speaking of youth and sexuality…

8 October 2008
My friend and colleague at ISIS sent me an interesting query that I want to pass on, especially if you make philanthropic decisions for a company (or an individual) and want to help with a teen HIV study -- it's a REALLY good cause: ISIS is looking for socially responsible, youth […]
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pity the children

8 October 2008
... that their parents can't talk to them openly and honestly and give them tools to navigate sex in culture. Moreso, in The Pornification Of A Generation, pity Newsweek and the author of "The Porning of America" for the sad fact that sex culture and open expression of adult sexuality […]
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loving the machine: open call for interviews

8 October 2008
This is the third in a series of an open call for interviews for a nonfiction project I'm working on about love, sex and technology. For this set of interviews, I'll be email interviewing a handful of people from all genders and sexual orientations about sexual, emotional and romantic relationships […]
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eye candy: bruno dayan

8 October 2008
I can't remember where I found Bruno Dayan (browser resize warning), but the link has been open on my desktop for days and I've greedily gone through his entire online eye-candy store; he's a fashion photographer who mixes fetish and dark sexuality into every frame. The nekkid girls quite sexy, […]
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the last word on the debates

7 October 2008
From Merkley???: "New Study: Nearly Impossible To Maintain Boner During Presidential Debate Even With Good Porn Sharing Same Screen and Debate Muted"
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all hopes for space porn shot down

7 October 2008
Image by Ben Pearce. Actually, the space pr0nographers plans and all my hopes and dreams for anti-gravity porno never even had a chance to launch (go ahead, make your double-enterndres now). Our only hope, really for porn in space would have been with Branson's Virgin Galactic -- sadly, he of the […]
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for andrew blake and kink fans…

7 October 2008
A still from Andrew Blake's Contempt. I was just told that Kink.com is putting Andrew Blake's "Contempt" on Kink On Demand tomorrow or Thursday -- it is the first Blake title on KoD, and I think it might be the first time he's been available through an on-demand site. I've got […]
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Fleshbot wrapup

7 October 2008
Image from Judith and Irene's LickNylons set. I've been writing for Fleshbot since Jonno brought me on in early 2005 and I was indeed his right-hand girl in the Fleshbot Empire for a long time (in Internet time, anyway); as with Jonno's farewell post last week, I will no longer be […]
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nothing’s shocking: femina potens and dave navarro

6 October 2008
Twincest and Dave Navarro. Last week I had the honor of being Twincest's guest for a private taping of IFC and Dave Navarro's upcoming show, "Body Shots". They were in town and went to a few places, but spent an entitre evening at Femina Potens featuring local porn and art heroine […]
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reason magazine on “the frigid woman”

6 October 2008
Image by friend Eon McKai as a sneak peek from a film he's currently working on called "On My Dirty Knees". There are a lot of interesting points in this piece about the so-called "frigid woman" and it's worth a read; though I'll warn you it ends on a stupid sexist […]
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I guess someone’s never seen the extra action marching band…

6 October 2008
Image of the Extra Action Marching Band by me from this set; a great night. On the other hand, it makes me want to raise my hand and shout "pick me! pick me!" to give sexual harassment training to Extra Action. Which is pretty much what they've (lovingly) done to me […]
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get your sexy dork on

6 October 2008
Jiz Lee (blue hair) and Shawn, at a party for Pink and White Productions, image by me. Jiz and Shawn have been busy with (very graphic) performance art at Twincest. Uber sexy local porn star (and all-around hottie crush) Jiz Lee is having a Coming Out As A Sexy Dork contest […]
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forniphilia as a political statement

6 October 2008
Abu Ghraib coffee table by artist Phillip Toledano. Yikes. That's a fetish for human furniture, the most extreme of which is on display at House of Gord. But check your comfort levels at the door, and click through America the Gift Shop to see things like the "I was rendered to […]
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sex + advertising contest winners!

2 October 2008
Winner #1 -- the insanely brilliant Mini (Canada) "Dominate Winter" campaign, which will take you a long and possibly arousing time to explore fully, submitted by Lolita. I know this took a very long time, but honestly -- this was the most difficult contest for me to judge yet. There […]
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big props from Ethical Technology

2 October 2008
To my great surprise and delight, The Institute for Ethics and Emerging Technologies is featuring me on their front page with a multimedia post! "America’s leading (very) public intellectual sexologist, Violet Blue, spoke on having sex with machines at Arse Elektronika 2008. She also wrote about the topic in her […]
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deep inside machine sex

2 October 2008
Photo from Kink.com's website, Fucking Machines. Inspired by the panel I was on for Arse Elektronika last weekend, I wrote this week's column about the why's of sex with machines -- obviously I can write a whole book on this topic, as it's consumed me for so many years and is […]
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oh my

1 October 2008
Respoted in full, as I'm sure it will go away soon (thanks, J!): los angeles craigslist > SF valley > adult gigs NEED SARAH PALIN LOOKALIKE ASAP FOR ADULT FILM (LA) Reply to: [email protected] [?] Date: 2008-09-10, 8:20PM PDT Looking for a Sarah Palin lookalike for an adult film to be shot in next […]
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trailers you must not miss

30 September 2008
Oh, Milk (above). I was here when the film was shot: you'll see my city, my views, our story -- my City Hall whose very steps I celebrate pride on with cocktails, and the very halls in the film I've wandered around in (unattended)! It makes me weepy, and strangely, […]
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arse elektronika 2008 mp3′s now online

30 September 2008
Image by Scott Beale / Laughing Squid, from his Arse 2008 set. Wow, they really got these online fast -- yay! All the audio from the talks, discussions and panels at Arse Elektronika 2008 are now on this page and available for free downloading/listening. If you just want to jump right […]
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extremely disappointed that I am not a ‘mouthpiece of satan’

30 September 2008
But I definitely am the *neighbor* of the mouthpiece of Satan. Nothing's more fun than when a conservative Christian reviews part of my body of work, like, say, my podcast. Today Skepchick did a great roundup of one particular conservative's podcast reviews, where he embarks on his personal mission to […]
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