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she blinded me with science

1 August 2008
Image by sev0r; check out her back. I've always thought of bodypainting as that horrible thing they did in 1990s porn when they wanted to make "fantasy" or alien or jungle scenes and then the sex would start and all the makeup would get all gross in places you never ever […]
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dc circuit rules that sexual relations constitutes a “major life activity”

1 August 2008
Image via macwagen. Mind you, that's "sexual relations" and not just "reproduction" as affirming sexuality as a human right. I'd like to hear more from my legal contacts on this one, but it seems to me like a big step in the right direction. Dear friend and colleague Cory Silverberg writes, For […]
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psa post: first of a lovingly irregular series

31 July 2008
I'm continually being made aware of sex resources and good/urgent sexuality causes that need attention, so I'm starting an irregular (because that's apparently how I roll) feature, the Public Service Announcement post. Here are your three today: * Kink Aware Professionals -- a resource for finding psychotherapeutic, medical, and legal professionals […]
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china’s Olympic-sized sex and gender problems

31 July 2008
Image via sumimazen1973. I actually had this much sexier 'unbearable lightness of being Chinese' Tao Li Jing photo to go with this post about my SF Chronicle column (on SF Gate), but given that the original way female "gender suspects" were rounded up and examined in 1968, this image seemed more […]
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homegirl makes good! SF Bay Guardian’s best of the bay 2008 = me!

30 July 2008
I'll admit I Flickr'd it before posting the brag-gasm here (spank as you please), but here's my ecstatic comment, "they called me "beloved"! it was quite a surprise, even the photog couldn't tell me what it was for. I just went for it and hoped for the best... (in print […]
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oakland teen draws fire at NPR for saying straight teen barebacking is the ‘new engagement ring’

30 July 2008
Image of a different kind of bare back by spiritus.molenuex. Last thursday on NPR an Oakland (CA) teen talked about what's up with his generation's take on sex and condoms(MP3 link, three minute segment), saying that when a teen couple decides to go bareback -- condomless -- it is the serious […]
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naked winery looks tasty

28 July 2008
Image by the brilliant Rudi Mentaer, whose site is here and blog is here. Superb marketing: Babeland's thursday New York event includes wine by family-run West coast winemakers Naked Winery, producers of Dominatrix Pinot Noir, Missionary Cabernet Sauvignon, Naked Merlot, Climax Chardonnay, Bareback Chardonnay and a very Dirty Dozen mixed case. […]
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using browser history to calculate gender

28 July 2008
Vivian, shot by by that Kadrey miscreant. Fleshbot makes you a guy. Gizmodo = twice as likely to be a guy. More women read Engadget than the Giz, though. BB is a sausage-fest, but I blame the mods. YouTube rates as gender neutral (HUH!?), while Apple is for the femmes. Okay, […]
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a moment of brag: “Obama should ‘end war’ on sex education”

28 July 2008
Today I had the uberly dorkily giddy thrill of being (re)published on the very prestigious RH Reality Check website with my piece Obama or McCain's National Sex Ed Program -- and the editor asked me to be a contributor, bestowing me with a blog! I was featured on the front […]
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electronics hacking, girl-style

19 July 2008
Image via phheww. This is actually a non-sex post, so feel free to skip right over it. However, it's about a lot of things in my life -- it's guerrilla vlogging, it's made by two people who are personal family, and it's seriously badass when it comes to tutorials. Watch and […]
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friends with benefits: investment chart

14 July 2008
Found at Sexoteric via Boinkology.
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girlfriend is better: open call for interviews

14 July 2008
This will be the first in a series of an open call for interviews for a nonfiction project I'm working on about love, sex and technology. For this first set of interviews, I'll be email interviewing a handful of people from all genders and sexual orientations about sexual relationships they're […]
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sleeping around craigslist

13 July 2008
Image by Claudette Psico. I've really enjoyed imagining the routines of the Chilean exotic dancer who was just arrested for pole dancing on the subway (thanks, Amy!); unfortunately her playful cultural contribution to the dull commute of strangers was not well received by authorities. But I loved that she was essentially […]
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the accretion of little things

11 July 2008
Image via violetbluevioletblue.net Walking into a Castro business today, the guy behind the counter saw me and called out, "Hey! I thought you were unpublished!" I grinned and replied, "Hey, don't make me unsmile." Later, at my publisher's office, I got a big butch hug. "You know you can't have a dyke romance […]
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a very strange auto erotic death?

10 July 2008
Just stumbled across this news item in the Sydney Morning Herald (popup warining), snip: (...) Senior Constable Davis said towels, cushions and pillows, a foot spa and construction hat appeared to have been deliberately placed over Ms Germain's body. "It didn't look like she had pulled it on top of her. […]
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hot boy thursday

10 July 2008
I think this week's hot boys are extra hot -- pulling direct from the sexiest boys I've seen on Fleshbot in a while, first I bring you Fleshbot's exclusive PREF Mag gallery. I have a well-thumbed (hey!) copy of this gay French glossy in my house at all times, and […]
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cinekink: the thinking person’s traveling erotic film fest

9 July 2008
Image of Madison Young, whose Writers and Rockstars might just be the belle of the festival; this image is from her last film Undone, via her Tied4Sex site. I'm so very excited that CineKink is this weekend here in San Francisco -- and the refined, indy, edgy traveling eroto-porn film fest […]
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guardian uk on bdsm: note – “Sir Guy” is not knighted

9 July 2008
Image by addictedimage. Indeed. Reporting on the wake of a scandal, today Guardian UK endeavors to cover both Max Mosley's lawsuit over News of the World running a video of him in a military BDSM scenario and the topic of BDSM itself. They do both a bit ham-handedly, but the resulting […]
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I’m on playboy’s list of sexiest bloggers!

9 July 2008
Photo by Pauline and Pauline. I love that they used the word "canoodling" even if the context is meta-ironic. Peep Playboy's list of the Hottest Female Bloggers and vote... I see my friend Veronica Belmont is on there with me (yay!), and since I named her sexy geek #1 in my […]
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3d fetish photography by charles mons

8 July 2008
This is the first time I've ever wished I had a pair of 3D glasses in my laptop bag. Finding the goldmine of beautiful fetish photography on Charles Mons' website was one thing, but seeing that he'd made galleries of them into 3D images was another. Very cool, extremely sexy. […]
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