surreal: April Flores glitter suicide in my bathtub

29 June 2009
Last month when Courtney Trouble, April Flores, Carlos Batts, Kim Kane and others invaded my house to shoot some indie porn, I wasn't in the rooms when they were shooting so I didn't see what they did. And that was fine with me; I was thrilled to have these exciting […]
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hot queer girl monday

29 June 2009
Image from Roulette – a porn shoot (...). I missed pretty girl friday -- but after a weekend of celebrating SF LGBTQ Pride, working (getting snidely called an "activist" at the porn expo onstage by another sex writer), networking while everyone and their gay porny sibling is in town, and being […]
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happy gay pride weekend from Miss California (not)

26 June 2009
Image by malecution. This week's SF Chronicle column was fun to write; instead of the usual SF Pride guide, I wrote a faux how-to guide to staying "safe" from homosexual activity in San Francisco over the weekend from ex Miss California Carrie Prejean, who is actually more famous for being against […]
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China’s online “porn” ban to extend to sexual health sites

25 June 2009
Image by Danny Choo. This is getting really out of control -- extreme, bizarre and I think now has the potential to become dangerous. There have been a lot of headlines about the Chinese government's intent and implementation to ban not only whatever they deem pornographic but also "vulgar information". Another […]
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what happens when I get “behind” in my blogging

25 June 2009
Image of Claire Adams and Lorelei Lee from this gallery. I have no idea where this week went, except I know I've been really busy -- though not as busy as the enthusiastic, happy pervs over at Kink who just launched the new site Everything Butt! It's about... you know, butts: […]
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lesbians = 1 cowboys = ?

25 June 2009
CowboyAtom.com: Funny Videos | Cinematic Comedy | Romantic Comedies Cowboy is written, directed and starring Matthew Modine; no sex but it's hot and cute. Thanks, DD! On that note, see also: the 100 Hottest Butches, just in time for Pride weekend. Big props for seeing locals Shine Louise Houston, Syd Blakovich […]
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hello, Zivity!

22 June 2009
Image by Merkley??? from my Zivity photoset. I'm very excited to announce that I'm now part of the Zivity modeling community! My first set went live today -- if you're a member, feel free to vote for me and Merkley???, who shot my first set. (OMG) I really like Zivity's community-focused […]
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hai gorgeous: Jody Kovac

21 June 2009
Image of Jody Kovac by Art Silva. One thing I miss doing since I quit Fleshbot is doing "crush object" posts, where I come across a beautiful model in my various porny online adventures, discover that she has substance not only in her work but also in her web presence, and […]
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Friday Nibbles: Lindsay Lohan, HIV Outbreak And Osha, Nude Yoga

19 June 2009
Image of Lindsay Lohan via Single Scoop. * French animated condoms (video) are scary and explicit. I know they are trying to be cute. But -- le yikes! (xhamster.com, thanks DD!) * Google really wants to be in China. I am dying to know exactly how they're determining what porn sites to […]
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groovy hot boy pink missle of love post

19 June 2009
Too late for my Hot Boy Thursday as usual (I gleefuly blame my Hot Boy Friday), but I'm not going to let that stop me from posting a gratuitous image of the why-do-you-have-to-be-so-delicious Daniel Craig, and point you to a few handpicked, tasteful boy-licious galleries. My top pick is Gabriel […]
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Pink Dildo Nation And The Groovy Missile: checking out Hannah’s Honeypot(s)

18 June 2009
Image from Beneath Three Hair Colors. I just sort of needed a porn break today. A break that is all about porn. I am tired of all these posts full of thoughts. Too much thinking. And I'm trying to make peace with my inner blonde, or an outer blonde if I […]
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this week’s Chron column: asking Hunch about sex

18 June 2009
This week I had a little naughty fun with the new startup Hunch. In addition to asking the surprisingly intuitive service about sex (and have it be a scary non-intuitive experience), I asked it if I was gay -- and boy, were the results hilarious. There is no bisexual orientation. […]
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how SF Weekly / Matt Smith harmed a source (sex, journalists, and trust, part bazillion)

18 June 2009
Image of Darenzia and Mz Berlin by Christine Kessler (photographer: cover of my book Best Women's Erotica 2009). As some of you may remember a couple weeks ago, I wrote SF Weekly's Matt Smith Screws Kink.com: Unfair, Unbalanced, Malfeasant Journalism. In it, I detailed how Smith acted irresponsibly to get a […]
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“Tie Me Up” by Dirty Stop Out and Agent Provocateur

18 June 2009
Today Agent Provocateur announced their "Tie Me Up" contest featuring Dirty Stop Out's video of the same name, and as you can see above, it's incredibly hot. Took me a minute to find the video in an embeddable version; if I could tell AP anything besides how much I want […]
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the incredible art of Fernando Vicente

17 June 2009
Visit Fernando Vicente's website (and see his gorgeous pin-ups), but do not miss his fabulous blog where these images live -- plus a lot more. Wow. (via a long link trail, started by Praemedia)
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searching

17 June 2009
I took this self-portrait last night with my old Virgin/Helio Ocean. But I was just made an offer I can't refuse by Nokia, backed by Qik. Time to go all the way with Nokia? I do love my (sponsored) N-95 8G. Let me know what you think... I take my […]
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your morning porn greeting

17 June 2009
Image from this gallery of images and videos. It's one hell of a hot scene and features some truly amazing women (yay Lorelei!) This three-girl BDSM scene is fresh on the site, and is just too good to come across my radar and not share with you: be warned, it's quite […]
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madison young’s site relaunch: extra yum

16 June 2009
Image of Kimberly Kane by Zak Smith, who is featured on Madison's front page for a solo scene. Today Madison Young announced the redesign and relaunch of her website Madison Bound: Your Kinky Girl Next Door. I took a look around and it's not your average porn paysite, or one-girl site […]
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let Honey and Bunny show you how to “spank the MP”

16 June 2009
Spank the MP. Has a nice ring to it, don't you think? Don't choke the poor chicken anymore; at least that's what Coco de Mer's Sam Roddick is telling me this morning in my inbox. She writes, At Coco de Mer we not only make it our mission to bring you […]
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Abby Winters Raided, Arrests Made

16 June 2009
Five hours ago, the offices of AbbyWinters.com were raided and the owner arrested. POLICE raided a Melbourne porn business that makes up to $10 million a year from allegedly illegal activities. Detectives raided five premises as part of Operation Refuge, seizing computers containing footage of women allegedly performing explicit sex […]
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