yummy new clip from Girls Out West

14 February 2009
Image of Georgie. I love the Australian woman-run porn site Girls Out West; I've had some wonderful ongoing email conversations with the woman who runs the operation since the beginning of the new year about what new directions her and the girls are taking the site, and there's a lot of […]
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great article: why going green with sex toys and pr0n is sexy and *easy*

14 February 2009
Image by malecution. I've read a lot of articles about going "green" and sustainable with sex toys -- and I wrote one about ecosexuals myself, plus all the press around the major vibrator recycling program they have at the wonderful LoveHoney UK. But this article at Alternet is a quite complete […]
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…I know where you’ve been naughty

14 February 2009
Image from this gallery (with videos). Is it bad for me to divulge that looking over a few recent Public Disgrace shoots, I've recognized the San Francisco locations? Like the skate shop (above) for instance -- I think it's so cool that in one of the images from that gallery outside […]
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happy Valentine’s Day from JimmyJane

14 February 2009
Image taken with my Nokia N95-4. ZOMFG -- for Valentine's Day JimmyJane sent me a present. And here I was dreaming that diamonds are a girls best friend? No, this girl's best friend is the vibrator I wanted so bad it filled me with longing: the butterflies and skulls engraved Little […]
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a sexy Valentine’s takedown meal for under $20

13 February 2009
Image by hannes.trapp. Takedown, as in erotic conquering, not like a sexy DMCA notice. Is there such a thing? Hmmm... That sounds like blogger-lawyer role play in the making. Anyway -- my latest sexy recipe for under $20 just went live over at BrokeAss Gourmet -- Sexy Brokeass Valentine Seduction: Sausages […]
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last-minute Valentine’s Day gifties

13 February 2009
Image "be my Valentine" by urbanphotographer2007. So, in case you're not joining the resistance... Of course, nothing says "be my geeky Valentine" like something from the xkcd store, though I know it's too late to order... Or, maybe it's *not* too late for an online gift: Agent Provocateur has e-vouchers (!!!!drool!!!!) that […]
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the society for the advancement of despair: Valentine’s Resistance

12 February 2009
My dear friends at Marrow (blogged previously on Laughing Squid) have begun, and are encouraging all to enlist in their campaign of "Valentine's Resistance" featuring several videos -- like the sentimental one above -- to serve as SAD Valentine e-cards. They wanted to share. You can follow the main Marrow […]
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xkcd examines the baseball diamond model of heteronormative sex

12 February 2009
At SFSI during training of sex crisis counselors, the "first base", "second base" model for sexuality is referred to as the "baseball diamond model". It stands for both the euphemisms xkcd explains above for "scoring" with a sex partner (the stages of penis-vagina intercourse goal achievement) -- and also for […]
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racist porn and the recession: this week’s SF Chronicle column

12 February 2009
One of friend (and favorite nerd porn star) Sinnamon Love's Twitter responses after reading this week's column. I don't know how to preface this week's column, Racist Porn and the Recession - Violet Blue: Nothing is recession proof, especially not your tired old racist porn. The topic is so upsetting that […]
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absolutely the worst article about sex ever written – tag: unintentional hilarity

11 February 2009
Image by friend, Richard Kadrey/Kaos Beauty Klinik. A day ago, on my overly customized Google News page I caught a headline that read, "Therapists Say Kinky Sex On The Rise" from ABC News. Naturally, pre-click, I was already laughing at the double-entendre and eagerly awaiting to see how, given the indication […]
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big props to DC Comics: fierce lesbian Batwoman set for release

11 February 2009
Click image for hi-res; via Greg Rucka. Visitors to last weekend's New York Comic Con got a little surprise: a preview of Batwoman at the back of their program guides. This allowed writer Greg Rucka and JH Williams III to openly admit that they're hard at work on DC Comics' Batwoman […]
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porn moment: bi and bi

11 February 2009
This image is from a bisexual Danish couple who are having a lot of fun (obviously) with their explicit, artistic blog, Bi and Bi: "a personal sex blog from a 30-something Danish couple" (image is from this series). Highly recommended for all kinds of visually tasteful bisexual combinations; site features […]
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I’d vote for Stormy Daniels over Vitter

11 February 2009
Image by mitbbsnews1. She seems more serious than Mary Carey, and I have to say it's rather fun... Porn star (she actually is a star) Stormy Daniels is is preparing to run for the Senate against Louisiana Senator David Vitter (R-LA), whose phone number was found in the records of the […]
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The Onion’s 2009 Valentine issue

10 February 2009
Image via The Onion. ...rocks, even when it has a bit of judgmental baggage here and there (just warning you). Highlights include: * Japan Pledges To Halt Production Of Weirdo Porn That Makes People Puke * Man Somehow Getting Worse At Sex * Per Tradition, Ex-Presidents Watch Obamas Christen White House Bed * Ex-Girlfriend Making […]
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healthy sex toys PSA: Breaking Up With My Blow Up Doll, the musical

10 February 2009
Kinds folksy. Not much dancing -- okay, a minute of dancing. Still, fun and informative. The best part is watching someone sing the word "pthalates" in a song. Breaking Up With My Blow Up Doll is from the green activists at Grist. For additional information, check out my unsafe sex […]
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Edward Gorey’s *other* sex related title: “The Recently Deflowered Girl”

9 February 2009
A mysterious mustachioed marimba player sent me this link today; a post containing the complete high-res scans of Edward Gorey's 1965 book titled “The Recently Deflowered Girl”. I didn't know this book existed. Some of you might be familiar with the ookey spooky artist's work from things like The Gashlycrumb […]
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pr0n for climbers

9 February 2009
Image via Stone Nudes. I don't know why, but climbing and bouldering is really kind of trendy in the tech scene here in San Francisco -- not in a bad way, it's totally healthy and very inclusive. Personally, I dislike heights, so you won't see me joining the fun, though I've […]
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the joydick

8 February 2009
Do I even need to explain this? I will because it's awesome! "Now even if you lose in the game, you can still be a winner in life." When I talk about future sex, I often tell journalists that much of the innovation is going to come from gaming -- […]
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my SXSWi talk: sexual exploitation, sexual expression and self-defense

8 February 2009
Incredible portrait of blogger/photographer Marta Lamovsek with Slovenian Playboy girls. "This pick was made after we shoot for a Slovenia Playmate of the Year. Aleš Bravničar as a photographer, I did the assisting (and girls loved me, of course ;)" My plane tickets are purchased (thanks, anonymous sponsor!) and I will […]
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oh, Xena: yes, that’s Lucy Lawless

7 February 2009
Images are from the short, hot and totally worth a visit collection of pics at New Film Dimension, where they caught the hot cylon (aka Juicy Flawless) onstage at the Roxie. She wasn't *only* dressed as a Catholic schoolgirl... Love her. LOVE HER.
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