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25 August 2008
Ultra Records: Destination Calabria - More bloopers are a click away Many of you know I'm friend + family of SF's Extra Action Marching Band and have been groupie #1 for over 5 years -- documenting and documenting and dancing my fangirl ass off as the gigs go by. So […]
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o hai sf weekly

25 August 2008
A friend whom I share my hate mail with (she tells me it's okay and soothingly pats me on the inbox and gives me soymilk and cookies) emailed me about this one saying, "I hope you'll consider putting this email up on Tinynibbles -- people need to understand the kind […]
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anatomists, professional and pornographic

23 August 2008
Image from last night at San Francisco's prized pearl, Teatro ZinZanni, which is fun and hot and sexy and incredible and inspired a lot of joyfully pornographic anatomical profesionalism after Hacker Boy and I got home. Also, the contortionists we saw were -- professional and insanely arousing. Praemedia writes me, "any […]
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datamapping desire

21 August 2008
Fleshmap is really, really cool. I could play with this site for hours, and also their odd nipple organizer; gotta love the Body Rebus! Fleshmap: Studies of Desire is a series of projects created by Fernanda Viégas and Martin Wattenberg. The two artists are known for their pioneering work in […]
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more luxury lust: romantic ceramic edition

21 August 2008
If we had more money than we needed I'd tell you to get these four luxury sex toy items I spotted at Coco de Mer today. I want, I want them all with a rob-a-bank to get off kind of lust. Don't look at the prices. Top left: Betony Vernon Seven […]
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12 second pr0n reviews

21 August 2008
Mobile/E-Mail Post on 12seconds.tv I get things in my actual mailbox. I don't always want them, but sometimes they're exciting and arousing. I decided to play around with my Nokia N95 (thanks Qik!) and my 12seconds.tv channel, and went through the items in my mailbox this week 12 seconds at a […]
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sex + tech terminology needed

21 August 2008
Image Transmission Control Protocol by dailyinvention. Someone just wrote me asking, "is there a term for this sexual occurrence -- what is it called when you lose yr network connection while surfing for teh porn?" Thoughts? Is this the dreaded ND, or Network Dysfunction?
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an instructable for everything — more sex, plzkthx!

21 August 2008
xkcd image via FotoBart, dedicated to Jonathan. Happy anniversary, my love. Here's an Instructable for How to Have Sex (yes, there's an xkcd comic in it, of course -- thanks, Evil Signtist!). Also, don't miss How to make out and How To Sleep With A Friend. Right now, their 'featured' is […]
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12 seconds tv

21 August 2008
Not a sex post, but a fun new tech thing I've been playing with (using different phone cameras): 12seconds.tv. Here's a little explanation.
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get on the pole already! this week’s Chron column

21 August 2008
Image by habkb. This week's SF Chronicle column is Pole Dancing Gets Serious: Violet Blue watches gymnasts take over the gentleman's club sport and turn it into an international competition. It was totally inspired by my visit last week to Sedusa Studios, the largest (and most welcoming) pole-dancing instruction place probably […]
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if you’re coming here from the sf weekly piece

21 August 2008
.... the piece that finds my privacy and harassment issues so hilarious as to write, "In a goodbye post on Wikipedia, Burch uploaded one of the police reports, which shows Blue's home address, cell phone digits, driver's license number, and — every woman's nightmare — her weight." Yes, the pithy vanity […]
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carol queen has always been my inspiration

21 August 2008
And Carol Queen is also my family -- I am a lucky girl. I'm also on the Board of Directors for The Center for Sex & Culture, YAY!!! Check out this fun piece on AfterEllen, Carol Queen Aims to Inspire: In the anthology Live Through This, a collection of stories about […]
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jamilla deville, aussie pole dominatrix

19 August 2008
Just a lovely video I found tonight. Jamilla Deville is the best-known Australian pole dance champion. I'm not a pole dance person (though I fell off one very sweetly and dorkily saturday in 6" heels at this extremely fun studio -- more on that in a bit). But this video […]
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distracted by hentai madness

18 August 2008
Mr. & Mrs. Smith. I blame this gallery of explicit Angelina Jolie comics found by way of paysite-front blog Tales of Hentai (they're all gateways to paysites, but the galleries are funny and free) for making me unproductive today. That, and Hentai Mania -- where it's just plain refreshing to see […]
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CHOmfg the Cho Show is gonna getcha

18 August 2008
I wish I had cable. Because The Cho Show looks like it's going to be incredible -- Margaret just emailed to show me that I've been in one of the promo clips running on VH1! Just a quick peep, but still. Watch this and tell me you don't want to […]
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just a quick word from the pile of shit on the floor

18 August 2008
Of course, in an era where links to people you love(d) secretly become piles of shit that require disappearing backed up by a Mr. Burns moment of "release the hounds", and any word I write about being unpublished deleted from Boing Boing is tantamount to typing text made entirely of […]
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My Infatuation With Hakan Celebi Photography

17 August 2008
Image by Hakan Celebi from the "Tales From Osaka" gallery. Is all due to beautiful, sweet Debauchette -- whom is not only genuine and solid in person, but is one of the internet's best sex writers, period. She posted a single photo by Hakan Celebi and off I went in search, […]
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prayers of boobies worldwide, answered

17 August 2008
Image by nedrosen. Who needs a bullet bra when you can have one that actually stops bullets? I'm a little late this news item, but two weeks ago it was announced that the bulletproof bra is finally seeing its day in the -- well, not sun, exactly, and only in Germany, […]
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wltf : we like to fuck magazine, issue #1

16 August 2008
Image by Christian Castanada for WLTF. WLTF is pretty simple and yet complex at the same time: it stands for We Like To Fuck, and is a Flash gallery webzine that offers up an awful of of dirty photos, along with photos that are not sexual at all but are provocative […]
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new ebook! sweet heat: erotica for couples

15 August 2008
Phew -- making books is hard work. But I love it, and I'm *ecstatic* to announce the ebook version of my audiobook is ready for prime time: Sweet Heat: Explicit Erotica For Couples. It should be on Kindle in a little bit; I also forgot to tell you that my […]
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