handy and pervertable

5 June 2009
I got one of these late, late last night from a cute drunk girl. I highly recommend perverting The Bureau of Communication's "Declaration of Romantic Intent" forms. You can opt to keep all info unarchived and unsaved.
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the sex positive bubble and killing a doctor

5 June 2009
Image of Mestra Jussara "The Sting" by Tommy Cuellar. It's really hard to write about the murder of Dr. Tiller and *not* call it the killing of a sex educator -- he was an abortion doctor in Kansas, which meant he did a lot of educational work around sexuality through the […]
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auto-erotic asphyxiation: David Carradine?

4 June 2009
Portrait of David Carradine by Mark Berry - Photographer & Graphic Designer. Shades of Michael Hutchence? Do not Kill Bill with kinky sex, please. :( This is breaking from newswire: David Carradine, who sadly passed away yesterday, might have have died as a result of erotic asphyxiation in a very curious […]
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sex and violence: academia on media

4 June 2009
Image by Richard Kadrey/Kaos Beauty Klinik. Silence Is the Enemy: Commonly Appearing News Frames of Sexual Violence really caught my eye, I think you'll appreciate it: Several science bloggers this month are spotlighting sexual violence as a social problem and the Scienceblogs portal has jumped on board. The focus is mostly on […]
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filth, beauty, love and trouble: I’m back

3 June 2009
Image of Rose by elaisted. A more explicit image of Rose is after the jump. Nowhere to begin but the present: I'm back in front of the cinema display after a week so soaked in sex ed, erotica and writing that I can barely timeline the events of the past several […]
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o haiiiii

1 June 2009
Thanks, Anton! * I am bleary, tired, still on deadline and editing and about to dig into final rewrites (Best Women's Erotica 2010 submissions, your emails from me are coming in the next 2 days, all 300+ of you) -- but in the meantime my dear readers, you should all know […]
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still here

30 May 2009
Image of gorgeous Katie West listening to the wind. I am still here; actually working myself to shards on writing and editing deadlines, along with a 16-hour sex ed stint over the weekend. I have a lot to share with you, soon. Not being here on the blog is making me […]
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this week’s SF Chron column: let them eat hate

28 May 2009
Image of xtra cool 5733 tee available here. This week's SF Chron column got me the following ZOMFG email: Thank you Violet...really Your "Don't Marry Me Bro" column was far and away the best piece I have read on the entire subject. Want to see a real shit storm? Place gay and lesbian […]
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New menu, same dishes: the new language of Craigslist’s Erotic Services

27 May 2009
The official changes and legal wrangling originally reported here, with updates; now we have the brand new funky face of Craigslist's (now discontinued) Erotic Services section. More creative, less imagery, and looks a lot less safe. Snip: Craigslist may have officially shut down its Erotic Services section in favor of a […]
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the big WANT post

27 May 2009
* All images link to individual products. I'll just tell you straight up that there's NO WAY you nor I can afford any of the items I've been drooling over since I finished my writing work for the night, all available at Coco de Mer... but damnwow how hot and arousing […]
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The Girlfriend Experience: from a sex worker

27 May 2009
Image of Sasha Grey from this video+image gallery. Of note, and powerful: Stephen Elliott's The Girlfriend Experience, Sex Work in Perspective: (...) Part of what is so compelling about this film is the realism. This didn’t always work for Steven Soderbergh in Che, but The Girlfriend Experience has more in common with […]
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lawmakers: how can we get this through to you?

26 May 2009
Shot 1 hour ago and instantly uploaded with my badass Nokia N95. "When you see me fear me I'm the epitome of public enemy." SF Appeal is covering like crazy.
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if I only had a *secretary*

25 May 2009
Image from this explicit gallery. Double entendres and puns are the lowest form of humor, but if I'm going to get these fucking books about fucking ever finally done *and* have a human life at the same time -- the call for positions are open for secretary at the Blogger Bungalow. More […]
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ice ice, baby

25 May 2009
Image by Huse Dot Com. A longtime fan of Julian Snelling's exquisite erotic sex toys, I was excited to see Huse Dot Com's lovely jewely anal decorations at CarnalNation today. Nice stuff -- and do take your time on the site, lots to see -- and you gotta love the left […]
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happy memorial day

25 May 2009
This above video is from ActionGirls.com (with whom I'm not affiliated but have been a fan of for many years). What really sucks is that that hardworking servicepeople overseas can't see it, even just for grins. (Read my report, SF Chronicle: Don’t Ask, Don’t Wank - Violet Blue ponders the […]
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sunday bum rush

24 May 2009
Brought to you by Chad Michael Ward.
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pretty girl friday

22 May 2009
Image of Gabriella and Marlene from this gallery. Lots to see and enjoy -- I even included some sweet blonds this week, for diversity ;) I loved Mia, Gabriella and Marlene, Argentinian Muriel's newest shoot, Finnish Lolita Jenny, this young lady from NuDolls with a nice bottom, this Argentinian amateur catfight […]
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the hot shop: 5733

22 May 2009
Sexy Let Them Eat Cake shirt by 5733. Two of the most complimented (and prized) items of clothing I own are from local underground artists 5733: my sexyqueer Just Married V-neck (on me here) and my Japanese Schoolgirl women's zip hoodie. This saturday (tomorrow) in Oakland they're teaming up with OBEYclothing […]
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be afraid; be very afraid – air sex competition returns to tour US

22 May 2009
Image: "Round 1 of the Austin Air Sex Championships qualifying rounds at the Alamo Drafthouse Ritz" by originalalamo. My dear friend Brad Warner has, for better or for worse, kindly alerted me to the fact that the Air Sex World Championships are hitting the road to tour fifteen U.S. cities in […]
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Friday Nibbles: Porn Star Runs for Senate, Belladonna’s Birthday, French Girl Band Launches Single In The Nude

22 May 2009
Image by dott. dulcamara. Currently on deadline for three books due on the 1st, I'm swimming through the porny, playful fun of all the work while mitigating trying to remember to eat* (however, I seem to have no problem remembering to drink caffeine or alcohol) and wishing I could be writing […]
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