this week’s SF Chronicle column: sperm facials in high-end NYC salons

19 August 2009
Image by the amazing Stuntkid. In this week's column, I explore the (not so) brave new world of New York spa delivered "sperm facials." It's called The Skinny on Spermine: Not Exactly Snake Oil - Violet Blue: Straight guys getting sperm facials "for science." It's a wrong, wrong, wrong comedy of […]
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Mistress Deanna’s big pepper

19 August 2009
Image by Curtis Joe Walker. Today many things happened. I launched vb.ly (more on that in a minute). I got an angry letter -- really a signed letter sent via an assistant's email -- from the owner of Good Vibrations telling me all the ways I am wrong. And a dear […]
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pretty girl — wednesday

19 August 2009
Image of Iga from this user-created gallery. I usually do a "pretty girl friday" but I've got so many free galleries of remarkably pretty girls in my inbox, I've just got to share. I go through galleries and sift out the ones I like the most on a regular basis; the […]
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not that we really care, but…

18 August 2009
I'm sitting here debating what sex act(s) Lady GaGa is simulating in her new wanna-be fetish/Goth photo shoot (thesun.co.uk/bizarre/usa, the pic above, specifically). Anyone? It's subtle. Well, as subtle as Lady GaGa hirself...
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porn workplace safety

18 August 2009
Image by Richard Kadrey / Kaos Beauty Klinik. Don't miss: the fantastic, fascinating and chilling piece about porn workplace safety "The Unabashed Queer’s Cut: Workplace Safety for Porn Actors" written by Matt Siegel at The Advocate The Unabashed Queer*. I highly recommend that you take the time to read it. The […]
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Courtney Touble’s “Nostalgia” Now on Sale

18 August 2009
Courtney Trouble emailed me yesterday with the hot, exclusive images in this post and a message saying that her film "Nostalgia" is now on sale. Congratulations, Trouble! It's still a funny feeling to look at these pics and see my own apartment in many of them... It's almost like waking […]
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is it still morning? also: erotica museum, Barcelona

18 August 2009
Image by netik. I feel like I'm still just waking up. And I'm having a moment of writer's block, so you're stuck with me being unfocused in a wonderful variety of media distribution formats. It is, as a friend just messaged me, like "being caught in a pornado." From a close friend: […]
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broken condom… ROFL?

17 August 2009
A broken condom is never a reason to ROFL. Unless you're the Molecular and Cell Biology graduate students at UC Berkeley who dictate the gratuitous ROFL-age at NCBI ROFL. Their recent post Those are the [condom] breaks highlights the "laboratory coital model" used to test condom breakage in a PubMed.gov […]
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Phil Bronstein on Good Vibrations: not for women anymore?

17 August 2009
Image of the stunning Fetish Jade (Jade Paris). My dear friend Phil Bronstein has a piece in the print edition of today's SF Chronicle about the politics behind the 2007 sale of Good Vibrations. Didn't know they were sold? I'm not surprised; the sale of a hip women-owned sex toy store […]
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Pretty Girls: The Girl-on-Girl, Ranty Edition

16 August 2009
Image from this gallery of Christiana and Yanna. A week ago I wanted to link you to a certain Fleshbot post of amateur girl-girl strap-on videos, but I had seriously mixed feelings about the tone of the post and the way it's written -- it's weird. The writer seems apologetic about […]
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girls in charge, boys in trouble

15 August 2009
I just got my hands on several free galleries (with great video teasers) depicting CFNM -- clothed female, naked male. CFNM is sold online as a fetish but it's more of a fantasy -- it's hardly one of those far-flung fetishes (like, say, agalmatophilia which is also pretty fun). And […]
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adult-only social networks

15 August 2009
When cleaning up my site pages, I saw that on of the old links had been hijacked with a redirect to Rudespace. Sure, the people who'd previously owned the site had packed up shop so it's all business, right? Anyway, I think we're going to see more and more Online […]
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Vogue’s European Fall breastacularity

14 August 2009
I am thrilled to report that the fashion forecast for Fall according to Vogue Italy and Vogue Nippon (via Fashion Time) is easy on the fashion and really barely half dressed for the season, if at all. Above is Edita Vilkeviciute in Vogue Nippon September 2009 showing us the must-have, […]
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SF Chronicle: suffer the children

12 August 2009
This week's column is Suffer the Children: Violet Blue: The iPhone Sex Offender locator: considered harmful. The comments are making me cry. Please click through to get all the links. Here's a snip: On the California Megan's Law Web site, which maintains a publicly accessible database on our state's registered sex […]
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guys with iPhones

12 August 2009
For hot boy Thursday it gets no simpler, or more fun than the amateur erotic self-portraits to be found on Guys With iPhones. (thanks, BefWithAnF!)
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Peter Saville’s soft furnishings

12 August 2009
For the July issue of Wallpaper Magazine, SHOWstudio published their own gallery -- and multiple videos -- of the final Soft Furnishings editorial devised by Nick Knight and Peter Saville. Above is a sample: the three-minute 'Making Of' short with plenty of saucy peeks at the nekkid action behind […]
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HIV blocking gel makes a breakthrough

12 August 2009
Self-portrait with my dreamy Nokia N97 (a sponsor). Development for an HIV blocking gel (the "liquid condom") for women to use when they are not "empowered" to exercise consent -- such as in some African cultures -- has been underway since 2006. I'd thought that avenue of research had been abandoned, […]
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hot design: more from James Piatt

12 August 2009
I got an email a few days ago from deliriously gifted designer James Piatt about his newest item, a very creepy purse called the Foundling. I've blogged in the past about his stunning brass knuckle handbags, the uber-hot Persuader purse (above -- WANT) and my favorite: The Pillory Dinette. A […]
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Coco de Mer’s delicious witching hour

12 August 2009
Take the time to watch the above video from Coco de Mer's recent (London) Camden Council protest, which was live at midnight in their shop windows. Shot on the scene, it's unerringly arousing, tasteful and erotic -- the woman in white is especially riveting. I wanted to go to this […]
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my fetish: The Economist

12 August 2009
Illustration by Noma Barr for The Economist. First, I must please ask all of you to never *ever* tell The Economist about goatse. Next, when you get a chance, do not miss their incredible article Sex laws: Unjust and ineffective (thanks, KuraFire). Before giving you a snip and letting the piece unwind […]
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