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all things bonked

13 June 2008
Image: "Wicked Women" by Psychedelic*Panda. For those of us digital brats who need to be reminded that a "library" is where they keep all the books, radio is something we happily left behind the minute we figured out what files we could lube up and cram down an RSS feed. Yet […]
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pretty girl friday

13 June 2008
An assortment of free galleries -- don't buy anything, just have a sexy friday, on me. I get these for free and so should you! This week I liked Sandra F by Luca Helios, Dana A and Olya O by Vronin, Helen E by Rylsky; I thought Jennipher's shoot wasn't […]
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lovely lovely coco club

12 June 2008
Today, high-end sex toy retail boutique Coco de Mer officially announced their Coco Club, featuring the glorious, gorgeous photo editorials, film collection, blog and much more. If you loved their short erotic film Honey and Bunny (site currently down) as much as I did, you'll really enjoy their stylish short […]
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married, with sex

12 June 2008
Image by Helmut Newton, via. As San Francisco prepares for next week's joyous parade of gleeful brides and grooms to walk down the aisle -- and SF's flower shops lose their minds -- it seems only fitting to dedicate this week's column to sex and marriage. So as I prep to […]
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bdsm doc trailer

10 June 2008
Image by local educators (and really nice guys) Two Knotty Boys. Today I was invited by Ms. Heart to the local Frameline premiere of the documentary BDSM: It's Not What You Think. Which is an oversimplified title for what looks like a really interesting documentary, and features some people I've spoken […]
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digita pub howto’s

9 June 2008
Self-portrait taken today with my Helio Ocean. Part of my goal with Digita Pub is to open source the ebook and audiobook self-publishing process. I have two tutorials coming up, but I've started with the Digita Pub FAQ's to explain how the whole thing works, and what software I use to […]
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I think

9 June 2008
... that the new Blackberry would totally beat the iPhone in a wet t-shirt contest, tits down. Or rather, tits up. Even though I'm waiting with baited breath for the new Helio Ocean, the Blackberry Bold is the hottest date in town right now. And I have a Nokia N95 […]
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[audio] open source sex 63: erotic adventures for couples

9 June 2008
Image for Latex Culture via Captive Girls. Phew! Finally! I'm podcasting again! It's been a while, because my podcast is such a labor of love (read: I don't get paid to do it, so I do it when I'm not scrambling for freelance gigs). But this one is really useful, and […]
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Zoe Margolis Breaks Up With Britain

9 June 2008
Image from my SXSW Sexual Privacy Online panel @ SXSW: Interactive, with Jason Schultz, Zoe Margolis, John D'Addario, Jonathan Moore and myself. Seeing as how I'm soaking in it, I'm fascinated with the constantly changing relationship sex bloggers have with sex and blogging. And through sex blogging, women's relationship with sex, […]
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new audiobook! erotic role play: a guide for couples

8 June 2008
I'm getting really, really proud of my little one-girl, self-publishing operation, Digita Publications. It's had little press and I've just been quietly working with various authors to create and sell inexpensive, DRM-free erotic audio and ebooks. And it's becoming a cult hit. I get email praise and orders every single […]
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the joy of (tristan taormino’s) sex (positivity)

8 June 2008
The whipsmart Penny Flame, brilliant Sinnamon Love, smiley mastermind Tristan Taormino and articulate sexbomb Adrianna Nicole (no personal website - yet). Last thursday I had a total blast with Tristan Taormino. We went to lunch and for the first time, had time to just chat, and we really really hit it […]
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tristan taormino visits sf

5 June 2008
Image via my Helio Ocean. Today I had lunch with Tristan Taormino, and I'm about to go down to the hotel she's herded a few porn stars into and interview them about Tristan's new video, Chemisty 3 Chemistry 4. Tristan's in town to celebrate that film and her new book Opening […]
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congratulations, babeland!

5 June 2008
I just want to say o hai CONGRATULATIONS to Babeland on opening their new Brooklyn store today! Sounds like they totally aced the usual media mini-firestorm and mini "there goes the neighborhood" hypefest in the process. Go, Babes!
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california wants to tax that ass

5 June 2008
Image "Obey" by hirnpflaster. This week's column is about the porn tax bill a California assemblytard wants to make into law, pretty much based on the notion that porn is bad. I'm oversimplifying -- a LITTLE -- and I'm about to run and meet Thomas and Tristan for lunch after a […]
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hot boy thursday rides again!

5 June 2008
Image of Kevin by Tony Duran, via kvclif2004. It's been too long since I've attended to my Hot Boy Thursday duties! So let me offer up the work of Tony Duran, and two male paysites with lots of freebees. If you haven't peeped Sean Cody in a while, pay him a […]
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I feel a really bitchy post coming on…

2 June 2008
No, I haven't seen Sex In The City. No, I have no plan to see it, ever, until there is a Peaches Christ Midnight Mass musical version that ends in drag queen soaked bloodshed and someone loses an eye with one of those goddamn Rabbit vibrators that Peaches heated with […]
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thank you, dark horse!

2 June 2008
Someone at Dark Horse thinks I have been a very good girl! And I have been: I even waited until after the requested brag-by date to squeal about my big box of Hellboy prezzies! Thank you!!!! I'm SO happy!!!! You can peep more of my Hellboy gifts here, including some […]
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pretty girl friday with mark rutherford

30 May 2008
My column about San Francisco's sex work clients was the #2 read item of the day on the Chronicle's website, got conservatives' knickers in a twist, and got a lot of praise. But the best compliment I got was from local photographer Mark Rutherford who said, "Must say I'm glad […]
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why ariel waldman’s twitter harassment is a serious call to social networking sites about stalkers

23 May 2008
Ariel under the mistletoe, my house NYE 2008; photo by our friend Scott Beale / Laughing Squid. If you haven't seen it yet, I highly urge you to read Ariel Waldman's incredibly brave (and chilling) post, Twitter refuses to uphold Terms of Service. It's being posted everywhere from Vivane's Sex Carnival […]
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a minute of keeping up with the lara jade story

23 May 2008
It was almost exactly a year ago when I wrote for the Chronicle about Lara Jade, whose image had been used without her permission for a porn boxcover -- and all the twisted, fucked up turns the story took. When I wrote the piece I actually got the guy […]
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