reading tonight: In Bed, A Night at Supperclub

15 October 2009
Tonight for San Francisco's premiere literary festival, I've had the honor of being invited to read along with Stephen Elliott, Rachel Kramer Bussel (here from New York), Carol Queen and others. From beds, in lingerie. I wonder what Stephen will wear... Anyway, afterward there will be a spanking booth for […]
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the real sexbombs of the Mad Men era

13 October 2009
AMC's dramatic series Mad Men is now in its third season here in the US, and despite my usual reluctance to dig the popular stuff without a critical eye, I'm definitely hooked. Tight writing, a clever and calculated balance of character- and narrative-driven storytelling, style/costuming/design choices that tell stories within […]
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Susan Sarandon’s daughter and Special Agent Mulder

12 October 2009
This is a scene from last night's Californication. David Duchovny, come back to us. Bring that INSANELY hot girl with you. San Francisco has enough Prosecco and stripper poles for all three of us. I'm a sex writer; leave LA do some research already. Screw that 'sex addict' cover story […]
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the sexiest camping photos you may ever see

12 October 2009
Never been the kind of girl to go camping -- love my dry clean only clothes, and does my hair ever look like it wants to "rough it" (in the wilderness, you dirty birds)? No. (It does look fabulous when fresh out of my motorcycle helmet, however.) Anyway, sweet sweet […]
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go Lorelei!

12 October 2009
We miss Lorelei Lee here in San Francisco like you wouldn't believe -- we were all excited for her move to NY for grad school (and some even benefited from her pre-move giveaways). But she left lots of love, friends and adoring fans here. Still, I'll never forget the first […]
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thank you for coming out

11 October 2009
Now that I've giggled and wiped tears from my cheeks after watching the above video, I strongly recommend that if you do anything unselfish today, or anything to contribute to National Coming Out Day -- watch the video. Even if you're out, or don't think you can do anything. This […]
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my facebook “fan page”

11 October 2009
I finally published my Facebook "fan page". It's at http://vbly.us/blue and/or facebook.com/violetblue if you want to see it. I'm thinking I'll put my upcoming events and appearances on the calendar there, and I'm considering some other fun original content... Stay tuned if you're into Faceplant :)
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HIV is literally a sex-work coin flip in South Africa

11 October 2009
Image by "wankerz". It took me a second while reading this article about potentially legalizing sex work in South Africa prior to next year's football [soccer] World Cup -- to realize that sex there with a pro is now a 50-50 gamble for contracting HIV/AIDS for the average customer. We're on […]
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three new books

9 October 2009
Image by Aphro (aka ASTROblaque). Actually, I've got four new books coming out in the next (OMG) four months. I'm even amazed at myself for how much work I've done this year: and I'm certain it's going to pay off. The upcoming titles are absolutely some of my best work, and […]
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the hot food porn podcast with linecook415!

9 October 2009
Image by Møan. A week ago tonight -- we're still recovering -- I was a guest on the linecook415 podcast with Hot Food Porn and dotBen. It was raunchy. It was goooood. We drank much maple bourbon and answered questions about what food you should never eat before sex, what we […]
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tonight in SF: Christine Kessler at Madame S

9 October 2009
Image: cover for Kessler's new/upcoming book Nylon Girls (available now in the UK). Being on the Femina Potens newsletter is well worth it; I'm still an ardent fan of talk lists as news sources and newsletters for orgs and certain people who do cool non-spammy stuff. (However, I get added nonconsensually […]
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sex crime dept: really unfortunate word choices

9 October 2009
Image of much-needed levity via elbasta. I've had this sex crime (bestiality) story open in one of my million tabs for a while, forgot about it, then went back today -- and saw why I didn't dump it immediately. When you get to 'milk' you'll understand what I mean and just […]
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Anna Span tells all about female ejaculation, girl porn and the BBFC

7 October 2009
Cover for the not yet released "Women Love Porn" - find the other titles from this fabulous series in VoD and DVD here (hotmovies4her.com). I've long been a fan of female UK porn director Anna Span. I love her fun Porn for women website. But what she did for the history […]
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Jimmyjane’s newest delights

7 October 2009
Today I got a very special gift: the newest Usual Suspects from Jimmyjane! I can't tell you how thrilled I am to have these gorgeous toys in my hot little hands for testing. So far, everything starts up like a charm -- and they're all really quiet. I especially love […]
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proving that everything is made in China

5 October 2009
Image by larrytroy. All your hymens are belong to CCP. Google/Associated Press: Egyptian lawmakers want to ban fake hymen CAIRO — Conservative Egyptian lawmakers have called for a ban on imports of a Chinese-made kit meant to help women fake their virginity and one scholar has even called for the "exile" of anyone […]
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pretty girls for saturday

3 October 2009
Image from Undressed (mi-undressed.com); more after the jump. Pretty girls make the weekend sweeter, I think. We'll start with my new discovery, French amateurs at Petites Parisiennes. French cuties for the weekend include Alizee, Cindy, Lou and her friends, and sweet Margot. You know how much I love member-compiled erotic galleries; they […]
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Ulorin Vex, and living in a bell jar of relentless hate

3 October 2009
This morning I woke up feeling like the mood in this shot of Ulorin Vex from her portfolio. I had yet another conversation with a respected news site editor about the awful comments SF Gate lets people leave on my column every week. I am depressed, tired and angry that […]
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stuff about me

2 October 2009
* Today's post on Laughing Squid was a lot of fun to write, and I'll admit to watching the video three times. And then three more times when dotBen came over. Here is The Social Media Guru. * I was quoted on the San Francisco Appeal about the SF Chronicle/SF Gate's […]
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Favorite New Pr0n Site: (French) Explicite Arte

2 October 2009
My last happy porny discovery was Juliland; this week I was delighted to discover the French explicit porn site Explicite Arte (paysite: but many free goodies here). The performers are having fun, we see a lot of safer sex, it's all well shot and for those looking to see very […]
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a photo for the time we live in

2 October 2009
Left to right: me, Fivestar, Madison Young, Margaret Cho.
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