criminal charges for craigslist rant

3 December 2008
This is slightly off-topic, but still appropriate to share with you given what I've been through with trolls, stalkers, and restraining orders this year: A Colorado man accused of posting comments about his ex-girlfriend on the Web site Craigslist has been charged under a rarely used criminal libel law. (...) […]
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chronic vulvar pain: it’s *not* all in your head

3 December 2008
Image by Richard Kadrey / Kaos Beauty Klinik. It's estimated that if you're in a room with 18 women in it, probably three of them are experiencing some sort of vaginal or vulvar pain. It's not fun to think of. They are not dancing because they are happy. I'm not talking […]
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MSNBC on (some) female porn execs

3 December 2008
Image by Michael Blue for Two Knotty Boys. It's always a good day when a mainstream news outlet profiles women working in porn and sex stuff and doesn't marginalize them, and just kind of talks about the whole thing like it's normal -- but contextualizes it as a business like any […]
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kink.com deleted from wikipedia

3 December 2008
This week Kink's article page was deleted from Wikipedia. Nope, don't see any way in which an article about Kink.com would reflect a significant cultural contribution or be necessary for notable, externally verifiable inclusion in a worldwide encyclopedic reference. Neither would anyone else (nytimes.com), I'm sure.
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a quantum of goldfinger

2 December 2008
Image via Daily Mail UK. The homage to Goldfinger in Quantum of Solace was no mistake, plus it was incredibly sexy; Gemma Arterton as Agent Fields demise by skin slicked design was totally as sexy as Shirley Eaton drowned in gold as Jill Masterson 44 years ago. Image via 006 Bond Girls. Daily […]
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bond girl bondage

2 December 2008
Image of Olga Kurylenko via SexyHotBeauty. I just saw Quantum of Solace, so I'm on a bit of a Bond kick. I wrote a Fleshbot post a while back about Olga Kurylenko, the heroine Bond girl "Camille Montes" in the newly released Quantum of Solace and how she'd dome some bondage […]
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a visit from Suzanne Rachel Forbes

1 December 2008
Self-portrait, this set. I'm working on a piece about the extremely gifted, fascinatingly storied local artist Suzanne Rachel Forbes, and today she came to my house and painted me for about three hours. It was such a fun and relaxed, truly creative, collaborative experience. I'll post her interview and profile in […]
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lollipop, lollipop

1 December 2008
Lollipops are refreshing no matter what time of year, yes? The entire figurine review (and image via) is here (heiseidemocracy.com; click 'toggle visibility' to get the full, full monty). These figures are slated for release this month. Which is apparently lollipop season in Japan.
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parents sue school over sex offender check system

1 December 2008
The story says it all: A background check system used by many Texas schools to spot visitors who are sex offenders is being challenged by two parents who say the process violates their privacy and other rights. Yvonne and Larry Meadows are suing the Lake Travis school district over a computer […]
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the new face of porn racketeering? money-grabs, RIAA-style

30 November 2008
Image by immensely talented UrbanPgtographer2007. Carol Queen just sent me this story in the Guardian UK Porn bill for couple who can't download, which I'd been looking at with a furrowed brow for the past day or so trying to put all the pieces together. And it clicked. You'll see in […]
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two randomly delicious (and deliciously random) Kink galleries

29 November 2008
I just (ahem) stumbled across this free image and video gallery at Kink's Whipped Ass website and thought it was too good to keep to myself. Pretty girls, plus I love to see a freshly spanked butt. Next, I saw Princess Donna's latest troublemaking on her new (quite hardcore) public sex […]
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rate your sociosexuality

29 November 2008
Image by my dear sweet friend, Dustin Lacina. Now, this article, The dizzying diversity of human sexual strategies and this test at New Scientist to rate your 'sociosexuality' doesn't come without a caveat -- though it does come to me via Praemedia. The caveat is that to me, at least, […]
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lesbian hentai saturday, yay!

29 November 2008
And why not? Looks like everyone's having fun! You know how I love to share the freebees. Click through to see a couple short hot clips (no pixelation -- looks like it was made for the American market, most are .wmv files). The "instant access" tour has more free entertainment. […]
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early release excitement: Best Women’s Erotica 2009

28 November 2008
Get your copy here. It's not supposed to be on shelves until December 11, but it's shipping *now* (and I got my hands on a red-hot copy). Best Women's Erotica 2009 is my newest anthology -- explicit lit by women, written by astoundingly talented women from all over the world. It's […]
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exclusive: lovin’ from Muki’s oven!

27 November 2008
I was absolutely delighted this week to get an email from the chefs (Mrs. and Mr. Muki) at humorous fetish site Muki's Kitchen, thanking me for yearly Thanksgiving links -- and sending me some freebees to share with you this holiday. They also wanted me to know that they love […]
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on a thankful note

27 November 2008
Thank you all for being in my life -- readers, listeners, friends, loves and everyone who stops by to just click a hello. I'm grateful and amazed by your presence and how it makes me feel like I have a place in this world. Thank you. And today, I give my […]
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sf chronicle: mortgage sluts and recession sex

27 November 2008
Image by modfetish, via dream 'secretary' GalaDarling. This week's San Francisco Chronicle column, Mortgage Sluts: People are gettin' down like it's 1929 was entirely inspired by Bacchus' post on the topic -- though I think you'll enjoy and be slightly alarmed, and maybe even a bit titillated by the direction I […]
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Live. Nude. Turkey.

26 November 2008
Image of turkey shibari bondage -- "Shiburkey by Violet Lee" -- blatantly reblogged from Viviane. The whole amazing set is here. Image of a different way of giving thanks, for inspiration by Michael Blue and Two Knotty Boys. Or you can cook it, Merkley??? style, as in "Happy Thanksgiving JERKS! Pretend she […]
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random hot

26 November 2008
Image by elaisted. * Random tip: don't buy the used sex toys from the bloke on the corner -- Thieves Steal LoveHoney's Used Sex Toys. * Random neat: I was on Geeky Tattoos! *Random religious cameo: I starred on the cover of JT's Indie Christian Music Podcast #40! * Random fucking lameness: Kindle isn't […]
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pre-spanksgiving pretty girls

26 November 2008
This post is all about Australian site I Feel Myself, and their recent change -- they're a women owned and operated amateur site whose content is extremely tasty. But, they just moved to an *ethical* porn payment processing company. Which is like, a fucking revolution: a payout company (Feck) who […]
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