creepily, all ur floggers are made in Pakistan

27 April 2009
Image by Zackary Canepari for The New York Times. Okay, maybe not all your floggers, but this nicely unbiased New York Times article is really a mindfuck when you consider that the Taliban's top weapon for beating people in the never-ever-sexy way is a whip. And when I searched Flickr for […]
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what Eon’s been up to…

27 April 2009
With Eon and Pixie at my favorite restaurant in SF, NOPA. Very recently I was extremely happy to have one of my closest friends Eon McKai come visit me, and he brought the gorgeous, smart and really funny Pixie Pearl (::girlcrush::) along. We went to NOPA for foodz, and some of […]
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the shameless self-portrait post

27 April 2009
I've been spending a lot of time at other people's houses lately, and sometimes they let me hang out and work or raid their refrigerator/bar when they're not at home. Simultaneously, I decided to experiment with the self-timer on my old Lumix and the dusty Sony tripod in my closet. […]
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so much neverending ado about Craiglsist’s “Erotic Services”

27 April 2009
Beautiful image by FML Photography. But I'm happy to say that Craig Newmark is keeping it *realisitic*. Snip: The founder of Craigslist, Craig Newmark, announced that he has no plans to close down the "erotic services" section of Craiglist. With the high profile murder of Julissa Brisman and the media storm that […]
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local “Champion” takes top prize at Feminist Porn Awards

27 April 2009
Image courtesy of "Blowfish and Champion" cast and crew. The awards are official -- and unlike we'd previously thought, the Feminist Porn Awards 2009 did indeed split nominees into user-fappable categories, I mean really nicely, diversely organized subjects (to make our fap choices all the easier). Yay! Big, big love and […]
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from Andrew Blake: fetish exclusives

26 April 2009
I don't know why Andrew Blake likes me so much, but I *love* him and his work so I don't have a single complaint about getting a gigantic gift from him and his minions: a big, big file full of exclusive, explicit fetish stills from a variety of his works. […]
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SF Weekly’s Matt Smith Screws Kink.com: Unfair, Unbalanced, Malfeasant Journalism

24 April 2009
Self-portrait goofing around with Peter Acworth. Things exploded here in San Francisco this week with Kink.com when two things happened: one, Kink got kicked out of a local state funded, nonprofit job enhancement training program -- BAVC. I know a couple readers here not only have attended BAVC, but also have […]
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bisexual chaser

24 April 2009
Image by I Just Can't Get Enough in Edinburgh. This week's column was inspired by all the commentary and controversy here and on my Flickr stream about the straight/bi/gay/lesbian stereotype exercise and it came out pretty snarky and confrontational -- in other words, I love it. I've gotten some great feedback […]
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Agent Provocateur’s sexy “Kinky Melody” video

22 April 2009
The exquisite Kinky Melody video by Dirty Stop Out is a lot like an evening with the Extra Action Marching Band, complete with a hella sexy horn section. But I don't know if anyone's even been whipped over a barrel at a gig... yet. The exclusive, no sign-in direct link to […]
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want: Ilya Fleet Leather Cane

22 April 2009
I actually want one of everything from Co Co deMer, but the Ilya Fleet Leather Cane really got me. So did the Ilya Fleet Leather Tail Harness -- big, big WANT. ::sigh
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Kink introduces pure delicious debauchery: The Upper Floor

21 April 2009
Image by Cinema Cowgirl. Check out Kink's new/upcoming enterprise, The Upper Floor. I got a peek at it today, and the sweethearts at Kink wrangled me a link just for you. Kink.com has spent 11 years producing quality BDSM entertainment, with a view to celebrating and demystifying alternative sexualities. Much of Kink.com's […]
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the ultimate post-Ballard post

21 April 2009
Image via ALYCIA. Yes, my best friend wrote it and he mentions me in it but *whatever* -- we're all writers and crazy and dogs, and this piece has blown my mind. Read the best Ballard obit to come out of all the limelighting and grandstanding by his so-called friends, publisher […]
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a lovely random find

21 April 2009
Image by lazareva valeria; see more of her gorgeous photography here.
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mutsugoto: I’ll sign up to beta test this one too, plz

21 April 2009
This tech art 'intimacy device' looks really fun, sweet and sexy to play with -- and I'm fairly certain I can find a test bunny to sign onto the project with. Possibly maybe. *But* I'd also like to work in the idea that this would be an *extremely* good reason […]
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stereotypes and assumptions: sexual orientation

20 April 2009
stereotypes + assumptions: straight male This is generating a lot of extremely interesting discussion on my Flickr photo stream, so I thought you might like to check it out. Last weekend I participated in a sex ed training exercise about stereotypes and assumptions regarding sexual orientation. Remember, sexual orientation isn't a […]
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boytaur chaser

20 April 2009
Boytaur. The brainrinse you never needed (thanks, E!)
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it looks longer if you use metric

20 April 2009
Image from Condometric, which is an experience all in itself -- thanks, metric.org! I am in a strange and giddy, oversexed mood this week and you are just going to have to put up with it. I did 18 hours of sex ed this weekend, lost my voice, got it back, […]
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see you on the highway, Ballard

19 April 2009
One of my personal heroes died today. "The superheroes of the future will be people who'll challenge this condominium of boredom, and we'll find that our Bonnies and Clydes will emerge to challenge the suburban values." --J.G. Ballard, JGB News, 1993 "I never said we should shy away from or retreat from technology. […]
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Swinging

17 April 2009
Image via hotness Gala Darling. Never tried it myself. But this is a shamelessly hot photo, so whatever. How's your friday? I'm about to prep to interview Sasha Grey, am chilling in nothing but a slip and my laptop on someone elses' couch feeling soft and melty and kind of sexy, […]
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super cute candid of Miss Mina

16 April 2009
Just saw this incredibly cute, just uploaded candid shot of my pal Mina Model and had to share it with you.
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