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a walk on the wild side: nude in sf

20 June 2008
I love the crazy kids at Nude in SF! Today we're enduring sweltering heat (I was in a suit for court this afternoon and lemme tell ya it was SO not the beach), so this shot of Marie at the top of Lombard Street complete with tourists and cable car […]
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hot boy thursday galleries, yay!

19 June 2008
I'm extremely excited to feature galleries from For The Girls on this balmy Hot Boy Thursday! I think Brandon (above) is the cutest, but other good ones include smiling boy, Mr. Curve, and the happy cowboy. Yee-haw! Also, this Lusty Couples set has an attractive couple and is nicely focused […]
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crazy, squared

16 June 2008
First, Jonno tells me that the whole Lithium Picnic sued by Suicide Girls thing is now gosh-and-golly just a big misunderstanding and they're all "friends again". Then, Praemedia jars me out of my bewilderment to send me spinning into WTF land with the Ars Technica article announcing that Verizon is […]
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lazy sunday links, with cabernet

15 June 2008
Image of Allison Wonderland by the incredible Chad Michael Ward. The cabernet is next to me in my bedroom windowbox, overlooking the Castro. In the apartment I amazingly found on Craigslist -- the famed Blogger Bungalow -- I can actually see the rainbow flag at the corner of Market and Castro […]
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and we should all be shocked that judges are not celibate priests

11 June 2008
Image via digatone. Moo. Snip from 9th Circuit's chief judge posted sexually explicit materials on his website (fyi, Kozinski was appointed by Reagan but is a huge free speech advocate, and only people who knew the subdirectory could see his over-18 stash about which which he remarked, "People send me stuff […]
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caught with my panties down

10 June 2008
Oh my! I just saw myself in a "guess whose panties" contest over at Trollop With A Laptop! And what a coincidence, it's on the same day I get my hands on the author/blogger/editor's own, almost-released, very hot-looking Open For Business: Tales of Office Sex. ::blush::
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friday nibbles

6 June 2008
Image of Justine Joli by Consensual Media. I'm thinking next week I should do this in a video version. What do you think? Fake newscaster, real sex news? I might just go for it... Here are your nibbles, enjoy! * Who isn't a fan of Andrew Blake? I may not have been […]
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fuck shopping

4 June 2008
Or, shop fucking. This is the insane new fashion photo campaign for designer Tom Ford (by Terry Richardson). I think I licked the monitor at least once. So nice to see lots of naked men for a change, too. Site is Flash: go to About<Gallery<SS08 and Beauty<Gallery for the fun […]
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great moments in fake sex news

3 June 2008
Retro image via Ben Pearce. Over the years The Onion has served up some of my favorite sex reporting. Let's hope they can keep it up. Because there's a hell of a lot of fake sex news out there, and most of it isn't trying to be funny. Here are my […]
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twitter from the block

3 June 2008
I'm having fun playing with Twoorl and Plurk. It's almost like every social networking site has an affected gang name. Just sayin'. I'm not sure what they're useful for yet... ;) (post title reference)
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o hai from richard kadrey

2 June 2008
Richard Kadrey is one of those people whose name is well-known around San Francisco's underground sex and writing circles, and whenever I run into him at parties we have great, laughing conversations. He's wry and darkly humorous, and I consider him a colleague -- and now a Flickr friend. His […]
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this weekend: cupcake camp!

30 May 2008
They say it's for cupcake lovers -- but I'll just go ahead and say it's for lovers, period: this sunday here in San Francisco my very close friend Ariel Waldman is the buttercream-alicious driving force behind Cupcake Camp, at Citizen Space from 2-6 pm. Tonight she told me they're going […]
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beers with me, the interview

30 May 2008
Photo by Justin Juul for the San Francisco Bay Guardian. Recently I drank beer in Dolores Park with the San Francisco Bay Guardian, and they interviewed me -- it was a really great time and the weather was perfect. The interview came out terrific and surprising; they asked me about my […]
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congratulations, mom!

30 May 2008
Along with Cyndi Lauper and Charo, my [adopted] mom -- Theresa Sparks -- has been named Grand Marshal of the San Francisco Pride parade 2008! Yay! Last year I rode in the car with her, but this year's going to rock!
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the stickiest links of the week

30 May 2008
Image Devil Girl with Angel Wings by friend Demetrius Gonzalez. As the week comes to a close, I've been sweating out a book deadline: Best Women's Erotica 2009 to be precise. I received hundreds, literally hundreds of stories as hopefuls, I can only pick around 20, and the submissions are […]
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tristan taormino’s guide to open relationships

28 May 2008
Image by Cyan Del Mar. In this week's SF Chronicle column, I interview Tristan Taormino about her new book Opening Up, and the resulting piece Open Relationships, Demystified is quite revealing. I'm really a n00b about open relationships and tend to be monogamous-yet-always-questioning, so my queries are not from a place […]
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now do as you’re told and buy the mistress a birthday present

28 May 2008
I love, love, love San Francisco's Mistress Morgana. No discipline is needed for that statement (though from her it is always desired). I've been reminded that her birthday is coming up sometime near the weekend, and today she expressed her birthday wish: marriage for all. So if you want to […]
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always consider the right-leaning, fallacious source

28 May 2008
Image by gecko.juice. I've been attacked, criticized, parodied and trolled quite a bit over the past year. Every time, I remember my close friend Lori's advice, from her mom: always consider the source. Which is why considering a recent blog post attack on sex work in San Francisco by Ben Wachs […]
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slate’s girls night at the firing range

27 May 2008
Image by Helmut Newton. The video embedded below was on the front page of Slate yesterday and now it's impossible to find -- luckily I coped the embed code for Girls' Night Out At The Firing Range because it's really an enjoyable video. Host and writer Samantha Henig is a gun […]
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how to blow up your genitals

27 May 2008
Apparently, it is as easy as dropping a lit match on your bits after you have slathered them in silicone based lube. Reader Patrick sends me the links to Ask Garnet's short and firey lit-match-to-lube experiment. Don't worry, in the video the lube is a safe distance from any dangly […]
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