Learn How to Kiss: A Total Kissing Resource

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Want to learn how to kiss, but not sure where to start? This page is a complete resource for free guides and videos on kissing, from how to kiss for virgins to sexy kissing techniques, dealing with types of bad kissers (above), how to know if a kiss is welcome, how and when to give the first kiss and much more.

Start by watching this flirty trailer for kissing guidebook Seal it with a Kiss:

Kissing is intimate, playful, sexy, sometimes serious and sometimes innocent. A kiss can tell you a lot about the person you’re kissing. I’ve authored two books about kissing and how to kiss. The complete guide to kissing for all ages is Seal It With A Kiss: Tips, Tricks and Techniques to Deliver the Knockout Kiss (also: Kindle). Urban Outfitters calls it “the kissing Bible.” My e-book mini-guide is adults-only, and only available in digital and audio versions and it is called How to Kiss — it also includes explicit kissing erotica.

Types of Bad Kissers

Online tutorials

Kissing guides online are by no means complete (most of them are from people who don’t know how to explain things step-by-step), but are very helpful if you have no idea where to start. These could be called “life hacks” as they get to the point and provide no-frills instructions:

* WikiHow has a nice, simple step-by-step guide to romantic kissing, and platonic (non-romantic) kisses. They do not explain the context of these kisses. (wikihow.com)
* Instructables has a great, short how to kiss guide, with a very short video. As you can tell in the comments, it does not give instruction beyond the mechanics of a kiss. Also recommended is How to French Kiss and How to Make Out. (instructables.com)

More kissing tricks

Howcast made some great videos on kissing. Click the following links to watch the videos in a pop-up player; double click them to watch on YouTube:

* How to Get Someone to Kiss You
* How To Kiss With Passion
* How To Tell Your Boyfriend He’s a Bad Kisser
* How to be A Good Kisser
* How to Avoid A Kiss
* How to Get Rid of A Hickey

The first kiss can be scary

For first kiss beginners and make-out artists: more kissing guides

I wrote Seal It With A Kiss to fill in all the blanks, in every situation. Do your homework — it’s fun! — if you want to be a drop-dead unforgettable kisser in every situation, from here on out. Urban Outfitters calls Seal It With A Kiss “The kissing bible.” It has everything you need for deciding the context of kisses: from making the first moves to when kissing indicates sex, asking for a kiss without words, how to give the first kiss, dozens of kissing techniques and more. The reviews are overwhelmingly positive, and it has already been translated into Russian. Reviews include:

* How Not to Kiss Like a Zombie: Em and Lo, on The Sundance Channel website
* All Sex Reviews
* BookWenches

“Seal It With A Kiss” is in print and Kindle, and it is directed to a female audience. My mini-book “How to Kiss” is for all audiences. The How To Kiss Audio Book can be played on all audio devices and individual chapters can be shared with friends. The How To Kiss E-book can be read on any device from your phone to e-reader, to any computer or device with a web browser. It can be passed between devices and shared with no limits. There will never be a print edition.

Free how to kiss chapters

Everyone loves free stuff — especially me — so I’ve made available a free chapter from the How to Kiss audio book. In Chapter 4 I detail all the different types of kisses: the good, the bad, and the sometimes-scary. As you’ll hear by all the laughing, I had a lot of fun doing this podcast. The whole book is sexed-up: it also features two very explicit short erotica stories with plenty of oral action. Enjoy!

* Listen to the How to Kiss: Types of Kisses podcast in this pop-up audio player.

Images from fun webcomic Types of Bad Kissers.