first person behind closed doors: The Art of Restraint

21 May 2009
Last saturday after 8 hours at UCSF sex ed, I squeezed into rubber and went to The Art of Restraint at Femina Potens, an exclusive, private evening of interactive bondage and erotic performance art. It's a benefit for the communities and artists; please donate to FP if you enjoy the […]
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hot boy thursday: Robert Downey Jr. in Guy Ritchie’s Sherlock Holmes

21 May 2009
Large trailer here. Guy Ritchie's Sherlock Holmes is going to go directly into my porn collection for the following reasons: * Guy Ritchie pulling the strings, plus: Robert Downey Jr.: * gets naked * has homoerotic overtones with Jude Law (blogga please, whatever) * sexy femme fatale kicks his ass * bareknuckle fistfighting shirtless * is HOT * […]
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can someone explain this to me?

21 May 2009
It's an advertisement that makes me want to go for a long walk in the woods, via Nerve, who has no explanation either. Not that I'm complaining.
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Mary Roach’s TED Talk: 10 Things You Didn’t Know About Orgasm

20 May 2009
Mary -- my comrade in gin-soaked sex science nerdery -- just emailed letting me know they finally got her TED talk online, 10 Things You Didn't Know About Orgasm. Awesomeness! May Mary Roach and the rest of us continue to twist TED's knickers. * See also, my writeup of our […]
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Bay to Breakers, the way the gods intended it

19 May 2009
Image by malecution. Image by malecution. Here in San Francisco we have a footrace called Bay to Breakers (aka Your Weekend In Pee Avoidance), where thousands of runners go across town on a lovely Sunday (last sunday) and run run run in a marathon in a variety of classes and for a […]
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Art of Restraint: first taste

18 May 2009
Saturday night I went to Art of Restraint at the Femina Potens gallery, an exclusive, high-end private evening of bondage and sex-themed art and performances. CarnalNation was on hand to capture the excellent video: I got over 500 images that I'm culling through for an explicit gallery (and a gallery […]
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What Does it Mean When I See My Friends On “Look At This Hipster Fucking?”

18 May 2009
Image originally from Issac White for Nerve*, via LATHF. I'm so 3008 and your cupcakes are so 2000-and-LATE. Image originally from God's Girl's, via LATHF. The post title is a rhetorical question. We Americans ask a lot of those. So go Look At This Hipster Fucking, because it's really hot (lookatthishipsterfucking.tumblr.com). * To […]
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for women seeking 7 or better… really.

18 May 2009
Image via autonoie. A friend sent me this for a OMGLOL until we both realized it's for real. 7 Or Better (7orbetter.com) is (allegedly) for women seeking men whose cocks are seven inches or longer. But thay say that they're *not a sex site* --- yeah. Of course my friend and […]
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that Chinese sex-ed theme park – NOT

18 May 2009
Image of my pal Katie West by Chad Michael Ward (also here). Over the weekend I was in 16 hours of sex ed classes and went to an incredible adult art event (post and more forthcoming), but a number of people emailed me links on saturday about a Chinese sex ed […]
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More Andrew Blake Exclusives

15 May 2009
Thank you, Mr. Andrew Blake, for sending these to me. Many are of Justine Jolie and some are quite dirty. More explicit fetish stills after the jump. FYI: All pics link back to Mr. Blake's website. (more...)
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morning LOL: my pussy would kick Sadie’s ass, too

15 May 2009
Image from this Ultimate Surrender video + image gallery. Fucking sex garbage marketers, always hitting up us well trafficked sex blogs with crap products like we're stupid bumpkins. Gah! This morning's LULZ brought to us by Bacchus, snip: Dear Sadie: I am sorry to inform you that I would make a poor test […]
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Detroit’s meanest strip club on 8 mile goes upscale

15 May 2009
This is a really interesting post from detroitblog -- Dirty dancing is a nice long piece describing what happened when one man took a seriously scary, rough and hardcore strip club (mostly African American) and made it an upscale entertainment space. And the old customers where not happy -- as […]
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fun stuff on RopeRookie

15 May 2009
Image from this gallery. A small smattering of unusual free galleries landed in my inbox from RopeRookie; simple photosets of girls bound for the first time. Of note: the "ballerina", Indian women -- not just one but two (it's difficult to find tasteful pr0n with women from India in it), and […]
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CarnalNation : This Week’s Column!

14 May 2009
Image by Cut It Out You Guys. I'm excited that this week's column is an interview with the driving force behind my favorite new online sex news and culture website, CarnalNation -- I think it's a must-add subscription for anyone who wants to keep up with sex news from an unbiased, […]
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Today’s big news: Craigslist ‘erotic services’ compromise, changes ahead

13 May 2009
It's interesting to read all the news stories about what happened with Craigslist's 'Erotic Services' category today; the overwhelming message is that CL "caved" to pressure to shut down its category altogether. Whether this is an accurate flavor of the story or not, CL did indeed decide to close that […]
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[audio] open source sex #69

12 May 2009
Oh yeah -- did I forget to tell you I had a new book come out? Wups... Well, I'm pleased to announce my new book that I should have announced the second it came out (oh, life), but I'm even more happy that it gets the honor of having a […]
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Tuesday Nibbles Because Of… Tristan’s New Anal Sex Guide, Egyptian Court Band Porn Sites

12 May 2009
Image by Just Bodies, where there are a lot more stunning erotic images. Last night after the San Francisco Street Art party, some dear friends made me dinner (mmm, it was delishus). But when the dinner began I managed to cut myself rather badly opening a bottle of wine. I think […]
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because this photo actually *belongs* on a sex blog, thx

12 May 2009
You know who this is. And that this photo really belongs on a motherfucking sex blog. More here (via).
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new fetish find: wet tissues

11 May 2009
With the new launch of fetish site Tissue Queens, I just have to point out that wet tissues were something I hadn't put much thought to for sexual fetishization, but now I definitely will keep this under consideration for future lectures and tech party cocktail conversations. However, blowing my nose […]
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poor sugar daddy? not so much.

11 May 2009
Image from this new Beauty and Braces gallery. This news item caught my eye today, about Greenwich Financier (and DuPont heir) Stephen Dent's little problem with his own sugar daddy fetish and SeekingArrangement.com (not linked to in the article, of course) -- snip: Some people don't learn lessons. Other people are very […]
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