory Vaughan this week (via Fleshbot). Nom nom nom. I also found this great men in their undies set. Whee!
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the ecosexual primer

8 August 2008
Image of cute ecosexual girls by the wonderful Demetrius Gonzalez. This week's Chronicle column was all about greener sex -- and whether a person who drives a Prius is hot or not. Are they? Meanwhile, I got all the good jokes in the comments: "Priapus" and "Pious" were the best. It […]
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the bride is back (and so am I)

7 August 2008
I've been crazy-busy writing, editing and doing interviews for the past few days, but I figured the best way to stage a comeback is much like the Bride of Frankenstein herself: back from the dead, hotter than ever. This photoset comes via Praemedia via i09 (big images, great writeup) via […]
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craigslist troll jason fortuny caught, sued, cites DMCA abuse

5 August 2008
Remember griefer extraordinaire Jason Fortuny's "The Craigslist Experiment"? I've cited it more than once in my online privacy talks (Google Tech talk video). Reader El D just wrote me saying, Though Sunday's New York Times dubbed him a spokesperson for internet trolls, Jason Fortuny's just been sued in federal court. Fortuny re-published […]
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incredible interview: Studio SX Presents: Violet Blue and Cory Silverberg

4 August 2008
Click To Play play_blip_movie_1149991(); It's an interview you don't want to miss: one of my all-time favorite hero sex educators Cory Silverberginterviews me (and hilariously, vice-versa) for Studio SXSWi. In the glass cube in front of a sizable audience -- and audio broadcast […]
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of catgirls and sex book recommendations

3 August 2008
Image by Viljar Sepp. I wanted to buy my friend's daughter a doll for her birthday. On Amazon, I found this incredible Barbie catgirl unintentional (?) dominatrix doll -- which I kind of want for myself. But then I'd have to get the snow princess Barbie catgirl domme doll, but not […]
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big kisses to auntie cecilia

3 August 2008
Just a quick shout-out and smooches to Auntie Cece (Cecilia Chung) who is sweltering in Mexico City right now preparing to speak at the 2008 International AIDS Conference (see also: live webcasts + conference coverage). Go girl! It's really awful that the conference opens just as we've discovered that the […]
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pretty pretty pretty girl friday!

1 August 2008
Image by barbarism begins at Flickr!. I'm about to get in a car, head to a party, crash in what I've been told is a mansion (a la La Doce Vita, I hope), and then tomorrow I'm spending the day with NASA geeks watching, photographing, and yes, livestreaming a robot competition […]
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breathless sex: friday sex science

1 August 2008
Image by baboo mcfoo. Over on what might be one of the best blog names ever Neurotic Physiology: Are You SciCurious?, Praemedia sends me a link to their Friday Weird Science post, Groaning and Hyperventilation during Sex. Which, essentially takes a ponderingly scientific look at breath play -- that's sexual breath […]
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she blinded me with science

1 August 2008
Image by sev0r; check out her back. I've always thought of bodypainting as that horrible thing they did in 1990s porn when they wanted to make "fantasy" or alien or jungle scenes and then the sex would start and all the makeup would get all gross in places you never ever […]
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dc circuit rules that sexual relations constitutes a “major life activity”

1 August 2008
Image via macwagen. Mind you, that's "sexual relations" and not just "reproduction" as affirming sexuality as a human right. I'd like to hear more from my legal contacts on this one, but it seems to me like a big step in the right direction. Dear friend and colleague Cory Silverberg writes, For […]
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psa post: first of a lovingly irregular series

31 July 2008
I'm continually being made aware of sex resources and good/urgent sexuality causes that need attention, so I'm starting an irregular (because that's apparently how I roll) feature, the Public Service Announcement post. Here are your three today: * Kink Aware Professionals -- a resource for finding psychotherapeutic, medical, and legal professionals […]
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china’s Olympic-sized sex and gender problems

31 July 2008
Image via sumimazen1973. I actually had this much sexier 'unbearable lightness of being Chinese' Tao Li Jing photo to go with this post about my SF Chronicle column (on SF Gate), but given that the original way female "gender suspects" were rounded up and examined in 1968, this image seemed more […]
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homegirl makes good! SF Bay Guardian’s best of the bay 2008 = me!

30 July 2008
I'll admit I Flickr'd it before posting the brag-gasm here (spank as you please), but here's my ecstatic comment, "they called me "beloved"! it was quite a surprise, even the photog couldn't tell me what it was for. I just went for it and hoped for the best... (in print […]
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oakland teen draws fire at NPR for saying straight teen barebacking is the ‘new engagement ring’

30 July 2008
Image of a different kind of bare back by spiritus.molenuex. Last thursday on NPR an Oakland (CA) teen talked about what's up with his generation's take on sex and condoms(MP3 link, three minute segment), saying that when a teen couple decides to go bareback -- condomless -- it is the serious […]
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naked winery looks tasty

28 July 2008
Image by the brilliant Rudi Mentaer, whose site is here and blog is here. Superb marketing: Babeland's thursday New York event includes wine by family-run West coast winemakers Naked Winery, producers of Dominatrix Pinot Noir, Missionary Cabernet Sauvignon, Naked Merlot, Climax Chardonnay, Bareback Chardonnay and a very Dirty Dozen mixed case. […]
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using browser history to calculate gender

28 July 2008
Vivian, shot by by that Kadrey miscreant. Fleshbot makes you a guy. Gizmodo = twice as likely to be a guy. More women read Engadget than the Giz, though. BB is a sausage-fest, but I blame the mods. YouTube rates as gender neutral (HUH!?), while Apple is for the femmes. Okay, […]
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a moment of brag: “Obama should ‘end war’ on sex education”

28 July 2008
Today I had the uberly dorkily giddy thrill of being (re)published on the very prestigious RH Reality Check website with my piece Obama or McCain's National Sex Ed Program -- and the editor asked me to be a contributor, bestowing me with a blog! I was featured on the front […]
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there’s just not enough sex in advertising

27 July 2008
Sex sells, but only if you do it right. Image via Unblogged. I was having a lovely drink with the lovely (in a guy way) Steve Hall the other day, and we pretty much wept openly into our cocktails about how sex doesn't really sell as much as everyone thinks it […]
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