San Francisco Magazine: Theresa Sparks, me and Margaret Cho

25 October 2009
Above is a quick snapshot of the picture in November's San Francisco Magazine of Theresa Sparks, myself and Margret Cho from the amazing article "The life and times of Theresa Sparks - A former oilman, CEO, police commissioner, and butt of Jay Leno’s jokes, the groundbreaking activist is now San […]
1 comment READ to YOUR HEART’S content →

Coco de Mer LA store window: “Fever”

25 October 2009
At the same time I was sent a pic of the Coco de Mer (USA: Los Angeles) "Fever" window display above, I found their Coco USA Flickr photostream. Hopefully they'll start posting event photos, and we'll see more happen with it... The window dressing is pretty hot, skipping right to […]
1 comment READ to YOUR HEART’S content →

a great moment for literacy in America: Naked Girls Reading

24 October 2009
As a writer and editor, there are many recent and current cultural forces I appreciate for making people read more, for the benefit of all. We all give it up for libraries (virtual and actual) and their necessary fantasy counterparts sexy librarians. Oprah's book club got housewives reading apocalyptic Cormac […]
6 comments READ to YOUR HEART’S content →

pretty girl friday, with benefits

23 October 2009
I try to do a 'pretty girl friday' post every week, but it doesn't always work out because I get so busy -- or I actually spend time away from the computer. Shocking, I know. Don't worry, everyone's sure it's just a phase. Yet I love doing these posts because […]
2 comments READ to YOUR HEART’S content →

kissing is totally worth the risk

23 October 2009
My friend Thomas Roche tweeted earlier today a very informative article on How Stuff Works called Can Too Much Kissing Damage Your Lips? The writer has a lot of interesting scientific facts about kissing in the piece; it's well researched and gets me excited for the release of my upcoming […]
READ to YOUR HEART’S content →

Rammstein box set (no pun intended)

23 October 2009
A number of blogs are (lightly, frighteningly) covering the upcoming release of German metal band Rammstein's deluxe box set for their new, er, releases. You'll remember when I recently posted their new music video "Pussy" which is not just the most graphic music video I've ever seen, but also truly […]
11 comments READ to YOUR HEART’S content →

to read, to do in SF: Shocktoberfest 2009

22 October 2009
Image by michaelca. In this week's Chron column, I did a full, glowing writeup of the incredible spectacle that is seeing a show by The Thrillpeddlers. I'm actually not a big theater fan, though I can't recommend this experience highly enough -- especially if you're visiting from out of town. You'll […]
READ to YOUR HEART’S content →

a shamelessly gothy moment

21 October 2009
I just discovered Gothic Charm School. I might be busy for a while. Her book "Gothic Charm School: An Essential Guide for Goths and Those Who Love Them" is fabulous; I bought a copy last night to get myself in the Halloween mood. Well, more than every other day of […]
READ to YOUR HEART’S content →

will lap dance for code (NOT)

19 October 2009
UPDATE 10.21.09: This image (and others in this post) were originally posted by cocakl with this Creative Commons license. Cockai has been emailed asking why they are no longer viewable. /UPDATE Apparently female strippers and lap dancers entertained the presumably (presumptively) male, straight attendees of Taiwan's Yahoo Open Hack Day (simonwillison.net). […]
5 comments READ to YOUR HEART’S content →

health care reform requires balls, apparently

19 October 2009
Silly and fun: the video looks like it was a blast to make -- friend Liam Kyle Sullivan -- known and loved by all as that betch Kelly -- has a new video underscoring the fact that in order for us to get health care reform in the US, someone's […]
1 comment READ to YOUR HEART’S content →

3D Kink – “second life for sex” – launches!

19 October 2009
Our local, yet internationally renowned, sex-positive BDSM powerhouse Kink today launched a project that they've been (ahem) slaving away on for a while now: 3D Kink. An online, community-run massive multiplayer online role-playing game, 3D Kink is a world where members can do and be pretty much anything they want. […]
13 comments READ to YOUR HEART’S content →

the sexy pumpkin carving contest: Babeland

19 October 2009
Image via Blue Blood's Gothic Sluts. I'll admit that I read the email a little too fast and though, hey, I can look sexy carving a pumpkin. But no, Babeland's "Sexy Jack-O-Lantern Contest" is to win gift bags worth $100, $50 and $25 (online or in person) worth of free sex […]
READ to YOUR HEART’S content →

rating male lovers by country

18 October 2009
Image by must-visit Mirabilia Images. Neither patriotism nor nationalism turn me on. But give me surveys that rate stamina and prowess of the male gender by country, toss out your "no country for uncut men" notions, and it's like giving me a bag of junk food. Not really what you should […]
7 comments READ to YOUR HEART’S content →

when all a girl wants is good porn

18 October 2009
Image by Industrial Grrl. A good friend just sent me this post, where a girl contextualizes a dilemma that is all too familiar: why is it so difficult for a girl to find good porn? For me it's not as difficult, and yes, your mileage may vary on how much you […]
1 comment READ to YOUR HEART’S content →

sneak previews from the Мишка 2010 calendar

18 October 2009
A longtime lurker on the Мишка blog, I enjoy the art, music and edgy urban culture from the Brooklyn, New York based store's multi-contributor endeavor. I love new discoveries and their blog always has something interesting; lately the gifted erotic photographer Ellen Stagg has been blogging a few outtakes from […]
READ to YOUR HEART’S content →

Tekken’s glossy-hot viral [video]

17 October 2009
This video is called "What Will You Fight For?" as a viral promo for the game Tekken 6 (whatwillyoufightfor.com): it's the second viral in the video series. The first viral vid they made is not as sexycool at the one I'm featuring above, but it's still visually pleasing.
READ to YOUR HEART’S content →

let’s flush the Daily Mail from the universe

16 October 2009
Image by 5733. The Daily Mail has officially pulled a Jay Leno on the (too early) death of Irish boy band star Stephen Gately. Remember when Leno had actor Ryan Philippe on his show, and because the actor once played a gay character on TV, Leno went homo-phobo-obsessed to get Philippe […]
7 comments READ to YOUR HEART’S content →

last night’s Litquake erotica reading

16 October 2009
Last night's reading at Supperclub for Litquake was fantastic! My segment was very racy and the above video was filmed from the audience -- pardon the shakiness in a couple spots. Hope you can hear and enjoy it! Everyone was fantastic and I hope to have more (and high quality) […]
4 comments READ to YOUR HEART’S content →

like the slick new design?

15 October 2009
Image of model Sophie King by Wolfgang Parker. Night before last, we were up until at least 3am giving Tiny Nibbles a fabulous makeover. Many new features have been added and more are on the way. This upgrade is posh inside and swanky outside; I'll be fluffing it up here and […]
27 comments READ to YOUR HEART’S content →

the “last word” on pro-life cupcakes

15 October 2009
Image by Justin Hyte. It's really exciting to see on Twitter that my column this week has been hailed by Clinic Escort as "the last word" on this topic and is being 're-tweeted' around the twitterverse. Neat. It might make you angry to red ad, but it's got levity, new stats […]
2 comments READ to YOUR HEART’S content →