about those girls who wear glasses [video]

19 July 2009
Image from this very explicit Sex and Submission gallery. I just wanted to point out a notable post over at Fleshbot featuring girls who wear glasses demonstrating their oral skills on gentlemen who make passes at them. I take my responsibilities to you seriously, dear reader (viewer/listener), to direct you to […]
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upscale sex parties: masked ball in UK estate from littlesins (and plans for more)

19 July 2009
Image by Daan Pluijms for Littlesins. The sex party enterprise Littlesins is a European-based business (parties in Rotterdam, etc.). But lately they've been making waves with their elaborate, private, exclusive and very expensive parties in the UK. A quick Flickr search brings up all kinds of very juicy looking event photos, […]
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scary sex toys part… um, where were we at?

19 July 2009
Image of The Anthro Dragoness by Bad Dragon. "The scent of a heavily aroused dragon, his warm breath, and lusting growl have always been part of our fantasies. Now his rough netherscales and arching member have become reality." Yes, dragon sex has finally become a reality -- we can all relax knowing […]
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purity ring chaser: tatum reed

17 July 2009
The best response to the Purity Ring iPhone app has been on my Facebook page: "If I install that, does it mean I'm pledging not to fuck my iPhone? Because, honestly, I don't think I can make that pledge." However, I think we need a very explicit chaser, and that […]
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purity ring (abstinence) iPhone app

17 July 2009
What you see in the image is a screenshot of the Purity Ring iPhone app, where one -- were one so inclined to pledge one's life to abstinence and chastity -- can download and take the pledge, wearing their ring on their iPhone. Where it really means something, along with […]
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gratuitous porn post

17 July 2009
Image from this Whipped Ass gallery. With the last post and the post that's coming up next, I have to sandwich a little of the real stuff in between. I've been peeping new galleries and have a bunch of *very* explicit faves in tabs clogging up my browser -- it's time […]
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air nude zealand practices safe PSA’s

17 July 2009
It's highly likely you already saw this because it made the blogrounds last week -- but in case you missed it, body painted Air New Zealand staff starred in their "Bare Essentials of Safety video" created for their Domestic 737 services (seen @ Sex and Blogs + Laughing Squid). Also […]
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Chron column: Marquis fetish ball comes back to SF

16 July 2009
Image of Jade Vixen and Sandy by Christine Kessler. In this week's SF Chronicle column I have an exclusive interview with legendary Marquis Magazine's Erik von Gutenberg, plus a gallery. Known for heavy rubber, beautiful models and extreme couture, it's going to be one hell of an event: this Saturday, Marquis […]
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presents!

15 July 2009
I love presents. Sometimes artists or companies send me gifts to say thank you, or we like you, or I think you'll like this. Sometimes I get sent stuff in hopes that I'll write or blog about it, and I usually ignore those. But the gifts I just got from […]
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just launched: QueerPINK

15 July 2009
Above is the second episode of QueerPINK, from the hot queer porn makers and performers of The Crash Pad Series and Pink & White Productions. It's a video blog -- more of a reality show, actually -- about queer women working in the mainstream and indies porn industry. I […]
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Reason magazine: does porn make society better?

15 July 2009
Image of Morgan Mae and friend from this explicit gallery. Though provoking, edgy and controversial is what I'm calling Peter Suderman article for Reason Magazine, Does Porn Make Society Better? It's about time we start looking at these questions head-on, but I object to the argument's basis: conflation, or rather comparing […]
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revealed: the (sex) writer’s tech arsenal

14 July 2009
I'm excited to tell you that I've joined Jonathan Coulton, Gina Trapani, Alex Payne and more uber-geeks in The Setup -- a tell-all about our personal hardware and software habits and tools, and our dream setups. Here's a snip from mine: Who are you and what do you do? I'm an author, […]
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yeah, I shop American Apparel’s website for the *clothing*

14 July 2009
Actually, I don't buy much American Apparel unless it's got some counterculture art on it from friends/street artists. But I like to think of AmerApp like Playboy, whwew if I did spend some time on the website pretending to shop, I'd be... pretending to shop while ogling the mostly nekkid […]
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sex ed in the UK: actually about sex

14 July 2009
Image of my pal Katie West two days ago at the Salton Sea. We remain hopeful, but we know the state of sex ed in America is a flattened, empty deserted war zone of sexlessness. It's been lain to waste by ideological forces who promote abstinence with government funding versus information […]
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like father, like son, like — yikes

13 July 2009
Image of the O'Farrell Theater as it looks now, by neuraln0ise. People who know American porn history are likely familiar with the story of the Mitchell brothers: they directed Behind The Green Door, ran the legendary strip club the O'Farrell Theater (here in San Francisco, once managed by Hunter S. Thompson), […]
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exclusive: preview of Eon McKai’s “Content”

10 July 2009
"Madison Young was excited to be in one of my films. Until she found out it was just content." That quote sums up the detachment that happens when authenticity meets the porn formula, captured eloquently in the message underlying my dear friend Eon McKai's new film Content […]
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a day in the life: sex crisis hotline counselors in this week’s Chron column

9 July 2009
Self-portrait. In this week's SF Chronicle column, I describe a day observing counselors for a sexual health crisis hotline/front line volunteer service here in San Francisco. Yes, like SFSI. Here's a snip: I'm on my way to visit the offices of a locally-based, national sex crisis hotline; to get there, I decide […]
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the porn industry blames the Internet…

9 July 2009
Image by elaisted. In the short NYT piece Lights, Camera, Lots of Action. Forget the Script. they discuss the gradual demise of scripted porn movies and the increase of all-action porn. In the article they talk to Steven Hirsch at Vivid, who blames the short attention span of Internet porn consumers. […]
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why Japanese phone porn will rule the world

8 July 2009
Image by Osada Steve. I read this Bloomberg article with great interest: it's full of all kinds of interesting tidbits. For instance, the numbers on porn consumption and production in Japan. Compare them to American stats, and we look way, way less pornified than they do. Because if the self-disclosed (and […]
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cropped and highly entertaining

8 July 2009
It's another damn Tumblr blog, so I'm almost positive the images on 69 are all stolen and not credited*. But they're cropped cleverly, very explicit and quite hot, overall. Please accept this and the next few posts as slightly higher-minded apologies for the last video I made you watch... (thanks, […]
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