wherein freedom, liberty, self-determined sexuality and the right to be left alone are not mutually exclusive

8 September 2008
Incredible image "American Justice" by and property of Mark Velasquez; see more of him here and here and here. Used with express permission. Mark tells us, "I love America and most Americans, but I see us all suffering from a collective stagnance. We're all pretty sure where we stand and […]
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tickets for arse elektronika 2008 now on sale

8 September 2008
Image taken from stage right in a packed room at last year's surprise opening performance; photo by the sweet sex/tech artist Matt Ganucheau. Sex, technology, porn, sci-fi and the perviest (and nicest) futurists in the world are gearing up for this year's Arse Elektronika 2008 -- appropriately themed and titled, "Do […]
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nude in SF now with amateur user-generated local content!

8 September 2008
"Unsolicited, this sexy girl went out with her boyfriend to take her own nudeinsf photos." Nude in SF is a local treasure -- you all know how much I love them. They've had people spontaneously create tributes, and now they've launched a free user-generated section. It's truly exhibitionism for the shy, […]
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lots of smiles for pretty girl friday

5 September 2008
Sasha Grey shot by Richard Kern When a friday goes the way it should, I get to spend hours ogling pretty girl galleries to make selections for this post, and hopefully you get to enjoy them all weekend. And don't worry -- the truth is out there. For perusing the artsy […]
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happy bunny to me… and a contest + presents for you!

5 September 2008
My birthday is at the end of the month -- and Babeland let me pick four toys (one a week) as presents! I picked certain ones so I could tell you about them, and why I'd want them; sorta like a toy review but more information than opinion. I like […]
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cutting-edge gardasil handout

5 September 2008
My doc is active in USCF studies about HIV and sexual health in genereal; he told me there are new studies happening @ UCSF about connections between HPV and cancer -- not just genital cancers, but lung and other kinds of cancers. For women *and heterosexual men*. That they're finding […]
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sekrit on-set vivid alt pics

5 September 2008
It looks like my dear, darling, bitey and fiendish friend Eon McKai has been on set at Vivid Alt with the Donnie Darko bunny of girl-powered porn directing, Kimberly Kane for her upcoming feel-good flick, "Live in my Secrets". You can't see the whole set unless you've been through the […]
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hot boy thursday: switch hitters

4 September 2008
Image of NOTperfect, who is probably not a switch hitter but looked yummy so I thought he was delicious enough to make a hot boy thursday centerpiece. There's nothing like a little controversy in the straight male porn world to make certain stars a bit more appealing. Like Julian, who once […]
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WHY does pegging make straight couples burst into song?

4 September 2008
Awesome image (and many others) by Mr. Eczeman. Just the topic of this week's SF Chron column, Bend Over Onstage, Boyfriend: Violet Blue observes that the "pegging" adult entertainment (and sex-ed) trend is on the rise. No, the awful double-entendres only *begin* in the title. A girl's gotta have fun. Snip: Now […]
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obscenity: it’s perfectly normal

3 September 2008
Beautiful and *perfectly normal* image by John Cornicello. There is no limit to the irony here: Fox News reports (always use the term loosely with Fox, kids) Judge Orders Maine Woman to Return 'Dangerous' Library Book. It happens to be one of the best books on talking to kids about sex […]
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my new appreciation for the GOP

3 September 2008
Incredible image by and property of Mark Velasquez; see more of him here and here and here. Viviane sends me this gem, in case you missed all the goings-on over at Wonkette, whose tireless coverage of the GOP m4m Craigslist action has even me in awe. This one's from Joe. My. […]
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and now, we debate the male “monogamy gene”

3 September 2008
Image by João Araujo. Curious timing, this: hot on the heels of my pal Tristan's new book Opening Up, John Timmer at Ars Technica has an interesting article about monogamy, pair-bonding and genetics -- by way of a new study. It's all about the guys, of course -- for now -- […]
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run lola run

3 September 2008
Image by Mark0380. Not directly sex-related (exception: shoe and/or world record fetishists), but this is a really fun video: Race featuring 265 women in stilettos breaks world record (and a few heels) in Sydney.
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kubrick porn (the Korova milkbar sold milk-plus)

1 September 2008
Image of Marta by the talented and romantic LadyPain (here's her blog). The Panopticist has a fantastic writeup and lots of well-done video in their post, Stanley Kubrick’s The Shining, Now With Hot Girl-on-Girl Action (via MetaFilter by way of Praemedia). Them's that wait should viddy this snip: From Flesh Gordon to […]
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miss me?

1 September 2008
Image of the luscious French Mina Model by NakedBy. I'm back from a long work weekend, too many technical problems. I missed you a lot. Not blogging about sex just feels *wrong*. I have big plans for this website this month. Looks like I need a good, trustworthy WordPress template hacker […]
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nola craigslist spambots still looking for hookups

1 September 2008
Sent from reader SW, "Would have thought, on craigslist, in New Orleans, in the Casual Encounters section, in the Women Seeking Men section, there would be something of substance right now; instead, nothing but spam." http://neworleans.craigslist.org/w4m/ http://neworleans.craigslist.org/cas/ Um, ya: All these posts here are FAKE! (NOLA) "Show some respect for the city at […]
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go playa with yourself

28 August 2008
Burning Man image by loupiote (Old Skool) from "the temple of forgiveness". More of their photos are here and here. This week's SF Chron column is the sweetly cranky Go Playa With Yourself: Violet Blue explains why sex in the city is so much better during Burning Man -- and yes, […]
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safety gear: overrated?

27 August 2008
Angel Down shot by my current photog obsession The Naked Photographer (see also plus more industrial yum): Me (below), shot by my friend Joanne AKA PinkTool (our overdressed, but lathe size-queen lovin' set begins here): Hunter S. Thompson: "I feel the same way about disco as I do about herpes." "There are times, however, […]
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plans b damned: great emergency contraception article

26 August 2008
...and it's by the fabulous Nikol Hasler from Midwest Teen Sex Show! Check it out: The condom broke, came off, or in some other way malfunctioned. He was behind me and I couldn't tell he wasn't using one. We just got carried away and he didn't pull out in time. I […]
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the things we do for property values in san francisco

25 August 2008
"Angie in San Francisco, CA. Made by Frank Wallis in 1997. 35mm fim scan." Via modele.citizen. This is really not the sort of thing I'd ever expect to see on a local real estate blog -- but then, I *do* know where I live. Snip: WARNING: The content in this post may […]
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