Feminist Porn Awards announces 2010 nominations

5 March 2010
The Feminist Porn Awards has become a remarkable celebration of women and porn; they just emailed to let me know they've announced their 2010 nominations, and have an impressive stable of guests. Here are ten of the top noms: 1) 101 Positions for Lovers – […]
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did anyone else think the Olympics were dirtier than usual?

3 March 2010
I've had these in my tabs for a bit and just can't let them go to waste... Plus I get to say, 'and now for something completely different.' Above we have a lovely image from Bestweekever.tv's gallery of The 40 Most Sexual Photos From The Olympics, which we're all glad […]
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will the last one at SF Gate / San Francisco Chronicle please turn out the lights?

3 March 2010
Image of The Chronicle being printed in their now-closed plant. In 2006 I was tapped from the blogosphere to become San Francisco's sex columnist. I recently discovered that the SFGate (the online home of the San Francisco Chronicle) is copying my column archives and distorting them. After four weeks of asking […]
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local women-run porn makers Pink and White establish safer sex best practices

1 March 2010
Photo by my dear friend, Steve Diet Goedde. I've been wanting to see this happen for a very long time; at one point I even approached friends at Kink to crate a "best practices" based on their own spotless safer-sex guidelines and put them out for all to see (and hopefully […]
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sunday nibbles: chatroulette, Apple, KarmaPorn, Lady Gaga’s injured idol fetish

28 February 2010
Image: beautiful artwork by The Pearls (adriana munoz). Wherein I provide you with inarguable proof that there is no such thing as a "slow news week" for sexuality. This is just part of what's in my inbox, plus a bit of what I've encountered online. Cherrypick your clicks accordingly: * As a […]
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unintentional porn moment, plus sex and internet history

26 February 2010
Image from this gallery. I've been researching the history of sex and the internet to prepare for my NPR / All Things Considered interview (might go on the air tomorrow). I just got off the phone with the producer and had opened up my notes; I realized I did the entire […]
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topless sledding in Germany warms the…

25 February 2010
Right or wrong, I knew that once I saw the censored gallery on HuffPo of the second annual German topless sledding event, that if I waited a minute many uncensored photos would surface and I could give you the chilly nekkid Olympian-esque post that you deserve. What I did not […]
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this week in WANT

24 February 2010
Agent Provocateur's new "Whip me" stockings. Price: a wallet-dominating $70. Babeland's new Incoqnito Droplet Necklace (nipple clamp vibes). Price: what you'd expect from a high-end designer piece of jewelry-cum-sex toy. Lots. More gleeful nudity and sexual beauty. It's okay to want this, I think. Price: free. Image by FML Photography.
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I wish to see Terminator pornography

23 February 2010
And lo, the Internets deliver. By Matthias Weinberger, via my sweet friend Chris Pirillo.
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data fetish: sex, dating and age plus pre-marital sex

22 February 2010
We have two new reports especially for the sex nerds in the audience, so if data and stats get you all revved up don't touch that mouse. Many readers will find the OkTrends Blog post especially interesting, as it dishes on sexual activities by age and interest, while dropping tasty […]
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“Room In Rome” trailer, uncensored

21 February 2010
The director of controversial film "Sex and Lucia" has a new film that has all the lesbian (bisexual) drama you need to last until your little sister gets back from college in June. The uncensored version of Julio Medem’s "Room In Rome" trailer I found above, however, is […]
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this week in sexual hysteria: Apple loses it

20 February 2010
It's no secret that Apple doesn't allow adult content in its app store. And without writing too much about it here (I will be writing about it elsewhere), it's easy for those without iPhones to kind of shrug and go, hm, well, that's weird and prudish and out of step […]
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two hot minutes at the Von Gutenberg fetish ball

18 February 2010
Just sent to me by my pal Erik Von Gutenberg, reminding me that I have to stop missing these events. This was their San Francisco event in December, when I was off having a fairly miserable time in Europe. Le sigh. This year I'm staying close to home, and causing […]
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high praise for Moregasm

16 February 2010
When I first got my hands on a copy of Babeland's new book Moregasm I opened it with the usual skepticism and then became truly, deeply engrossed flipping through the tome to ogle the hot hot photos and soak up the gleefully fantastic sex information. It's a perfect sex guide. […]
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the “B” stands for bisexual

16 February 2010
Image by Yellow Bird. Right before I fell asleep last night I read this fantastic mini-essay on bisexuality, Bisexuals: putting the B back in LGBT. Understanding bisexuality is not as straightforward as being straight, and while understanding queerness of any stripe engenders compassion and tolerance, it's more commonly understood than bisexuality. […]
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New Pink Button’s Genital Cosmetic Colorant

16 February 2010
For once, I bow to the nice men at Details and let them say it all. I am too busy protectively covering my own Pink Button to be able to react right now in any way other than snarling and slashing at anyone who attempts to approach Button with a […]
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pretty girl Valentines

14 February 2010
Image of Gabriella from this gallery. Found myself at home today on a pretty Valentine's Day afternoon in San Francisco idly going through free galleries and admiring the sexy ones, so I thought it would be nice to share some pretty models with you. Which makes me wonder, how frequent would […]
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happy Valentine’s Day: two free erotic e-books and audio books!

14 February 2010
Update: Free window now closed! I hope everyone who wanted them got a chance. Now that I know how to do this, I'll do it again in the future. This inspires me to add more books! /Update I hope you're having a nice Valentine's Day! But just to make sure that you […]
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sex lexicon survey

14 February 2010
Image of Julia F from this Met Art gallery. A respected colleague of mine is conducting a survey right now and she needs people (especially men) to participate. It's online, free, confidential and really interesting. It's The Slexicon Project, formally called I Say, They Say, We Say: Sexual Lexicon Commonalities and […]
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Valentine’s Day exclusives: Cocksexual

13 February 2010
Image of Devi Lynne. I'm very, very excited to announce the launch of a dear friend's new girl-powered porn website: Cocksexual (cocksexual.com). Sexy geekstress Furry Girl has been plotting this one for a while, and she's done something really cool -- built an easy-on-the eyes porn site featuring women (and genderqueer […]
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