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the conflicted existence of a female porn writer

27 November 2009
Image via limbic. After finding this essay on McSweeney's, I've had it in the lineup waiting to share it with you. Funny, interesting, well written, and all too familiar... Here's a snip from the middle of The Conflicted Existence of a Female Porn Writer by Lynsey G.: (...) After a few months […]
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real, honest female orgasm advice

27 November 2009
When out at lunch with a friend recently, she asked for some serious sexual advice for her friend. Her friend, it turns out (and really, it was her friend, not herself) -- her friend is a 22 year old woman who has never had an orgasm. Miss 22, she found […]
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hot boy thursday: thankful for East Village Boys

26 November 2009
Hot Boy Thursday is irregular in updates, but always brings you quality hotness. This HBT is brought to us by East Village Boys (via Love and Let Love, apocalips.tumblr.com), featuring one of their previous boys of the week Matthew, from Brooklyn photographed by Nodeth Vang. Visit the site for much […]
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thankful for every imperfection

26 November 2009
Image by the delightful photographer, Many rivers to cross. Reading over the latest news about cosmetic vaginal surgery on the increase in the UK, I kept thinking about last Saturday when I was at the Femina Potens gallery. I remembered the final scene of the night's performances, where beautiful model Madison […]
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is Twilight a gateway drug for objectifying men?

25 November 2009
Image by UrbanPhotographer2007. I just couldn't resist the title after the last post. Here's an interesting post about looking at men as mere sex objects for our consumption, based around the growing obsession with Twilight's Robert Pattinson. It's a pretty heteronormative view, but try it on as a reflection of what's […]
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female sexual desires and male misplaced chivalry

25 November 2009
The question I posed: An email is making me wonder -- are men more disturbed by certain sexual fantasy situations than women out of a misplaced sense of chivalry? Last week I got an email from friends (a couple) who run a fetish website that is about fantasies involving female submission in […]
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do not forget: the rules of prime time homo hypocrisy

25 November 2009
Who knew anyone could make American Idol culturally relevant? Even my (very) straight male friends have been sending these news items in disbelief, like: > "They just can't believe the nature of the content, the explicit nature, and how much graphic content there was." (BBC News: Adam Lambert's gay kiss on stage […]
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do not forget: the rules of doppleganger sex

25 November 2009
Since we're ready for a season of sequels and plotlines that jump the shark (such as doppelgangers and evil clones/twins), it makes sense to remind you all of the rules surrounding doppleganger sex. (via sex is not the enemy; originally in this awful and hilarious Something Awful Photoshop contest chock […]
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pure adorable, pure pleasure, pure design pr0n: Jimmyjane’s new Form 2 video

23 November 2009
My pals at Jimmyjane *just* sent me their new video for the Form 2 (made with designer Yves Béhar)-- the high-end designer vibe that everyone wants. The video is utterly adorable and shows you why it's such a hot item (and it'll make you smile, I promise, even if you […]
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fashion and lullabyes: Plato’s Atlantis by Alexander McQueen

23 November 2009
Slow and moody but very sexy: here is designer Alexander McQueen's video for the Spring Summer 2010 line, "Plato's Atlantis Part 1." (via ponyXpress)
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the Art of Restraint through my Android’s simulated voyeurcam

23 November 2009
Last saturday I had the opportunity to attend this season's Art of Restraint at feminist art gallery Femina Potens, where the theme was gratitude. For those of you outside the US, that was a nod at Thanksgiving, our contrived holiday about giving thanks for a mythological event having to do […]
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internet vices, hold the sex

23 November 2009
This spot-on list of Internet vices (patrickmoberg.com) contains zero sex, which is actually one of the reasons it's notable. Because while everyone makes hysterical noise about the dangers of sex on the Internet (in all its guises), the places where we most lose our virtue are indeed in the back […]
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adult retro sci-fi bookcovers suggest interplanetary muppet sexual abuse

21 November 2009
i09 post Cheesiest And Most Inappropriate Book Covers Of All Time (io9.com) has all kinds of hilarious retro eroto eye candy, and a whole smattering of probably offensive old covers in the "inappropriate" section. I just really liked the sexy ones; any babe with blue skin and four breasts is […]
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from Penny Flame to Becoming Jennie: on her own terms

19 November 2009
Photo taken when I met Penny Flame - Jennie Ketcham - at the InterContinental Hotel downtown SF. L to R: Jennie, Tristan Taormino, Sinnamon Love, Adrianna Nicole. This week's SF Chronicle column came from a conversation I had on the set of Courtney Trouble's next film, where I chatted about […]
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Kate Moss “Parisienne” vs. Lucy Lawless “Bitch Slap”

18 November 2009
This is probably not a fair fight. That said, here is Kate Moss in Yves Saint Laurent's "Parisienne" ad, wherein I imagine myself to be just like this in Paris next month for my LeWeb talk, but after eating some lasagna: Next, we have the trailer for upcoming film "Bitch Slap" (Jan. […]
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featured posts: hot, popular, commented, shared

16 November 2009
Image by Marc Lagrange via sweet Gala Darling. Some posts here get a lot of attention: these are the most commented on, shared, popular, controversial and highest-read blog posts recently here on Tiny Nibbles: open source sex. And the comment community here is fantastic, vast and diverse -- so if you're […]
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Best Women’s Erotica 2010: tune in, turn on

16 November 2009
Image by Laretta Houston; follow her on Twitter. It's here! Lush, gorgeous, arousing: Best Women's Erotica 2010 (also: UK)! I couldn't resist doing not one but two podcasts reading from the book to celebrate its release -- and give you a taste of a book I am uniquely proud of. It's […]
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filthy gorgeous things: the Euphoria issue

16 November 2009
The new issue of stunningly erotic webzine Filthy Gorgeous Things is out, and the theme is Euphoria. It's my favorite online intellectual-explicit erotic magazine, and while a subscription is expensive, the freebees are fantastic. Take for example Chelsea G. Summers' The Gift of Euphoria (and wow, click through to look […]
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female sex drive drug to hit US markets

16 November 2009
Image "Heat" by Urban Photographer. It was a dark (and pathetically lame) day when Pfizer gave up on the "female Viagra" -- because according to them, some of us are too complicated to merit continuing research. Even though Viagra itself works on the same erectile tissues that function during arousal in […]
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a closer look at adult Super Dollfies

16 November 2009
Image of Ryomou Shimei, a Dollfie Dreams character, by Danny Choo. Last week over at the La Weekly blogs, there was a post by Liz Ohanesian about discovering Super Dollfies at the Pacific Media Expo. If you're at all familiar with the world of Japanese adult collectibles, like our pal Danny […]
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